Anonymous wrote:To all the women who make an effort to look nice for their men, thank you. You are a treasure.

To all the women who think those women are somehow diminishing themselves by according some value to beauty or to their partner's preferences, you are extremist and counterproductive.

Thank you!

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Anonymous wrote:If a man cares about his appearance as much as his wife/fiancee/gf she will next wonder whether he is gay.

I know this dad who gets his nails done, he is always well put together, and it appears that he gets how eyebrows done as well. I told DW the other day that I think he was gay and she said not necessarily, but she didn't say flatly no. If a husband looks a good as his wife put together all the time just like her I don't know guys but it's a little sus..just saying

I'd also find this a bit sus, but not for the reasons you do. I know way too many gays who don't GAF about things like this.

What I'd find sus about it is that he's as indoctrinated into beauty culture as most women, which shows a lack of self-esteem, personal style, and critical thinking skills, IMO. If they can tell you how to dress, they can tell you what to do. Way too many women are already sick with this, and it was being aimed at men long before the "metrosexual" movement, too.

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance starts with the inside: eating well, exercising, sleeping, minimizing stress. That’s how you really show care to yourself. Not whether you blow dry your hair and wear eyeliner.

Those things are necessary but not sufficient. Keep trying, you’re almost there!

Yes, you condescending tw@, that really is sufficient. "dolling up" the externals is extra, unless you're pathologically obsessed with appearances or trying to hide something. True health is accepting reality, including the reality of the human body in its natural state. Forced conformity to a standard created to sell product is NOT a sign of health. If you really enjoy fashion and/or makeup for yourself, for the art of those things, because they truly bring you pleasure, by all means, enjoy what you like. But the idea that these things are obligatory has deep roots in classism and control, neither of which are healthy for humans.

Deal therewith.

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance starts with the inside: eating well, exercising, sleeping, minimizing stress. That’s how you really show care to yourself. Not whether you blow dry your hair and wear eyeliner.

Those things are necessary but not sufficient. Keep trying, you’re almost there!

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

Taking care of your appearance starts with the inside: eating well, exercising, sleeping, minimizing stress. That’s how you really show care to yourself. Not whether you blow dry your hair and wear eyeliner.

Anonymous wrote:I wore my latex catsuit to greet my husband this evening. Still wearing it now. He likes me to be covered in latex as much as possible.

What does that mean and why??

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.

You must have a lot of down time.

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Anonymous wrote:I think I'm quite beautiful naturally. I have great skin, beautiful eyes and nice lips. My husband never expects me to "doll" up and always tells me how beautiful I am as is.

LOL. I don’t know if you are naturally beautiful but you definitely don’t lack self-confidence.

Shouldn't all women feel beautiful? Why is that a bad thing?

the beauty industry is built on women believing they are not beautiful and enough naturally that they just need this or that.

The increase in attractiveness between “natural” and “made up” is abundantly obvious to both men and women. It’s pointless to pretend the two conditions are equally beautiful.

So a woman has to be full of fake sh*t before you find her beautiful? That's sad for you (or your partner).

Taking care of your appearance isn’t fake. It reflects very real and important qualities, including respect for yourself and for others. If your partner (male or female) stops taking care of their appearance, that’s a real and unmistakable signal of how they regard themselves and you. In its extreme form, not attending to dress and hygiene is a symptom of mental illness, which is a real thing, not just them casting aside “fake” stuff.