Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The earlier PP really needs to learn the difference between Falls Church and the City of Falls Church. The City of Falls Church is small, with expensive houses and condos and very good schools and a charming little downtown. The areas of Falls Church in Falls Church high school and Stuart are not as nice. (the demographics are not as wealthy, or as caucasian.) There's also West Falls Church, which is the part of Falls Church (some of Falls church city, some in Fairfax County) closer to Tysons.
And yeah, some of the areas that feed into Falls Church HS are rougher. there's a fair amount of lower-income housing in that boundary. Not unusual around here.
I find your comment about demographics [not as wealthy, or as caucasian] really offensive, and I think you're making a big leap assuming that OP is looking for the same. In my hometown, which is pretty darn "ghetto" [I really don't think you folks truly know what this means], the best school is in a neighborhood that is hardly "caucasian" at all. When the test scores came in, I'm sure the "caucasians" were shocked.
Anonymous wrote:The earlier PP really needs to learn the difference between Falls Church and the City of Falls Church. The City of Falls Church is small, with expensive houses and condos and very good schools and a charming little downtown. The areas of Falls Church in Falls Church high school and Stuart are not as nice. (the demographics are not as wealthy, or as caucasian.) There's also West Falls Church, which is the part of Falls Church (some of Falls church city, some in Fairfax County) closer to Tysons.
And yeah, some of the areas that feed into Falls Church HS are rougher. there's a fair amount of lower-income housing in that boundary. Not unusual around here.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, what is it about Dupont that you find makes it not family friendly? Too loud? Do you want more park space? more parkING space? more kids in the neighborhood?
Love Dupont. Love to walk to the playgrounds, love to walk to work. Just want to have a place where schools are good through HS.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am amazed by the thinly veiled racism on this thread. I hope that all of you talking about avoiding "the ghetto" or "free and reduced lunch" are really just using euphemisms for "people of color" and you sound like bigots.
I'm the poster who used "free and reduced lunch." I explicitly avoided mentioning race, because there's plenty of poor white trash where I'm from that I am reluctant to have my kids around either.
I'm also not one who'll freak out over a FRL percentage greater than 5%. Some folks are poor, and let's face it -- it's probably not ideal to be in an extreme low-poverty environment.
But once that percentage starts creeping up above 40-50%, you gotta start wondering. Will your kid be busy teaching his classmates the English he learned at 3-4? Will the teacher be teaching a 3rd grade class at a 1st grade level? Will the parents simply not be committed to education (come on, they can't ALL be hard-working folks who've just met a little misfortune?) In some cases, you can give it a try, but in others, you just get the vibe that the administration is all about the at-risk kids and yours is going to get ignored unless he is in the top 10% of self-starters.
But for full disclosure, since I'm a bigot and all, where do YOU live and send your kids to school?
I am a the PP you are responding to. I realize what you are saying, and those are valid concerns. When backed up by your thought process, rather than just thrown out, they sound much less bigoted. Also, I don't know you, have no idea if you are a bigot or not. I was not calling you one. I was simply stating that comments like yours, when set apart from any knowledge of your deeper thought processes, makes you sound like one.
I live in Mount Pleasant with an infant. Not sure where the little one will go to school when the time comes. Also not sure how that has any bearing on my opinion about racist comments.
I also called things ghetto and talked about reduced lunches. It has nothing to do with race, it has everything to do with the fact that with poverty comes crime. We can't deny it. COME ON! OPEN UR EYES. And a high rate of kids who don't speak English is a problem too b/c the teachers spend more time helping them than keeping up with the class.
You might want to familiarize with ESOL in Fairfax County and how it works before saying things like this. In Fairfax County, students who know little to no English are in their own separate ESOL classes. They are not just thrown in with the general population for mainstream teachers to deal with. It is not until they have at least an intermediate level of English, that they go into mainstream classes where they generally are some of the top students in the class - IMO because they have worked so hard to get there. We do have students who are beginning students of English and basically illiterate in their native language and they will never move into mainstream classes because they don't have the skills to do so (this is in high school). Usually they end up dropping out because of their age or just general frustration. Fairfax County is actually very strict about the skills ESOL students need to go to mainstream classes - much more so than other counties in the area.
Anonymous wrote:OP, in response to the PP that claims Capitol Hill is an "absurd" suggestion (and likely feels the same about every DC neighborhood, including Dupont) I can't help but think of those friends that moved out to the burbs for the great public schools and then found that a DC private school is actually a better fit for their kid. they feel a bit "absurd" at this point. If you want to leave the city, awesome, go for it! But don't assume that your kids will be any better off in the suburbs. If you are happy in the city, there is a high likelihood that your kids will love it too-- after all, they are your kids! HTH!
PP here. Love the assumptions. I actually lived on the Hill for 10 years, up until a month ago. Loved it and still do. I never said it was absurd for ANYONE to raise kids on the Hill, I said it was absurd that people kept making suggestions to the OP based on their criteria rather than hers. Read her posts--she wanted great schools in the neighborhood, through high school. Certainly the Hill has viable options, but it can't fairly be said to meet OP's definition. So yes, it's absurd to make everything about YOU and YOUR choices, when OP is a different person (a stranger even) who has specifically set forth the things she wants.
I'm also the person who said Haycock area was average for the area. I have no gripe with Haycock at all, but OP has insinuated that her budget is unlimited and I just don't see Haycock as a place where I would live if money was no object. With a few outliers, the homes are very average, and it has a very anytown USA type of feel. Not much character. Nothing wrong with that at all, and the schools are great. But just not where I'd live if I didn't have to make the budget tradeoffs. (Which I do, and we looked very seriously at a couple of homes in the Haycock area.)
OP, it's hard to get meaningful advice on something like this unless you provide some more specific information about your price range. Is money really NO object? Are you looking to spend $1 million? $2 million? More? It really makes a difference. For example--if I had $2 million to spend, I'd be looking at the most desirable areas of N. Arlington, Chevy Chase, Bethesda, or Mclean. If I had $1.2 million to spend, I'd be looking at other areas of N. Arlington or Falls Church City. If I had $750K to spend I'd be looking at Haycock-type neighborhoods or maybe Silver Spring, and thinking very hard about whether I was willing to live in a tiny house to be closer in or in a neighborhood I preferred.
I bet 90% of the people on here who have touted their neighborhoods wouldn't stay if they had an unlimited budget to move. That's all I'm saying.
Anonymous wrote:OP, what is it about Dupont that you find makes it not family friendly? Too loud? Do you want more park space? more parkING space? more kids in the neighborhood?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Haycock Road looks like its really close to 66. Do you hear the incessant hum of the traffic?
Nope. Still too far away. We sometimes hear the metro trains going by and occaisionally the pile driving from construction on 66 but those would be the only instances. And we live .5 a mile from 66.
Would this be the north or south of I-66?
North.
Thanks for the information. I thought if it is north of I-66, it will be too far to walk to Lincoln park and the metro. But I suppose you can use the school playground. Is the school playground well visited by families with young kids?