Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.
You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.
Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.
Therapy.
Lawyer.
Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.
You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.
Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.
Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor đ˘
Letâs not call it âAsianâ, letâs say âfraudulent massage parlorâ or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because thatâs what it is
No, letâs call it Asian since that is how they are branded and marketed and attempts to police language and skirt around the obvious are obnoxious and silly.
Or you could say, âwhere you can exploit women from impoverished countries ?â
A lot are Korean. Not exactly impoverished. Morally bankrupt and money grubbing, but not impoverished.
Exactly! Most of the women likely do it out of free will. They are sinners but not victims.
If op did not get fat or was having regular sex with her husband, then he likely wouldnât have went there. She could have contributed to her husbandâs sins.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.
Thatâs not why most men go.
Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldnât need to go there.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ew⌠Men can be So gross.
You must not be aware of the gigolo business and how popular it has become.![]()
It's just more discreet and usually caters to in home calls rather than a storefront business.
Yeah, that's a comparable thing/not!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being⌠not legit.
...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!
They don't take names.![]()
I'm sure OP's hubby is using a name like "John" when he visits, if any name at all.
Credit card trails. Not all use cash.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.
Thatâs not why most men go.
Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldnât need to go there.
Men that frequently have an addiction. Itâs not about getting one release otherwise he would just do it himself.
how can you be addicted to sex? that is absurd
she is probably fat and out of shape and stopped taking care of herself.
it is not that hard to lay on your back and count the sheep
you made a commitment, hold up your end of the agreement
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ew⌠Men can be So gross.
You must not be aware of the gigolo business and how popular it has become.![]()
It's just more discreet and usually caters to in home calls rather than a storefront business.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.
Thatâs not why most men go.
Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldnât need to go there.
Men that frequently have an addiction. Itâs not about getting one release otherwise he would just do it himself.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ew⌠Men can be So gross.
Women who are not having regular sex with their husbands are equally gross
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being⌠not legit.
...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!
They don't take names.![]()
I'm sure OP's hubby is using a name like "John" when he visits, if any name at all.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being⌠not legit.
...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!
They don't take names.![]()
I'm sure OP's hubby is using a name like "John" when he visits, if any name at all.
Anonymous wrote:Ew⌠Men can be So gross.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being⌠not legit.
...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!