Anonymous wrote:Because the topic isn't "every birth I've ever witnessed that went wrong" its what this particular homebirth midwife did that was grossly negligent.
Also- I didn't get that from dr Amy- it's a study that just came out.
Anyway- crying HIPAA violation and name calling don't change the facts- this woman's negligence. She deserves to be punished. It's that simple.
Anonymous wrote:Its not a HIPAA violation unless she attaches a person's name or personally identifiable information to it.
And, she doesn't sound like a nutcase, she sounds like someone for whom English is possibly a second language but her logic is pretty clear here.
Homebirth advocates have a very serious blindspot in that they insist on sweeping bad birth outcomes under the rug. Its all about "trust birth" as if the very real suffering past and present of women whose bodies are supposedly made for birthing are just anomalies. Calling people who speak a negative opinion crazy doesn't change that history. Doesn't change the latest research on apgar scores or seizure risks being respectively lower and higher for home births either. Doesn't change some of the very real bad stories out there.
Simply put: the woman took risks. People who believed in her paid a price for that. Frankly, I think shoddy midwives should face the same risks that shoddy obs or crappy dentists do, sue them into the ground and publicize their mistakes, revoke licenses, jail time for the grossly negligent.
Anonymous wrote:i worked with her, and i worked with Slone and associates..... she took too many risks at home knowing that the consequences and yes i am sure tmedical staff reported her because after SHE FAILED at home, she brought her pts in with the baby's on the brink of death... then her pts get mad when you have to do things like administer oxygen (because they cant do skin to skin) an i mostly blamed her for this because @ mercy, we heard about the education her pts received and instead of covering all the risks, they talk about the nurses and doctors like they were anti- birthplans and horrible at what they do. We see the worst case scenerio, we see the babies who show decline in status and die (so you can have your plan fulfilled). I am not against what she does but educate your pts and prepare them to be flexible when things do not appear safe. I will never forget the father screaming and spitting in my face as i stimulated his baby (who ended up being a full code and is no attempt to breath during the first minute) his words were "STOP WIPING OFF THE VERNIX,,, SHE SPECIFICALLY REQUESTED SHE DID NOT WNT THE VERNIX WIPED OFF" no you idiot ... stimulation and drying is the first and most natural way too attempt to resuscitate a baby... things like that piss me off. go deliver in an ocean and keep making excuses for her but she was unsafe and in my opinion to educated to prioritize the "unsafe" wishes in a plan ahead of a baby's safety. My mother a complete breech delivery of my older sister (1st born) and lost her 3rd baby (All born in a 3rd world country where 90% of baby's are born at home but we have the highest maternal morbidity and mortality rate)... there are risks and they should be acknowledged and planned for as best as possible. Dont take a birthing class and think you know more than those who have studied this inside out for years
Anonymous wrote:You can't force a mother to go through a medical procedure she does not want, but this doesn't equal that a midwife's choices should a midwife's methods, even when tragic outcomes are observed.
Anonymous wrote:Just because someone makes a philosophical, very scientific, very educated decision to withhold care from a premature baby because it may turn out to be disabled, because schlepping to a NICU 40 minutes away is a major hassle with a toddler still attached to boob, and because well, it's "her" preference, of which she is completely aware, does not make it any more deserving of my respect than a 15-year old meth addict who threw the baby in a trashcan to die.
I'm not interested in reasons of people who let their babies "pass peacefully" after birth. I don't care if they have blogs.
Sometimes this world can use a bit less navel-gazing, and a bit more connection to the immediate human drive to do everything to help the baby survive.
Anonymous wrote:"I've been musing about what I would do if I were to go into preterm labor. The answer is obvious if the baby were 30 weeks: go to a hospital with a good NICU. My own cutoff for an out-of-hospital birth would be around 36-37 weeks, depending on the particular situation, access to oxygen and a midwife skilled at recognizing signs of respiratory distress or other prematurity-related complications."
"But what about 28 weeks? 26? 24? 22? At what point would I allow the baby to pass on peacefully, rather than attempting heroic efforts at resuscitation with a small chance of survival and high likelihood of major disabilities if the baby were to live? My own gray area is between 24-28 weeks. By time a baby hits 26 weeks gestation, survival rates are between 80-90%, and about 15% of those surviving babies will have major disabilities as a result of prematurity. I think this would be the earliest point at which I would consider intervening."
