Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:9, 12. $0.
I paid for all 3 of my degrees on my own. I worked full time while in school. I valued my degrees and worked my ass off. My bothers joined the military and used the GI bill. My sister paid for her bachelor and masters degrees.
My parents paid for my college degree 100%. I valued my degree as well and also worked my butt of at school. Paying for ones college does not make one value it any more than someone who does not have to pay for college. Being raised by parents to appreciate what you are given is more important than what you are (or are not) given.
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My parents put their six children through private colleges and universities, debt-free. They were not wealthy but they were very hard-working and placed a priority on quality higher education.
We all understood that school was expensive and that my parents had worked hard to make sure we were educated. We were all expected to work and contribute to tuition and to our living expenses, and we did.
And in the end, we were all very well-prepared for life and very grateful to our parents.
They clearly weren't working or lower middle class if they could afford 6 private school tuitions debt free. Or this was a REALLY long time ago.
I didn't say they were working or lower middle class. But they were not wealthy by any means. They did prioritize education and did not want us to have debt.
The point is, we understand what it took to pull it off, and are grateful. None of us partied our way through school and we all worked as hard as our parents did to make it happen.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:9, 12. $0.
I paid for all 3 of my degrees on my own. I worked full time while in school. I valued my degrees and worked my ass off. My bothers joined the military and used the GI bill. My sister paid for her bachelor and masters degrees.
My parents paid for my college degree 100%. I valued my degree as well and also worked my butt of at school. Paying for ones college does not make one value it any more than someone who does not have to pay for college. Being raised by parents to appreciate what you are given is more important than what you are (or are not) given.
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My parents put their six children through private colleges and universities, debt-free. They were not wealthy but they were very hard-working and placed a priority on quality higher education.
We all understood that school was expensive and that my parents had worked hard to make sure we were educated. We were all expected to work and contribute to tuition and to our living expenses, and we did.
And in the end, we were all very well-prepared for life and very grateful to our parents.
They clearly weren't working or lower middle class if they could afford 6 private school tuitions debt free. Or this was a REALLY long time ago.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:9, 12. $0.
I paid for all 3 of my degrees on my own. I worked full time while in school. I valued my degrees and worked my ass off. My bothers joined the military and used the GI bill. My sister paid for her bachelor and masters degrees.
My parents paid for my college degree 100%. I valued my degree as well and also worked my butt of at school. Paying for ones college does not make one value it any more than someone who does not have to pay for college. Being raised by parents to appreciate what you are given is more important than what you are (or are not) given.
+1
My parents put their six children through private colleges and universities, debt-free. They were not wealthy but they were very hard-working and placed a priority on quality higher education.
We all understood that school was expensive and that my parents had worked hard to make sure we were educated. We were all expected to work and contribute to tuition and to our living expenses, and we did.
And in the end, we were all very well-prepared for life and very grateful to our parents.
Anonymous wrote:How much do y'all plan to save total, as in, where would you stop?
Anonymous wrote:9, 12. $0.
I paid for all 3 of my degrees on my own. I worked full time while in school. I valued my degrees and worked my ass off. My bothers joined the military and used the GI bill. My sister paid for her bachelor and masters degrees.
Anonymous wrote:We have 4 children: 6, 4, 3 and 1. We have about $40K per child but that came from inheritance of mine that we decided to set aside for them to start college.
However, as a college drop out, and now full time grad school student who has FORKED her own way through school, I feel like paying for my child's education isn't a responsibility but a gift or a privilege to them for graduating. I've worked my ass off-- paid my own loans, worked, gotten married, had children-- and am still making it without Mom and Dad forking the bill.
We may even, depending on the situation, not even tell the children about the money UNTIL they graduate. That way, they won't be partying on my dime. And, I am 25-- and no that a lot of college is sleeping around and getting drunk.
I am in no way saying that every child will party like I did, just to clarify.