Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 16:12     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A friend transferred her middle school son there this year from another private. She said it was a great move -- the sense of community, hard work, respect, male teachers -- all made a positive impact on her son and she and her DH noticed significant change in his attitude towards school plus increased maturity. He has ADHD and doing well in school. BTW, the family is politically liberal, Christian with some conservative values.

They are trying to convince us to check out the school for our DS. I too need more feedback.

are you sure you are talking about the correct school? Politically liberal and the Heights do not go together. I was raised roman catholic and still belong to a relatively liberal catholic parish in nw. There is no way I could relate to anything at this school. I grew up in the area and have been familiar with it for years.


PP here, YES I agree. Friends say they are liberal, Democrats but when they open their mouths to express opinions they are clearly NOT!
I am mostly conservative and, despite their alleged party alignments, some of their views are more conservative than mine.


Their views on politics and the role of government or their views on their own personal morality?
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 16:11     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Of course The Heights should stay as it is. But be clear, the Vatican recently implemented rules to assure that No Opus Dei can become bishops. Opus Dei, to Catholics, is a conservative offshoot of Catholicism. And the Diocese does not include The Heights. Frankly Opus Dei is a chilling offshoot and I wish they wouldn’t call themselves Catholic.


This is a misrepresentation of what the Vatican ordered. According to Catholic News Agency, the prelate (head) of Opus Dei may no longer be a bishop. That doesn't mean that bishops may not be affiliated with Opus Dei or participate in its formation, retreats, recollections, etc. There are bishops and diocesan priests whose ministries are not centered around Opus Dei but who are part of Opus Dei. Does that make sense?

I am not personally part of Opus Dei, but I find its focus on growing in holiness through our everyday lives to be valuable. Most people who attend Opus Dei activities aren't officially "members" of Opus Dei.

FWIW we have a son at The Heights and love it. It's not perfect, but no place is perfect.

Here's a link to the CNA article I mentioned above: https://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/252270/opus-dei-s-prelate-asks-for-prayers-for-reform-ordered-by-pope-francis


Thank you so much for clarifying this, PP.

I find this board’s persistent criticism of the Heights to be really strange. Lots of people who criticize the Catholic Church for being a hierarchical corrupt institution also criticize the Heights for being an offshoot that the (corrupt, hierarchical!) Archdiocese doesn’t officially recognize as a Catholic school. I think people mean this criticism to be something like “OMG, EVEN the awful Catholic Church thinks Opus Dei is awful!” But that’s not what it looks like to me at all. Opus Dei has a lot of lay people (and some clergy too) who run programs and schools independently from the church hierarchy. I think it’s an example of lay people putting the clergy in its place and saying, look, we can live as good Catholics on our own.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 16:07     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A friend transferred her middle school son there this year from another private. She said it was a great move -- the sense of community, hard work, respect, male teachers -- all made a positive impact on her son and she and her DH noticed significant change in his attitude towards school plus increased maturity. He has ADHD and doing well in school. BTW, the family is politically liberal, Christian with some conservative values.

They are trying to convince us to check out the school for our DS. I too need more feedback.

are you sure you are talking about the correct school? Politically liberal and the Heights do not go together. I was raised roman catholic and still belong to a relatively liberal catholic parish in nw. There is no way I could relate to anything at this school. I grew up in the area and have been familiar with it for years.


PP here, YES I agree. Friends say they are liberal, Democrats but when they open their mouths to express opinions they are clearly NOT!
I am mostly conservative and, despite their alleged party alignments, some of their views are more conservative than mine.


They may be old school “union” democrats who don’t realize that the left has left them.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 15:55     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A friend transferred her middle school son there this year from another private. She said it was a great move -- the sense of community, hard work, respect, male teachers -- all made a positive impact on her son and she and her DH noticed significant change in his attitude towards school plus increased maturity. He has ADHD and doing well in school. BTW, the family is politically liberal, Christian with some conservative values.

They are trying to convince us to check out the school for our DS. I too need more feedback.

are you sure you are talking about the correct school? Politically liberal and the Heights do not go together. I was raised roman catholic and still belong to a relatively liberal catholic parish in nw. There is no way I could relate to anything at this school. I grew up in the area and have been familiar with it for years.


PP here, YES I agree. Friends say they are liberal, Democrats but when they open their mouths to express opinions they are clearly NOT!
I am mostly conservative and, despite their alleged party alignments, some of their views are more conservative than mine.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 15:08     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Of course The Heights should stay as it is. But be clear, the Vatican recently implemented rules to assure that No Opus Dei can become bishops. Opus Dei, to Catholics, is a conservative offshoot of Catholicism. And the Diocese does not include The Heights. Frankly Opus Dei is a chilling offshoot and I wish they wouldn’t call themselves Catholic.


The Heights is not a Catholic school.

They lost the designation a few years ago.


Do you know why? I’m curious.


