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Anonymous wrote:So many of you are hypocrites, you claim to want immigration and different cultures here in the US but in reality you don't. You plant your lawn signs that say WE BELIEVE ... Immigrants are welcome, but call cultural practices trashy. You are either liberal hypocrites or MAGA.

I don’t think it is unreasonable to expect people who move here to adapt to cultural norms. Americans get criticized for being too loud abroad, not covering enough in Muslim countries etc…turnabout is fair play.

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Anonymous wrote:I pierced all my girls ears as soon as doctor said it was ok - maybe 12 weeks? I’m Latina and it’s absolutely cultural.

What I find weird is how ear piercing in white culture seems associated with puberty - it’s decoration for your body, not some signal you are entering womanhood.

I think the “trashy” comment is coded language for thinking poor people do it, at least in part because it’s more prevalent in immigrant communities.

It a femininity thing in Latin culture. Why does a baby need to “look” like a girl?

I mean white people put giant bows on their girl babies' heads and dress them in constant pink. Same thing.

You are equating a painful procedure with a bow?

My daughters both said getting their ears pierced was less painful than getting a flu shot. Are you also anti-vax?

We're talking about INFANTS, pp.

Do you talk to your white friends who circumcised their boys about this, btw? Do you talk to them about how they've mutilated their sons' bodies for no reason?

Is your husband circumcised? How do you have sex with a man who has a mutilated penis?

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Anonymous wrote:I was raised to believe it was trashy. But now that I have an 11 year old and cannot find a decent place to get her ears pierced, I’m pretty envious of the parents who got it done and don’t have to deal with it now. And of course DD has an insane sports schedule and we can’t figure out how to time the piercing so she can have some time for it to heal and stay clean. It wouldn’t have been a fuss to add piercing cleaning to the other stuff I was already doing when she was tiny.

Also, unpopular opinion that I’ve developed as an adult: babies with tiny little earrings are really cute.

Ears pierced as an infant have to be repierced once most of the time. It's because the ear changes too much during childhood and the holes end up looking bad by the time they are in the teens.

Culture be d****d, there's no reason to do it to a non consenting child.

Anonymous wrote:The weird thing about it to me is just the why. Now you have a wound you have to manage and the baby dgaf about the earrings, and there’s no advantage I can think of to doing it young?

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t have my daughter’s ears pierced until she asked, but I think babies and toddlers look adorable with little earrings.

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Anonymous wrote:I pierced all my girls ears as soon as doctor said it was ok - maybe 12 weeks? I’m Latina and it’s absolutely cultural.

What I find weird is how ear piercing in white culture seems associated with puberty - it’s decoration for your body, not some signal you are entering womanhood.

I think the “trashy” comment is coded language for thinking poor people do it, at least in part because it’s more prevalent in immigrant communities.

It a femininity thing in Latin culture. Why does a baby need to “look” like a girl?

I mean white people put giant bows on their girl babies' heads and dress them in constant pink. Same thing.

You are equating a painful procedure with a bow?

My daughters both said getting their ears pierced was less painful than getting a flu shot. Are you also anti-vax?

We're talking about INFANTS, pp.

Do you talk to your white friends who circumcised their boys about this, btw? Do you talk to them about how they've mutilated their sons' bodies for no reason?

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Anonymous wrote:I pierced all my girls ears as soon as doctor said it was ok - maybe 12 weeks? I’m Latina and it’s absolutely cultural.

What I find weird is how ear piercing in white culture seems associated with puberty - it’s decoration for your body, not some signal you are entering womanhood.

I think the “trashy” comment is coded language for thinking poor people do it, at least in part because it’s more prevalent in immigrant communities.

It a femininity thing in Latin culture. Why does a baby need to “look” like a girl?

I mean white people put giant bows on their girl babies' heads and dress them in constant pink. Same thing.

You are equating a painful procedure with a bow?

My daughters both said getting their ears pierced was less painful than getting a flu shot. Are you also anti-vax?

We're talking about INFANTS, pp.

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Anonymous wrote:I pierced all my girls ears as soon as doctor said it was ok - maybe 12 weeks? I’m Latina and it’s absolutely cultural.

What I find weird is how ear piercing in white culture seems associated with puberty - it’s decoration for your body, not some signal you are entering womanhood.

I think the “trashy” comment is coded language for thinking poor people do it, at least in part because it’s more prevalent in immigrant communities.

It a femininity thing in Latin culture. Why does a baby need to “look” like a girl?

I mean white people put giant bows on their girl babies' heads and dress them in constant pink. Same thing.

You are equating a painful procedure with a bow?

My daughters both said getting their ears pierced was less painful than getting a flu shot. Are you also anti-vax?

Are you that ignorant? Flu shot is for health, earrings are for what exactly? So strangers can tell it’s a girl in case the child isn’t already in a girly outfit? Is it important for strangers to know the gender of your child?

Anonymous wrote:My four daughters who are now ages 5-12, all got their ears pierced on their 6 month half birthdays, that was just something fun & cute we did. SIL who judged the first time, is now complaining about not being able to find time to pierce my 12yo's nieces ears, and my niece is rightfully upset about it. We have no regrets.

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Anonymous wrote:So many of you are hypocrites, you claim to want immigration and different cultures here in the US but in reality you don't. You plant your lawn signs that say WE BELIEVE ... Immigrants are welcome, but call cultural practices trashy. You are either liberal hypocrites or MAGA.

I don’t think it is unreasonable to expect people who move here to adapt to cultural norms. Americans get criticized for being too loud abroad, not covering enough in Muslim countries etc…turnabout is fair play.

Anonymous wrote:So many of you are hypocrites, you claim to want immigration and different cultures here in the US but in reality you don't. You plant your lawn signs that say WE BELIEVE ... Immigrants are welcome, but call cultural practices trashy. You are either liberal hypocrites or MAGA.