Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.
Why are your only two options
-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single
?
Do you give men the same option?
Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.
Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?
Are you stupid?!
+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.
Typically, men who give sperm are poor and less educated.
I find it surprising that you are so thrilled about getting sperm from men who are considered low class. These are men you would likely never let near you. They will pass on their low class genes to your child.
Does that sound appealing to you?
Men will f*** children, the elderly, animals, inanimate objects. sperm and d*** will always be abundant and low value.
Actually, there are now several options to get sperm donated by tech billionaires at IVF clinics.
Usually medical students donate sperm so these are not the “low value” men
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.
Why are your only two options
-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single
?
Do you give men the same option?
Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.
Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?
Are you stupid?!
+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.
Typically, men who give sperm are poor and less educated.
I find it surprising that you are so thrilled about getting sperm from men who are considered low class. These are men you would likely never let near you. They will pass on their low class genes to your child.
Does that sound appealing to you?
Men will f*** children, the elderly, animals, inanimate objects. sperm and d*** will always be abundant and low value.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.
Why are your only two options
-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single
?
Do you give men the same option?
Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.
Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?
Are you stupid?!
+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.
Typically, men who give sperm are poor and less educated.
I find it surprising that you are so thrilled about getting sperm from men who are considered low class. These are men you would likely never let near you. They will pass on their low class genes to your child.
Does that sound appealing to you?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.
Why are your only two options
-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single
?
Do you give men the same option?
Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.
Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?
Are you stupid?!
+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.
Typically, men who give sperm are poor and less educated.
I find it surprising that you are so thrilled about getting sperm from men who are considered low class. These are men you would likely never let near you. They will pass on their low class genes to your child.
Does that sound appealing to you?
Anonymous wrote:I can’t speak for all women but for me it was the instinct. My desire to have a baby and breed in my 20s overpowered all rational arguments. When I saw another young mom pushing a stroller I wanted literally snatch that baby, this is how strong it was.
I gave up a full ride scholarship at a law school and got married, changing cities. Soon after I was pregnant with my only child.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:High value women should not have children.
In any relationship, man is not the most important person for a woman. But, once a woman gives birth to a kid, their brain rewires to put the kid first.
What on earth does this mean. Only low value women should have children?????
Anonymous wrote:Smarts don’t mean much in relationships. If your DD is smart but nerdy and not good looking she may have to lower her standards a bit. Hopefully she’ll find a nice loving partner even if he isn’t as smart or successful as she.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's more than just in literature or movies. From the time I was a teenager, relatives or even random friends of my parents were always asking if I had a boyfriend. By the time I was in law school it was whether I was dating someone I was going to marry. It's one million tiny little messages that say no matter how smart you are, no matter what you're actually interested in, no matter what your career, your community is judging you based on your mate.
Where are you from? I'm from a South Asian immigrant community and even for us, that's not the case any more. Women are required to have degrees, careers and income. If they don't for whatever reason, society looks down upon them. They don't have a choice, whether they want to or not.
I am surprised by that too. I keep seeing that women say they grew up in environments where all the messages were that the only worth or value a woman has is as a wife and mother. I have no idea where they grew up as that is foreign to me! I grew up in a very conservative and Christian church and family and even there education and career was encouraged. Yes, people in that environment thought that marriage and family is important (for men and women) but the women were certainly not reduced to that as people.
Women outnumber men in post secondary education so that just doesn't fit with a societal view that women have been raised to be wives and mothers and nothing else.
Anonymous wrote:Smarts don’t mean much in relationships. If your DD is smart but nerdy and not good looking she may have to lower her standards a bit. Hopefully she’ll find a nice loving partner even if he isn’t as smart or successful as she.
Anonymous wrote:I can’t speak for all women but for me it was the instinct. My desire to have a baby and breed in my 20s overpowered all rational arguments. When I saw another young mom pushing a stroller I wanted literally snatch that baby, this is how strong it was.
I gave up a full ride scholarship at a law school and got married, changing cities. Soon after I was pregnant with my only child.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.
Why are your only two options
-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single
?
Do you give men the same option?
Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.
Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?
Are you stupid?!
+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.
Sperm in sperm banks also comes from men! Did you think it was synthetic?
Who said anything about killing off all the men in the world? I'll wait.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.
Why are your only two options
-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single
?
Do you give men the same option?
Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.
Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?
Are you stupid?!
+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.
Sperm in sperm banks also comes from men! Did you think it was synthetic?