Anonymous
09/15/2025 10:00
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Im the birthday party PP. I’m asking because there are many mass services on Sunday and we aren’t parish members so I’m not sure if most go to morning service or not. I would do Saturday afternoon instead but I’m not sure of sports schedules. Is 4-6pm usually ok for late fall? The girls I know are in soccer, a couple in flag football, basketball league and swim. And dance, but I know they meet during the week.
My kids are in Catholic school. Not everyone there is Catholic, including us, but the majority do tend to attend church on Sunday mornings. I’d say the bigger scheduling issue is with Saturday sports, for sure. If I were scheduling a party right now I’d probably aim for Sunday afternoon, anytime after 12.
That time has always worked for my family. You might want to look at the Mass schedule and see whether there's an 11am Mass, since some people might not be able to come until 12:30 or 1.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 09:31
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:Im the birthday party PP. I’m asking because there are many mass services on Sunday and we aren’t parish members so I’m not sure if most go to morning service or not. I would do Saturday afternoon instead but I’m not sure of sports schedules. Is 4-6pm usually ok for late fall? The girls I know are in soccer, a couple in flag football, basketball league and swim. And dance, but I know they meet during the week.
My kids are in Catholic school. Not everyone there is Catholic, including us, but the majority do tend to attend church on Sunday mornings. I’d say the bigger scheduling issue is with Saturday sports, for sure. If I were scheduling a party right now I’d probably aim for Sunday afternoon, anytime after 12.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 09:09
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Im the birthday party PP. I’m asking because there are many mass services on Sunday and we aren’t parish members so I’m not sure if most go to morning service or not. I would do Saturday afternoon instead but I’m not sure of sports schedules. Is 4-6pm usually ok for late fall? The girls I know are in soccer, a couple in flag football, basketball league and swim. And dance, but I know they meet during the week.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 08:36
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I Always schedule DD’s birthday party on Sunday morning so that the overly regimented weirdos who think no other mass “counts” don’t go.
Well if your DD goes to Catholic school then the only person you’re hurting is her, by scheduling her party at a time when her friends are likely unable to attend.
Actually, it’s usually a full house. I assume that attendees simply go to mass another time, even if that means that they’re now going to purgatory or hell because they went to mass at the “wrong time.” Very nice of them.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 07:33
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:I Always schedule DD’s birthday party on Sunday morning so that the overly regimented weirdos who think no other mass “counts” don’t go.
Mmm hmm.
Do you schedule parties on Yom Kippur to avoid the Jewish kids you know?
Anonymous
09/15/2025 07:30
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:I Always schedule DD’s birthday party on Sunday morning so that the overly regimented weirdos who think no other mass “counts” don’t go.
But I bet you never do it on Saturday mornings because the weirdos with sports game wouldn't go then either. Right?
Anonymous
09/15/2025 07:27
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Uh, my kids already go to mass on fridays. How many times do they have to go per week? 2? 10?
Sunday is a holy day of obligation. Friday is not.
Neither is Saturday. Yet I know dozens of Catholics -- very devout ones — who go to Saturday Mass instead of Sunday.
So why doesn’t the school-required Friday Mass count?
They are going to the Vigil Mass on Saturday, which the Church has said counts for the Sunday obligation. If they went on Saturday morning that would not qualify as satisfying the Sunday obligation.
If you are Catholic and you do not know about the Sunday obligation then you should talk to a priest about it. It’s honestly kind of silly to identify as Catholic and then make only minimal effort to figure out exactly what that means. It would be like identifying as a German but making no effort to learn about the language or culture. If you are not Catholic, it doesn’t really apply to you, so no need to debate it with internet strangers.
This is totally false. Have been Catholic my life, as have have family generations before me, and any Saturday Mass is fine.
No. You should learn about your religion.
To be fair, catechesis has been garbage for decades. When I was in grad school a Catholic student in the American history section I was teaching had no idea who Moses was (important for African American history). Unbelievable that someone could grow up going to Mass for 18 years and never have heard of Moses before…
If you went to Mass even just on Sunday for 18 years you certainly heard a great deal about Moses because the cycle of readings includes his story and particularly his role in the Exodus.
