Anonymous wrote:The other PPs in this thread are ok with their children (of either sex) dating strippers?

Really?

Wow.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This entire thread is an example of how political correct and extreme left DCUM has become...that they defend kids dating strippers and call a perfectly ordinary concerned mom weird and controlling.

Seriously.

Exotic dancer has an incredibly different negative connotation from dancer

Everyone loves ballerinas, modern act dance.

Exotic dancer = stripper. I note the previous poster talking about "real dancers" didn't put the exotic part in. Stop defending the social stigma of being a stripper. Just because you protest we don't know another real dancers does not make the reality that being a stripper is shameful. I would be proud if my son brought a ballerina back, a stripper not to much.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This entire thread is an example of how political correct and extreme left DCUM has become...that they defend kids dating strippers and call a perfectly ordinary concerned mom weird and controlling.

Seriously.

Anonymous wrote:This entire thread is an example of how political correct and extreme left DCUM has become...that they defend kids dating strippers and call a perfectly ordinary concerned mom weird and controlling.

Anonymous wrote:Exotic dancer has an incredibly different negative connotation from dancer

Everyone loves ballerinas, modern act dance.

Exotic dancer = stripper. I note the previous poster talking about "real dancers" didn't put the exotic part in. Stop defending the social stigma of being a stripper. Just because you protest we don't know another real dancers does not make the reality that being a stripper is shameful. I would be proud if my son brought a ballerina back, a stripper not to much.

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Anonymous wrote:
I think a lot of pps are getting distracted by the profession of the gf here. the issue is not which people are and aren't acceptable. replace "stripper" with "lawyer" and reread the OP and her followup--it's F*CKED UP to think you have the right to control your kids that much for any reason. he has to make his own mistakes. if OP's only tool for dealing with that is setting silly rules about who she will/won't allow to cross her house's threshold, she is in for a tough few decades' relationship with her adult child.


it's fu**ed up that you think parent should play along with every idiotic idea their child has.


OP's son is in his late 20s. He isn't a child. He's a man. OP is delusional is she thinks she has any control over who "joins her family".

As for the stereotypical judgmental attitudes here about strippers, I can only conclude that none of you know any actual dancers in real life.

The stupid on this thread is surprising, even for DCUM.


Yes and I have no wish to know any real dancers... Don't give it a euphemism, you mean strippers in real life.


It isn't a euphemism. It is a pretty common term when referring to strippers.


They're strippers. And I'm an NP. Not dancers. S-T-R-I-P-P-E-R-S.

And before you get all defensive, no I don't have a problem with women who strip. Fine by me, no shame in it, you're talking to a pretty wild ex-party girl who had the time of her life in college. I don't give a shit about stripping from a moral standpoint. What I do have a problem with is strippers who think they need to pretend to be something than they actually are in order to feel legitimate. It's like Sasha Grey insisting that her porn is "art" and that she's a porn star for intellectual men because she reads Sartre during sex or some nonsense. Um, no honey, you're a porn star and sex isn't art or an intellectual pursuit, it's just a fun human activity.

Same way, strippers may dance but we all know they are not being watched for the grace of their form, their precision, or the beautiful art of their dance, like a ballerina in Swan Lake or even a sophisticated geisha dancing to the shamisen for her gentlemen customers. They're being watched for their raw sex appeal and the slowly-getting-almost-naked part. So let's not call them dancers. They are strippers.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op rule is not weird at all. My mom told me the same thing, she said she was tired of cooking dinners for multiple boyfriends and to only bring home the ones I was serious about. It's just like you don't bring home random partners to meet your you children, maybe your family does not want to make an effort to get to know Tom sick and Harry or the female equivalent.

Agreed. I have no idea what kind of families the other PPs belong to, but it's like we don't even live on the same planet. Half of these PPs are just bizarre people.

I guess you all don't value your parents' time, energy and their emotional investment in your random, casual boyfriends/girlfriends? You don't respect them enough to keep away people who aren't at least 70% likely to become a real part of your parents' life? Ok. Glad I wasn't raise in a family like the rest of the PPs then!

And seriously those saying dating a stripper is ok are full of it, including the stripper who ama. Emotionally damaged people may be good people but does not mean they are ideal or one has to be happy if your child is dating them. Think about it, strippers rub their bodies over strange men for a living, how proud for one to be part of your family.i stead of listening to one stripper gloss over her experiences, why don't you check out this forum called hustle hit where strippers swap tips how to get as much money as possible by leading men along. Op has a right to be worried, for those condemning her hope your kids date strippers somesay. The next thing people will be saying bringing back a hooker is ok.

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/forumdisplay.php...d39d0105b3501c758d7030123b4da3

+100000

All the bleeding hearts and angry strippers in this thread are taking the lazy way out and accusing us of being close-minded, judgmental or somehow unfair. Nobody is saying strippers are evil people. All people are inherently good and worthy of living a happy life. I hope all strippers find happiness. However, that doesn't mean I'm going to risk the well-being of my own family member. I am not blind to statistics. Strippers may not be evil. They ARE, however, significantly more likely to be very damaged people. By the exemplary logic exhibited in this thread, I guess all of you PPs wouldn't mind your daughters dating narcoterrorists from Honduras because why judge the young man on the basis of hundreds of other violent drug-dealers in his position? Keep an open mind! He might not belong to a gang like MS-13 or eventually destroy your precious daughter's life! Why not risk her happiness for the sake of being politically correct and open-minded?

Again, I am SO THANKFUL I was not raised in a family like this.

Anonymous wrote:Op rule is not weird at all. My mom told me the same thing, she said she was tired of cooking dinners for multiple boyfriends and to only bring home the ones I was serious about. It's just like you don't bring home random partners to meet your you children, maybe your family does not want to make an effort to get to know Tom sick and Harry or the female equivalent.

And seriously those saying dating a stripper is ok are full of it, including the stripper who ama. Emotionally damaged people may be good people but does not mean they are ideal or one has to be happy if your child is dating them. Think about it, strippers rub their bodies over strange men for a living, how proud for one to be part of your family.i stead of listening to one stripper gloss over her experiences, why don't you check out this forum called hustle hit where strippers swap tips how to get as much money as possible by leading men along. Op has a right to be worried, for those condemning her hope your kids date strippers somesay. The next thing people will be saying bringing back a hooker is ok.

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/forumdisplay.php...d39d0105b3501c758d7030123b4da3