Anonymous wrote:This thread is so interesting. As someone who could have easily "landed" this sort of guy, I just don't understand the draw. I came from the (very odd?) old money family that highly discouraged my sisters and I from dating the type of guy you describe, who wanted more than anything for us to find "regular" middle class guys who work hard and have big hearts. They would have been seriously concerned and disappointed if we'd married into what you describe, and growing up around many of these sorts of guys, I found them mostly pretty repugnant, not to mention very boring. Very few good apples. I do realize of course that this just makes me a different sort of snob. But that whole scene is just SO unappealing to me.
Anonymous wrote:Or London. Forgot to add London.
Anonymous wrote:
The amount of educated white men who date black women is absolutely tiny. A few will have sex with them just to tell their friends about it though.
There's a reason craigslist is crawling with black women. Bottom of the ladder.
Anonymous wrote:Do NOT date anyone from an old South family. Just don't. Don't don't don't.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - if you want to meet WASPs join a social club in Georgetown - like the City Tavern Club or the Georgetown Club - you can join these for under $1000 (maybe less) plus the quarterly minimums for food/drink ... but they are a good way to meet people.
I know quite a few WASPs who date AA women....just dress preppy and have your tennis whites ready too for a date! lol
The amount of educated white men who date black women is absolutely tiny. A few will have sex with them just to tell their friends about it though.
There's a reason craigslist is crawling with black women. Bottom of the ladder.
I was always under the impression that 99.999% of the posts for women seeking men on Craigslist were fake.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - if you want to meet WASPs join a social club in Georgetown - like the City Tavern Club or the Georgetown Club - you can join these for under $1000 (maybe less) plus the quarterly minimums for food/drink ... but they are a good way to meet people.
I know quite a few WASPs who date AA women....just dress preppy and have your tennis whites ready too for a date! lol
The amount of educated white men who date black women is absolutely tiny. A few will have sex with them just to tell their friends about it though.
There's a reason craigslist is crawling with black women. Bottom of the ladder.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, I commend you for having the self-awareness to know what you're looking for, but as you say you are interested in this culture, I must caution you: These types are often insufferable horrors as mates. Good luck, but don't say we didn't tell you.
+1
Anonymous wrote:OP - if you want to meet WASPs join a social club in Georgetown - like the City Tavern Club or the Georgetown Club - you can join these for under $1000 (maybe less) plus the quarterly minimums for food/drink ... but they are a good way to meet people.
I know quite a few WASPs who date AA women....just dress preppy and have your tennis whites ready too for a date! lol
Anonymous wrote:They live in NoVA (I live here now, but I am from Silver Spring). They are from McLean/Great Falls.
Try some of the bars/restaurants in the Reston Town Center. That is pretty super white NoVA boy heaven up in there. Try the Italian place there (the bar area) or Clyde's. Maybe there are newer places now, it's been a while.
I cannot believe I am making suggestions. : /