Anonymous wrote:[quote=Anonymous]Duke here.
My college roommate's son got accepted to Harvard, EA. No legacy, no hook that I know of, and he's white. He goes to a extremely small school in rural Wisconsin (like the type of town where there are more cows than people), where getting into an Ivy is almost unheard of- getting into UW-Madison is a huge deal. I was really happy for him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Harvard. Not completely unexpected (DH has degrees from undergraduate and the Harvard Law School), but still a relief. We're very proud of DS.
I, too, am HLS. No dog in the fight this year but coming up in a few years. Do you mind if I ask if your DH gave a lot of money to either undergrad or grad at Harvard and do you think it made a difference? What I can give is nowhere near the six and seven digit figure I'm hearing that actually may make a difference for DC (who has all the other necessary credentials in their own right).
You should read the book "The Price of Admissions..." that will answer your question.....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Harvard. Not completely unexpected (DH has degrees from undergraduate and the Harvard Law School), but still a relief. We're very proud of DS.
I, too, am HLS. No dog in the fight this year but coming up in a few years. Do you mind if I ask if your DH gave a lot of money to either undergrad or grad at Harvard and do you think it made a difference? What I can give is nowhere near the six and seven digit figure I'm hearing that actually may make a difference for DC (who has all the other necessary credentials in their own right).
I have a friend who Harvard tried to 'extort' money from, i.e. 'we will let your kid in, if you donate X'. Pretty shitty behavior if you ask me. He passed.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is a website for parents. Really!
WTH is your point?
My point is someone said, "congrats!" a response that could only be suitable for a student. the parent didn't get in anywhere.
Anonymous wrote:DS got his first acceptance too. Penn State.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are these students or parents posting. If it's the former, congrats! If it's parents, really?
Haven't you noticed the trend? It is like "we are pregnant"... "we applied to harvard"
As an older parent of several older children, one already out of the house, I can honestly say that those many, many long (and often stressful) years of child rearing - reveling with them in their joys, comforting them in their disappointments, caring for them in sickness, playing and sharing leisure and vacations them in health - felt like one protracted act of birthing. When my oldest earned their admissions to colleges, it was a moment to celebrate and share that news with others, sort of like a birth announcement. So no, I think that parents, in raising their children those many years, have earned the right to shout their joy from the rooftops, and proclaim it with ringing endorsements from the church rafters, if that is what they want.
Precisely! And on that note: DS got into University of Florida. I am not sure he will end up going there, it was his safety school but I am still very much proud of him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are these students or parents posting. If it's the former, congrats! If it's parents, really?
Haven't you noticed the trend? It is like "we are pregnant"... "we applied to harvard"
As an older parent of several older children, one already out of the house, I can honestly say that those many, many long (and often stressful) years of child rearing - reveling with them in their joys, comforting them in their disappointments, caring for them in sickness, playing and sharing leisure and vacations them in health - felt like one protracted act of birthing. When my oldest earned their admissions to colleges, it was a moment to celebrate and share that news with others, sort of like a birth announcement. So no, I think that parents, in raising their children those many years, have earned the right to shout their joy from the rooftops, and proclaim it with ringing endorsements from the church rafters, if that is what they want.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are these students or parents posting. If it's the former, congrats! If it's parents, really?
Haven't you noticed the trend? It is like "we are pregnant"... "we applied to harvard"