Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 15:16     Subject: DW Does this Sh*t All the Time
Anonymous wrote:You sound like an ass. Ok. So you are far more important than your wife. We get it. Go tell a judge. You get huge child support and alimony and every other weekend visits. You said you are too busy to take your kid to school. So, how would parenting without her be?

Now, if I were you, I would say you are sorry and do something nice for her given all the hours you are working.


this response is a joke, right?? Tell your wife to put on her big girl panties, and step the fuck up! I swear, I have never seen so many whiny stay at home moms in all my life, and yes , I am a SAHM.
Damn, you would think they never heard the term multitask. Unless you have very small children, there is no reason she cant manage the household. My daughter is 15, and there are no lights on our street, so I get up EVERY morning and watch her at the bus stop 6:30 am. Sure I would like to sleep in, but, how would i look asking my husband to get up, when he has to go to the office and work late.
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 07:33     Subject: Re:DW Does this Sh*t All the Time
Divorce her, OP!

I've been in your situation and it does not get better. Some women (and men) are just screwed up and it is a losing battle to try and salvage the situation.

Here you have a SAH mother who does not want to do something totally basic when you are the one who is financially supporting the family.
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2014 01:12     Subject: DW Does this Sh*t All the Time
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:But the underlying issue is DW is NPD/BPD.


Diagnosed by whom, OP? You? And what kind of treatment does she get? If you really think her behavior is attributable to a disease, why wouldn't you be supportive instead of berating her? I'm not saying mental illness gives someone carte blanche to be a jerk, but I'm put off by your contemptuous tone and the assumption that your wife is "crazy" and thus nothing she says could ever be valid or make sense. It takes TWO people to make a marriage, and even if you're not leaving out important details about this morning (which I still think you may be), I can guarantee that what she did today is part of a larger long-standing dynamic that you have BOTH created. I don't know you so I can't say what you are doing to contribute to the situation, but I guarantee it is plenty.

The one who loses out in all of this is your daughter. As a PP pointed out, you are setting an example for how she will view marriage and relationships for the rest of her life. It may seem like she is on your "side" now, but she's going to grow up resenting both of you. I suggest you find ways to meet your wife where she is and respect her as a person, or else just leave. Nobody thinks they can afford it, but a good parent would move heaven and earth to find a way to keep their kid out of a damaging situation.


NP here. I am betting it is HPD. Look into it, OP.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2014 14:01     Subject: DW Does this Sh*t All the Time
Anonymous wrote:Y'all muhfuh's love some drama don't you

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