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Anonymous wrote:I'm surprised long hair has been mentioned so many times.

because long hair is feminine and short hair really is unattractive UNLESS you have world class facial features and striking eyes.

even your typical 'hot' woman doesn't have these things.

Kaley Cuoco's recent haircut is a good example. She's beyond hot, but she knocked herself down several pegs by that god awful haircut she got. If that's what it does to movie star pretty, imagine what the average husband feels like when his pretty - but not movie star pretty - wife comes home with the mommy-bob. Even if he's still interested in sex, the haircut is a big sign she isn't.

kaley cuoco isn't really hotter than your average KKG usc girl. there are a lot of beach bunny hotties that look as good in beach towns like her.

Charlize THeron, Anne Hathaway can pull it off because they are extremely facially good looking.

plus you have to have the attitude for it. I went out with a girl (white) who shaved hear head, and it wasn't the best look for her (i thought), but she had a bigger than life vivacious attitude. piercings, sleeve tattoo, killer body - she made it work. dc mommies do not have this look.

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Anonymous wrote:I am recently single and this thread makes me feel pretty good about spending Valentines Day alone this year...lol.

No longer relevant. The fiancee only wanted to marry him because his remains would be hers when he died, and she planned to put his body on display.

He called off the wedding when he found out.

How can you say this is no longer relevant.

It's why my wife married me.

The bob aversion is bullshit. I was a working model in my teens and into my 20s. I had to keep my hair at chin length or else o would book as many jobs. My face is long and it rounded me out a bit. I lived in the beauty industry every single day. A haircut should complement the shape of your face. Period.

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Anonymous wrote:ambition, intelligence, and confidence are important.

wearing clothes that fit and emphasize your positive physical attributes is a big deal - not everyone needs to wear short skirts or show cleavage. But, wearing bulky unfitted clothing make even the best looking woman less attractive. If you have great legs, wear heels and skirts. If you've got a great waist, make sure you wear something that shows it instead of covering it.

Ambition will make a woman more attractive? Nah, I don't think so.

I'm the pp. I can't believe so many have rejected ambition as a sexy/attractive feature in a woman.

I can't believe you'd prefer a woman who is just plain satisfied and getting by with a dead end or limiting job and life. I want a woman who wants to achieve something more. It doesn't necessarily mean she wants to be CEO but it means she's not going to be satisfied being a SAHM or part time non-professional just because that's a safe mommy job.

I don't think my DH realized this, but I'm certain this is part of what attracted him to me, and it changed when I became a SAHM because I started lowering the priority of my own personal growth. Things have changed now and we're both much happier.

I'm tempted to chop mine to shoulder length, but so afraid it will look too mommyish.

Do you prefer messy long hair that "Mommy" has no time to style over a bob? Or equally bad?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm surprised long hair has been mentioned so many times.

because long hair is feminine and short hair really is unattractive UNLESS you have world class facial features and striking eyes.

even your typical 'hot' woman doesn't have these things.

Kaley Cuoco's recent haircut is a good example. She's beyond hot, but she knocked herself down several pegs by that god awful haircut she got. If that's what it does to movie star pretty, imagine what the average husband feels like when his pretty - but not movie star pretty - wife comes home with the mommy-bob. Even if he's still interested in sex, the haircut is a big sign she isn't.

Anonymous wrote:LOL We are all going to get old, fat, bald and all you can think of to stay attractive is physical. So sad.

How about stay active and participate in the same activities that brought us together. Be there to help through hard times and know you have my back. When we are old and grey keep me laughing and having fun in life.

No reason to get fat before you have to. A huge part of that is remaining active. For me, I don't really see a "reason" to get fat before menopause. I'm sure once that hits it will biologically be much more difficult to remain the same size. Men really have no excuse to get fat. They have testosterone on their side.

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Anonymous wrote:I am recently single and this thread makes me feel pretty good about spending Valentines Day alone this year...lol.

No longer relevant. The fiancee only wanted to marry him because his remains would be hers when he died, and she planned to put his body on display.

He called off the wedding when he found out.

Anonymous wrote:Copy everything Shannon tweed does as she ages.

I can't afford that much plastic surgery.

Anonymous wrote:I'm surprised long hair has been mentioned so many times.

because long hair is feminine and short hair really is unattractive UNLESS you have world class facial features and striking eyes.

even your typical 'hot' woman doesn't have these things.

Copy everything Shannon tweed does as she ages.

Sexual enthusiasm is the most attractive thing, IMO.

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Anonymous wrote:Lets use this thread to have the wonderful gentleman on here talk about what they think makes women more attractive to them. Gentlemen, what can us women do to make ourselves more attractive to you? Have longer hair? Wear more dresses? Nag less? etc.

Definitely nag less.

Honesty, that's about 80 percent of it. Also, don't get fat.

Those two accomplishments will instantly place you in the 90th percentile of women.

How much over ideal weight is OK in your opinion? 5, 10, 20?

LOL We are all going to get old, fat, bald and all you can think of to stay attractive is physical. So sad.

How about stay active and participate in the same activities that brought us together. Be there to help through hard times and know you have my back. When we are old and grey keep me laughing and having fun in life.