Yeah that’s why I was kind of shocked. To be fair she was one of my less-intelligent students (out of two sections of 50, most of whom struggled to string together three sentences to make a paragraph…)
Cool story.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 07:17
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:I Always schedule DD’s birthday party on Sunday morning so that the overly regimented weirdos who think no other mass “counts” don’t go.
Well if your DD goes to Catholic school then the only person you’re hurting is her, by scheduling her party at a time when her friends are likely unable to attend.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 07:13
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Uh, my kids already go to mass on fridays. How many times do they have to go per week? 2? 10?
Sunday is a holy day of obligation. Friday is not.
Neither is Saturday. Yet I know dozens of Catholics -- very devout ones — who go to Saturday Mass instead of Sunday.
So why doesn’t the school-required Friday Mass count?
They are going to the Vigil Mass on Saturday, which the Church has said counts for the Sunday obligation. If they went on Saturday morning that would not qualify as satisfying the Sunday obligation.
If you are Catholic and you do not know about the Sunday obligation then you should talk to a priest about it. It’s honestly kind of silly to identify as Catholic and then make only minimal effort to figure out exactly what that means. It would be like identifying as a German but making no effort to learn about the language or culture. If you are not Catholic, it doesn’t really apply to you, so no need to debate it with internet strangers.
This is totally false. Have been Catholic my life, as have have family generations before me, and any Saturday Mass is fine.
No. You should learn about your religion.
To be fair, catechesis has been garbage for decades. When I was in grad school a Catholic student in the American history section I was teaching had no idea who Moses was (important for African American history). Unbelievable that someone could grow up going to Mass for 18 years and never have heard of Moses before…
If you went to Mass even just on Sunday for 18 years you certainly heard a great deal about Moses because the cycle of readings includes his story and particularly his role in the Exodus.
Yeah that’s why I was kind of shocked. To be fair she was one of my less-intelligent students (out of two sections of 50, most of whom struggled to string together three sentences to make a paragraph…)
Anonymous
09/15/2025 06:52
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Uh, my kids already go to mass on fridays. How many times do they have to go per week? 2? 10?
Sunday is a holy day of obligation. Friday is not.
Neither is Saturday. Yet I know dozens of Catholics -- very devout ones — who go to Saturday Mass instead of Sunday.
So why doesn’t the school-required Friday Mass count?
They are going to the Vigil Mass on Saturday, which the Church has said counts for the Sunday obligation. If they went on Saturday morning that would not qualify as satisfying the Sunday obligation.
If you are Catholic and you do not know about the Sunday obligation then you should talk to a priest about it. It’s honestly kind of silly to identify as Catholic and then make only minimal effort to figure out exactly what that means. It would be like identifying as a German but making no effort to learn about the language or culture. If you are not Catholic, it doesn’t really apply to you, so no need to debate it with internet strangers.
This is totally false. Have been Catholic my life, as have have family generations before me, and any Saturday Mass is fine.
No. You should learn about your religion.
To be fair, catechesis has been garbage for decades. When I was in grad school a Catholic student in the American history section I was teaching had no idea who Moses was (important for African American history). Unbelievable that someone could grow up going to Mass for 18 years and never have heard of Moses before…
If you went to Mass even just on Sunday for 18 years you certainly heard a great deal about Moses because the cycle of readings includes his story and particularly his role in the Exodus.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 06:21
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
I Always schedule DD’s birthday party on Sunday morning so that the overly regimented weirdos who think no other mass “counts” don’t go.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 21:23
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How do Catholics and Catholic schools feel about kids parties on Sunday? Planning ahead for DD birthday.
They don't care and don't control birthday party scheduling.
My family doesn’t go to birthday parties scheduled for Sunday morning because it would conflict with Mass. We do go to Sunday afternoon parties. If you’re inviting a lot of kids from your kid’s class I’d recommend avoiding Sunday morning.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 21:17
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:How do Catholics and Catholic schools feel about kids parties on Sunday? Planning ahead for DD birthday.
They don't care and don't control birthday party scheduling.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 21:15
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
Anonymous wrote:Tup, not many anti-Episcopalian trolls on DCUM.
That is because Episcopalians are generally the moneyed class.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 21:06
Subject: If kids go to Catholic, is family expected to attend mass on Sundays?
How do Catholics and Catholic schools feel about kids parties on Sunday? Planning ahead for DD birthday.