Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 16:59     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
I guess people are confused between SAHM who actually does it all at all times and trad wife who does it on camera to get clicks.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 16:51     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
Anonymous wrote:Redpill is also a grift but the target is men and ... No average schmuck sees any improvement in dealings with women and likely the opposite.


Bravo! I hate self-aggrandizing grifters like Andrew Tate.

Sometimes the real "Red Pill" helps by telling men to stop pursuing disinterested women. It teaches men to stop trying to bribe and weasel women into bed, because that does not work. Instead, men should set healthy boundaries and only pursue women who reciprocate. This should be a good thing. But opportunistic "a la carte" feminists get angry when men have standards and stop buying dinners for women who don't deserve it.

Furthermore, many socially inhibited nice guys overlook women who are interested. Those men just need to be more aggressive and "bust a move". If I am interested, then I will kiss a woman at the end of the date to resolve any ambiguity.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 12:59     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:It works best among observant, conservative religions, like Mormons, Catholics, and Jews, where there is a ton of shame around premarital sex (among Mormons, fornication and adultery are very serious sins, second only to murder in gravity). In those religions, young men are highly motivated to marry young so they can have sex. If they come from wealthy families, they receive family support in their twenties as they finish school and have babies. It does often work in these populations.


Many of the trad wife influencers are Mormon, so this is spot on.


And the key word is "wealthy families"


I was just thinking that a lot of the Mormons I know actually lived off government assistance when they were first married. They had families and very little income while finishing school. They qualified for food stamps, Medicaid, WIC, etc.


Not quite the same, but there is a lot of welfare fraud among the FLDS segment of the Mormon community. Plural wives will claim to be single mothers for the benefits.


Yeah. These were medical students in their early twenties who were married to one wife and had zero income outside of student loans. It felt sort of gross that they got SNAP and Medicaid. I mean, didn’t we all technically qualify for it? But I don’t think it was fraud.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 12:06     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
Tradwife stuff is all play -acting online. It gets clicks and therefore money. None of the "influencers" actually consistently live that way. After all, if they were "traditional", they wouldn't be broadcasting their private home life on social media. How many Amish, Hutterites or Hasidic Jews, actual "trads", make a living online? There you go.

Redpill is also a grift but the target is men and a lot of them fall for it. Sure the grifters themselves "get women" because they make a lot of money selling their crap. The actual buyers though? No average schmuck sees any improvement in dealings with women and likely the opposite. But redpill grifters can continue to sell to him it's women's fault.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 11:55     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
Weird! This “ deal” and ‘math appear to favor older men. Hmm, so odd. How could that be?
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 11:51     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I guess I would be a "trad wife". Older Gen X, advanced degrees, stay at home mom for the last 15 years. The Great Recession ate my career field, pay scales sank through the floor, we had two little kids, and I decided to stay home with husband's urging and blessing. He makes enough to support us. I have a great life. Maybe I just don't care about money, or my ego. Our kids are teen and young adult, and are doing very well. Tradwife? It's just life, OP. People have to make a decision, and sometimes their decision isn't the same as yours. Live and let live, you know? I don't understand why a woman would have kids not to spend much time with them, and claim that the best example she is setting is to show them how to make money. I'd rather show my kids something else, I guess. I remember going to grade school events during the school day and having teachers ask in a whisper if I would be willing to look at the project of the classmate whose parents weren't there. I'll never forget the grade school girl who burst into tears as I complimented her work. She said through sobs, "I want my mom". She didn't say, "My mom can't be here because she's showing me how to make money at a job." I just said I know and I'm sure she's proud of you. What else can you say. My heart broke for her. I bet her mother never knew that happened, and assumed she was being a great example.


You're not a tradwife, you are a just a regular old SAHM.


+1

SAHM <> tradwife

Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 11:51     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:It works best among observant, conservative religions, like Mormons, Catholics, and Jews, where there is a ton of shame around premarital sex (among Mormons, fornication and adultery are very serious sins, second only to murder in gravity). In those religions, young men are highly motivated to marry young so they can have sex. If they come from wealthy families, they receive family support in their twenties as they finish school and have babies. It does often work in these populations.


Many of the trad wife influencers are Mormon, so this is spot on.


And the key word is "wealthy families"


I was just thinking that a lot of the Mormons I know actually lived off government assistance when they were first married. They had families and very little income while finishing school. They qualified for food stamps, Medicaid, WIC, etc.


Not quite the same, but there is a lot of welfare fraud among the FLDS segment of the Mormon community. Plural wives will claim to be single mothers for the benefits.


This they are on SNAP good old fashioned American scammers and child molesters . They are disgraceful. Screaming maga crap while literally scamming other taxpayers
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 11:50     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It works best among observant, conservative religions, like Mormons, Catholics, and Jews, where there is a ton of shame around premarital sex (among Mormons, fornication and adultery are very serious sins, second only to murder in gravity). In those religions, young men are highly motivated to marry young so they can have sex. If they come from wealthy families, they receive family support in their twenties as they finish school and have babies. It does often work in these populations.


Many of the trad wife influencers are Mormon, so this is spot on.


And the key word is "wealthy families"


I was just thinking that a lot of the Mormons I know actually lived off government assistance when they were first married. They had families and very little income while finishing school. They qualified for food stamps, Medicaid, WIC, etc.


Not quite the same, but there is a lot of welfare fraud among the FLDS segment of the Mormon community. Plural wives will claim to be single mothers for the benefits.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 11:49     Subject: Help me understand Tradwife and Redpill logic
Anonymous wrote:it's all fantasy


+1

Cosplay, not logic.