Anonymous wrote:How does this happen? I imagine it’s a wealthy heiress with poor marriage prospects (based on her looks and figure) but some guy sees a nice meal ticket, possible CEO position in FIL’s business.

Need more info. Are you referring to the time when they are young at their wedding or much later in the marriage like their 40s or 50s? If it's later in the marriage, it's quite possible the man's attractiveness improved with age and the woman's declined which often happens. If it's when they are young at their wedding, this simply doesn't happen ever except for extremely rare cases and there's most likely something else going on. A good-looking young man will never go shlubby ugly. Never. Too many attractive young women out there so no reason to lower standards.

if you are concerned about your spouse not taking care of themselves you can add a lifestyle clause to the marriage

https://www.marylanddivorcelawyer-blog.com/including-lifestyle-clauses-in-a-maryland-prenuptial-or-postnuptial-agreement/

This happens when they start out around the same level of attractiveness and one person ages well and the other just doesn’t.

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Anonymous wrote:How does this happen? I imagine it’s a wealthy heiress with poor marriage prospects (based on her looks and figure) but some guy sees a nice meal ticket, possible CEO position in FIL’s business.

I always assume it's the husband's fault. If a man is keeping a woman happy, she'll look good. If he's just an energy vampire and giving her nothing, she'll come to shlub.

Its always the husband’s fault…. can’t possibly be the wife’s fault…. Smh

Anonymous wrote:Usually they get fat after a pregnancy and don't bother losing weight because they sre "too tired." Then they just eat their sadness away.

And we know where that sadness is coming from ...

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Anonymous wrote:Husband here.

Women are so delusional. Just because a husband tells his fat wife he finds her beautiful, doesn’t mean he does. He says it to keep the marriage going and many women cannot handle the truth.

Unless you have a serious health issue, make losing weight a top priority.

Btw my wife is fat too and I told her to lose weight. I was nice and tactful about it but I made my point clear.

Truth ^^.

Thanks! Many people here are proving my point that many women and apparently some men can’t handle the truth

So much denial.

Anonymous wrote:How does this happen? I imagine it’s a wealthy heiress with poor marriage prospects (based on her looks and figure) but some guy sees a nice meal ticket, possible CEO position in FIL’s business.

I always assume it's the husband's fault. If a man is keeping a woman happy, she'll look good. If he's just an energy vampire and giving her nothing, she'll come to shlub.

Anonymous wrote:They probably were even and then had kids. He probably slacks at home and she has no time to take care of herself. Once you realize that you'll get the ick you should from looking at him.

This 1000%

Anonymous wrote:They probably were even and then had kids. He probably slacks at home and she has no time to take care of herself. Once you realize that you'll get the ick you should from looking at him.

Thank you!!! I feel seen.

Usually they get fat after a pregnancy and don't bother losing weight because they sre "too tired." Then they just eat their sadness away.

They were probably more equal when they first met and before kids.

Look at pierce brosnan and his wife. They may look mismatched now but when they were first married, they made a perfect couple.

Many men age better than women. I can think of a few women in my circles who just aren’t aging well. Their husbands look good/better while the women are aging really poorly (weight gain, wrinkles). Unfortunately if the woman was really hot, it makes a much bigger drastic difference.

Anonymous wrote:How does this happen? I imagine it’s a wealthy heiress with poor marriage prospects (based on her looks and figure) but some guy sees a nice meal ticket, possible CEO position in FIL’s business.

I've seen more attractive wives, shlubby husbands

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Anonymous wrote:Husband here.

Women are so delusional. Just because a husband tells his fat wife he finds her beautiful, doesn’t mean he does. He says it to keep the marriage going and many women cannot handle the truth.

Unless you have a serious health issue, make losing weight a top priority.

Btw my wife is fat too and I told her to lose weight. I was nice and tactful about it but I made my point clear.

I have found plenty of fat women beautiful so I'm pretty sure when others say that, they mean it too. Just because it's not ever to your taste doesn't mean this applies to all others. I would never be as trashy a person as you so please understand there are all types in the world.

Lol, men that like fat women are those that can’t get h/w proportionate women or are fat themselves

No - African-American men and Hispanic men often like women with a little more meat on them.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Husband here.

Women are so delusional. Just because a husband tells his fat wife he finds her beautiful, doesn’t mean he does. He says it to keep the marriage going and many women cannot handle the truth.

Unless you have a serious health issue, make losing weight a top priority.

Btw my wife is fat too and I told her to lose weight. I was nice and tactful about it but I made my point clear.

On her behalf, let me tell you what an a$$ clown you are. Appreciate the wife you obviously don’t deserve. She’s probably overweight bc you are horrible and depressing

I appreciate her a lot and she has many good qualities. Her weight is not one of them. She needs to be h/w proportionate to have a long healthy life and marriage

She doesn’t have a good marriage already.

She does and losing weight will make it even better

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Husband here.

Women are so delusional. Just because a husband tells his fat wife he finds her beautiful, doesn’t mean he does. He says it to keep the marriage going and many women cannot handle the truth.

Unless you have a serious health issue, make losing weight a top priority.

Btw my wife is fat too and I told her to lose weight. I was nice and tactful about it but I made my point clear.

On her behalf, let me tell you what an a$$ clown you are. Appreciate the wife you obviously don’t deserve. She’s probably overweight bc you are horrible and depressing

I appreciate her a lot and she has many good qualities. Her weight is not one of them. She needs to be h/w proportionate to have a long healthy life and marriage

She doesn’t have a good marriage already.

Truth. Enjoy your divorce, dude.