Anonymous wrote:I would want to know, nosey neighbor or not. I don't have low self esteem enough to stay in a marriage in which my partner is intimate with someone else.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

Ha ha! I knew it! OP is a nasty bitch who has already told half the neighborhood. All this talk of trying to do the right thing. And her perverted husband taking pictures!

What a bunch of nasty low-lifes. Karma is a bitch and it's gonna get you!

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

Anonymous wrote:Lmao. I can't believe all the posters are hating on OP, saying she's going to break up a marriage and is horrible. ....are you fucking kidding me??? OP isn't the one stepping out like her two loser pig neighbors. Bunch of cheating asses on here.

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

Anonymous wrote:

I LIVE NEXT TO THESE PEOPLE FOR HEAVENS SAKE & JUST BOUGHT A BRAND NEW EXPENSIVE HOUSE. But the fact is that they are having an affair. I know that they are having an affair and my husband actually took a picture to show me because he knew I wouldnt believe it. That was a while ago and we noticed a bunch of other stuff after. I am not some crazy old lady making things up about neighbors because I am bored.

I would not be getting involved except that my conscious is really weighing on me.

You sound really awful what with the mention of your BRAND NEW EXPENSIVE "new construction" house. What relevance is any of that? Also, it is your conscience that is allegedly weighing on you, not your "conscious."

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

Anonymous wrote:Oh yeah right. It's burgundy woods and everyone knows who they are. If you don't say something I will.

Anonymous wrote:Op isn't posting anymore but as a np, I don't get all the hate being spewed. She has a dilemma. It's valid. She's torn up because she can see herself in the pregnant lady's shoes. I get it. I would want someone to tell me. It is humiliating that the whole block knows. But that's not relevant to the question of Myob unless she knows for certain what the pregnant lady's position is on wanting to know. Whether I told would depend on the closeness of my friendship. I would be MYOB with any of my neighbors because I am not close. But I could never keep a secret like that from a best friend who had previously told me she'd want to know.