Anonymous wrote:I showed this to DH and he laughed and said, "I would tell her not to say anything." (He also said, "Hey, how come that never happened to me at a party?"

He says as long it was a one-time lapse in judgment, keep quiet and carry on. That's coming from a guy, and from what I've seen of the guys responding on here, that seems to be the consensus. Women are judging you more harshly. (And I have to admit I was surprised by your story too, but not really disapproving from a moral perspective since I think consenting adults can make their own decisions and morals don't factor in.)

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Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.
otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.
I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

This behavior is a little bit extreme, don't you think?

We aren't talking about a four or so guys over a coiple of years, months or even weeks, or a couple of noysfirends and a one night stand.

We are talking about a bunch of strangers in one night in the same room with you girlfriend along for the ride.

Even if you don't throw around the word, this kind of takes the cake for skanky slut behavior.

So, she should go live in a convent now? She is forever tainted goods?

No, but she needs to own her sluttiness. This goes far beyond the oops! I accidentally slept with the guy scenario. The girl is wild. Why mislead the guy into thinking she has never had a casual encouter? Blowing multiple strangera is not a starting point or a one time event for a sexual experience.

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Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.
otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.
I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

This behavior is a little bit extreme, don't you think?

We aren't talking about a four or so guys over a coiple of years, months or even weeks, or a couple of noysfirends and a one night stand.

We are talking about a bunch of strangers in one night in the same room with you girlfriend along for the ride.

Even if you don't throw around the word, this kind of takes the cake for skanky slut behavior.

So, she should go live in a convent now? She is forever tainted goods?

Anonymous wrote:AND she is posting it online for the whole world to see? Trash, tramp, whatever. Some old dude with no class and lots of cash will marry her if she looks likes she is 25, has a perfect set of fake boobs and will willingly do what she confessed to in her OP to all of his board members. Sounds fun, no?

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Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.

otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.

I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

This behavior is a little bit extreme, don't you think?

We aren't talking about a four or so guys over a coiple of years, months or even weeks, or a couple of noysfirends and a one night stand.

We are talking about a bunch of strangers in one night in the same room with you girlfriend along for the ride.

Even if you don't throw around the word, this kind of takes the cake for skanky slut behavior.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.

otherwise it just gets messy IMO

If anything, this thread proves why sexual histories should NOT be shared. Someone gets drunk, blows a few guys, now she's tainted goods in the eyes of many of you. She'd be better off just denying it.

I feel like I am reading the Scarlet Letter. I guess some things don't change.

Anonymous wrote:i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.

otherwise it just gets messy IMO