Anonymous wrote:It is pretty racist to ask how an entire population feels about another population--as if all people or sex of a certain race think in lockstep. If you want to know how an individual white male feels about a black women then ask him. Any further extrapolation is racist nonsense.

I think its pretty friggin pretentious to get all up in other people's love life. How the hell is it either your business or your concern how certain men feel about certain women romantically?

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Anonymous wrote:It is pretty racist to ask how an entire population feels about another population--as if all people or sex of a certain race think in lockstep. If you want to know how an individual white male feels about a black women then ask him. Any further extrapolation is racist nonsense.

America is racist though. Have you not seen the hogwash the media feeds us? WM with BW is still a minority and people on this thread are just curious why that is. I guess we all know the answer deep in ourselves why that coupling and others are what they are but we need validation on an anon forum.

All interracial relationships are still a minority

I think the first quoted PP is right: the question is inherently racist; or requires an inherently racist response.

The problem with the word "racism" is that people want to use to two ways: they want a definition so expansive that it will capture even unconscious bias - perhaps inevitable bias because our experiences of the society and culture (and therefore our frame for viewing the world) are so different - and yet still want the word "racist" to carry the same pejorative shaming that conscious bias does. As they say in the law: intent matters.

I believe interracial relationships are a minority, though growing, because one of the important things to think about when choosing a partner is having someone who you can relate to and understand. A huge part of that is having a shared set of references and background experiences. Given how differently people from different ethnic, pigment and economic backgrounds experience this country (for example, justice in this country depends on the lawyer you can hire), so it's harder to find someone where you relate that way. Certainly many people are better able than others to reach across differences.

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Anonymous wrote:It is pretty racist to ask how an entire population feels about another population--as if all people or sex of a certain race think in lockstep. If you want to know how an individual white male feels about a black women then ask him. Any further extrapolation is racist nonsense.

America is racist though. Have you not seen the hogwash the media feeds us? WM with BW is still a minority and people on this thread are just curious why that is. I guess we all know the answer deep in ourselves why that coupling and others are what they are but we need validation on an anon forum.

All interracial relationships are still a minority

Anonymous wrote:It is pretty racist to ask how an entire population feels about another population--as if all people or sex of a certain race think in lockstep. If you want to know how an individual white male feels about a black women then ask him. Any further extrapolation is racist nonsense.

America is racist though. Have you not seen the hogwash the media feeds us? WM with BW is still a minority and people on this thread are just curious why that is. I guess we all know the answer deep in ourselves why that coupling and others are what they are but we need validation on an anon forum.

It is pretty racist to ask how an entire population feels about another population--as if all people or sex of a certain race think in lockstep. If you want to know how an individual white male feels about a black women then ask him. Any further extrapolation is racist nonsense.

That's why I love watching Scandal. Olivia Pope has 2 of 'em!

Anonymous wrote:To add to the OP's question, why do white men only stare? There's one I know that's interested in an AA woman but he will only watch and stare at her. Won't speak, say hi, say hello, smile, nothing but stare at her, LOL. I'm like go talk to her and he'll just sit there and stare.

PP here - and on pervious threads like this in the past.

The reason is subconsciously I think hot black girls all have a horde of ballers like john wall that holla at them, so I'm like shit "i have no chance".

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Anonymous wrote:Most are just not attractive, sorry.

White people smell like dead body

I thought it was wet dog.

I don't think white people smell bad.

White women skin get so thin and loses firmness/suppleness so quickly. I'm talking about 27 year olds.

That's why the baddest bitches are yellow bones. White people facial/bone structure is my favorite but that epidermis is not cool.

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Anonymous wrote:Most are just not attractive, sorry.

White people smell like dead body

I thought it was wet dog.

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Anonymous wrote:WM here. I can't say how white men in general feel (as if there even was a consensus on such a thing) but generally, nope, I'm not physically attracted to most African American women.