I believe that arose from The Heights not wanting to abide by some of the requirements of the Diocese of Washington. Didn't change anything at the school.


I don’t think this is true.

What “requirements “.

There are plenty of independent Catholic school in ADW. They lost the Catholic affiliation which is way higher than ADW.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 14:57     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Of course The Heights should stay as it is. But be clear, the Vatican recently implemented rules to assure that No Opus Dei can become bishops. Opus Dei, to Catholics, is a conservative offshoot of Catholicism. And the Diocese does not include The Heights. Frankly Opus Dei is a chilling offshoot and I wish they wouldn’t call themselves Catholic.


The Heights is not a Catholic school.

They lost the designation a few years ago.


Do you know why? I’m curious.


I believe that arose from The Heights not wanting to abide by some of the requirements of the Diocese of Washington. Didn't change anything at the school.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 10:12     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Of course The Heights should stay as it is. But be clear, the Vatican recently implemented rules to assure that No Opus Dei can become bishops. Opus Dei, to Catholics, is a conservative offshoot of Catholicism. And the Diocese does not include The Heights. Frankly Opus Dei is a chilling offshoot and I wish they wouldn’t call themselves Catholic.


The Heights is not a Catholic school.

They lost the designation a few years ago.


Do you know why? I’m curious.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 10:10     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:Of course The Heights should stay as it is. But be clear, the Vatican recently implemented rules to assure that No Opus Dei can become bishops. Opus Dei, to Catholics, is a conservative offshoot of Catholicism. And the Diocese does not include The Heights. Frankly Opus Dei is a chilling offshoot and I wish they wouldn’t call themselves Catholic.


+1
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 10:08     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:A friend transferred her middle school son there this year from another private. She said it was a great move -- the sense of community, hard work, respect, male teachers -- all made a positive impact on her son and she and her DH noticed significant change in his attitude towards school plus increased maturity. He has ADHD and doing well in school. BTW, the family is politically liberal, Christian with some conservative values.

They are trying to convince us to check out the school for our DS. I too need more feedback.

are you sure you are talking about the correct school? Politically liberal and the Heights do not go together. I was raised roman catholic and still belong to a relatively liberal catholic parish in nw. There is no way I could relate to anything at this school. I grew up in the area and have been familiar with it for years.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 10:04     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:Of course The Heights should stay as it is. But be clear, the Vatican recently implemented rules to assure that No Opus Dei can become bishops. Opus Dei, to Catholics, is a conservative offshoot of Catholicism. And the Diocese does not include The Heights. Frankly Opus Dei is a chilling offshoot and I wish they wouldn’t call themselves Catholic.


This is a misrepresentation of what the Vatican ordered. According to Catholic News Agency, the prelate (head) of Opus Dei may no longer be a bishop. That doesn't mean that bishops may not be affiliated with Opus Dei or participate in its formation, retreats, recollections, etc. There are bishops and diocesan priests whose ministries are not centered around Opus Dei but who are part of Opus Dei. Does that make sense?

I am not personally part of Opus Dei, but I find its focus on growing in holiness through our everyday lives to be valuable. Most people who attend Opus Dei activities aren't officially "members" of Opus Dei.

FWIW we have a son at The Heights and love it. It's not perfect, but no place is perfect.

Here's a link to the CNA article I mentioned above: https://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/252270/opus-dei-s-prelate-asks-for-prayers-for-reform-ordered-by-pope-francis
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 09:02     Subject: The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:Of course The Heights should stay as it is. But be clear, the Vatican recently implemented rules to assure that No Opus Dei can become bishops. Opus Dei, to Catholics, is a conservative offshoot of Catholicism. And the Diocese does not include The Heights. Frankly Opus Dei is a chilling offshoot and I wish they wouldn’t call themselves Catholic.


The Heights is not a Catholic school.

They lost the designation a few years ago.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 09:01     Subject: Re:The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:Middle school is brutal.


Someone should print this on hoodie sweatshirts to hand out to all middle school students!
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2022 08:57     Subject: The Heights School

Of course The Heights should stay as it is. But be clear, the Vatican recently implemented rules to assure that No Opus Dei can become bishops. Opus Dei, to Catholics, is a conservative offshoot of Catholicism. And the Diocese does not include The Heights. Frankly Opus Dei is a chilling offshoot and I wish they wouldn’t call themselves Catholic.
Anonymous
Post 10/04/2022 17:22     Subject: Re:The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Middle school is brutal.


How so? In terms of workload? Or is it just a big leap in terms of expectations?


Workload, change from lots of outdoor time to lots of desk work. Lots of lecture, reading, memorization. Brutal amount of homework.
Anonymous
Post 10/04/2022 17:19     Subject: Re:The Heights School

Anonymous wrote:Middle school is brutal.


I think middle school everywhere is brutal for all involved: kids, teachers, and parents!