"Still, survival rates and even major disability rates are not the only practical or moral considerations that I would have to account for. Having a very premature baby, in my own family setting, would mean I would have to commute to a hospital with an advanced enough NICU: probably 40 minutes away and most likely an hour or more. The stresses on our family, the realities of trying to spend my time in a NICU while caring for a nursing toddler, and the emotional and financial drains that an extremely premature baby would entail are all things I'd have to carefully think about." -From a natural birth blogger
Late to the conversation here. I started my pregnancy under the care of very good CNM and then was transferred to OB/hospital care when my pregnancy got very complicated. I'm very sympathetic to natural birth and I believe strongly in a woman's right to choose or decline her own medical care. I'm also the mom of a 29w preemie who is everything to me. When I read the quote above on a blog it just made me sick to my stomach that someone (and someone who obviously loves and want children) would consider withholding care from a 28w preemie. I don't quite know where I'm going with this-I guess I do believe in the right of women to choose their own standard of care, but I'm also personally pretty horrified by what some of hose choices look like.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:"I've been musing about what I would do if I were to go into preterm labor. The answer is obvious if the baby were 30 weeks: go to a hospital with a good NICU. My own cutoff for an out-of-hospital birth would be around 36-37 weeks, depending on the particular situation, access to oxygen and a midwife skilled at recognizing signs of respiratory distress or other prematurity-related complications."
"But what about 28 weeks? 26? 24? 22? At what point would I allow the baby to pass on peacefully, rather than attempting heroic efforts at resuscitation with a small chance of survival and high likelihood of major disabilities if the baby were to live? My own gray area is between 24-28 weeks. By time a baby hits 26 weeks gestation, survival rates are between 80-90%, and about 15% of those surviving babies will have major disabilities as a result of prematurity. I think this would be the earliest point at which I would consider intervening."
"Still, survival rates and even major disability rates are not the only practical or moral considerations that I would have to account for. Having a very premature baby, in my own family setting, would mean I would have to commute to a hospital with an advanced enough NICU: probably 40 minutes away and most likely an hour or more. The stresses on our family, the realities of trying to spend my time in a NICU while caring for a nursing toddler, and the emotional and financial drains that an extremely premature baby would entail are all things I'd have to carefully think about." -From a natural birth blogger
Late to the conversation here. I started my pregnancy under the care of very good CNM and then was transferred to OB/hospital care when my pregnancy got very complicated. I'm very sympathetic to natural birth and I believe strongly in a woman's right to choose or decline her own medical care. I'm also the mom of a 29w preemie who is everything to me. When I read the quote above on a blog it just made me sick to my stomach that someone (and someone who obviously loves and want children) would consider withholding care from a 28w preemie. I don't quite know where I'm going with this-I guess I do believe in the right of women to choose their own standard of care, but I'm also personally pretty horrified by what some of hose choices look like.
I wonder if she'd think differently if she was actually in that situation? It's one thing to ponder something, but a lot different if you're actually facing it!
Anonymous wrote:"I've been musing about what I would do if I were to go into preterm labor. The answer is obvious if the baby were 30 weeks: go to a hospital with a good NICU. My own cutoff for an out-of-hospital birth would be around 36-37 weeks, depending on the particular situation, access to oxygen and a midwife skilled at recognizing signs of respiratory distress or other prematurity-related complications."
"But what about 28 weeks? 26? 24? 22? At what point would I allow the baby to pass on peacefully, rather than attempting heroic efforts at resuscitation with a small chance of survival and high likelihood of major disabilities if the baby were to live? My own gray area is between 24-28 weeks. By time a baby hits 26 weeks gestation, survival rates are between 80-90%, and about 15% of those surviving babies will have major disabilities as a result of prematurity. I think this would be the earliest point at which I would consider intervening."
"Still, survival rates and even major disability rates are not the only practical or moral considerations that I would have to account for. Having a very premature baby, in my own family setting, would mean I would have to commute to a hospital with an advanced enough NICU: probably 40 minutes away and most likely an hour or more. The stresses on our family, the realities of trying to spend my time in a NICU while caring for a nursing toddler, and the emotional and financial drains that an extremely premature baby would entail are all things I'd have to carefully think about." -From a natural birth blogger
Late to the conversation here. I started my pregnancy under the care of very good CNM and then was transferred to OB/hospital care when my pregnancy got very complicated. I'm very sympathetic to natural birth and I believe strongly in a woman's right to choose or decline her own medical care. I'm also the mom of a 29w preemie who is everything to me. When I read the quote above on a blog it just made me sick to my stomach that someone (and someone who obviously loves and want children) would consider withholding care from a 28w preemie. I don't quite know where I'm going with this-I guess I do believe in the right of women to choose their own standard of care, but I'm also personally pretty horrified by what some of hose choices look like.
Anonymous wrote:Blog name, please? (I read lots of birth blogs, but I don't remember seeing this post).