I'm even less attracted to the LOUD attitude. I have no problem with strong, accomplished women, but in my experience people who are loud and aggressive aren't strong, they're overcompensating. I certainly feel the same way about the mountain mommas in Appalachia (and other misc. country girls out in ex-urbia) too.

I don't meet very many educated, accomplished African American women in my daily life, though, so my "sample size" may be invalid. I have known and been attracted to a few in the course of my life.

You must not live in DC or any other major city

You crack me up; I live in not-yet-worth. I am surrounded.

Anonymous wrote:If you know your sample size is small then you shouldn't spout off such stereotypes. It's just as bad as those who say all white men have small penises or are bad in bed compared to black men.

First, nice try, but no cigar: I'm not insecure about my size. Stereotypes exist in the culture precisely because they reflect a broadly recognized and agreed upon phenomenon. Waah.

Second, I was upfront about qualifying my statement, and Third, did you not see the part where I said was attracted to some? I've dated a couple and slept with one - I'm not a racist troll.

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Anonymous wrote:The PP you quoted has clearly not traveled Appalachia and Ozarks if he thinks nutrition and leisure time to exercise are "white things".

You finding a lot of average to above-average white women in Appalachia and the Ozarks?

On the other hand, this makes me wonder about Ukrainian women. They seem to have a lot of beauties. I don't know that they have a lot of money and leisure time, relative to your average U.S. city dweller.

Supply-demand dictates why EE women dedicate themselves to trying to look pretty.

There are a lot more women than men as EE men are either dead, dying, or undesirable in large numbers. This imbalance forces women to step their game up if they want a man because they have compete with so many other women.

Furthermore, because they aren't economically liberated enough to not need a guy like your average educated big city American white girl, they know they need to maximize their beauty.

Well, EE women, too, since Estonia's got the worst (for women) male-female ratio in the world. I dunno if the surplus is all in the 50+ set though.

Anonymous wrote:Most are just not attractive, sorry.

White people smell like dead body

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Anonymous wrote:The PP you quoted has clearly not traveled Appalachia and Ozarks if he thinks nutrition and leisure time to exercise are "white things".

You finding a lot of average to above-average white women in Appalachia and the Ozarks?

On the other hand, this makes me wonder about Ukrainian women. They seem to have a lot of beauties. I don't know that they have a lot of money and leisure time, relative to your average U.S. city dweller.

Supply-demand dictates why EE women dedicate themselves to trying to look pretty.

There are a lot more women than men as EE men are either dead, dying, or undesirable in large numbers. This imbalance forces women to step their game up if they want a man because they have compete with so many other women.

Furthermore, because they aren't economically liberated enough to not need a guy like your average educated big city American white girl, they know they need to maximize their beauty.

Joking?

This applies to AA women even more, so they should be the most beautiful women in the entire universe!!

"There are a lot more women than men as EE (AA) men are either dead, dying, (IN PRISON) or undesirable in large numbers."

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I can't speak for EE women/men, but meeting professional AA men is pretty easy if you travel in those circles. DC is a mecca for black professionals and no, 90% aren't women. Most AA professional men I know date interracially but ultimately marry AA women. The only reason AA men with White women stands out is because AA women are the least likely of all women to be open to dating other races. AA men marry AA women at the highest rate compared to other races.

Congrats! Don't take it personally, but The New York Times just devoted a full article to proving you wrong:
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/26/opinion/sunday/forcing-black-men-out-of-society.html?

Soon we will see black beauties in every corner!

You do realize that you are talking about two different populations right? That 1/6 would not have been someone that the professional black woman would have dated anyway. You are comparing apples to oranges.

+1. Exactly!

To add to the OP's question, why do white men only stare? There's one I know that's interested in an AA woman but he will only watch and stare at her. Won't speak, say hi, say hello, smile, nothing but stare at her, LOL. I'm like go talk to her and he'll just sit there and stare.