Anonymous wrote:Go to school in the 1990s.

I started school in 1990 and we had all gender bathrooms, and I think only a shower curtain between the showers. And definitely a lot of lesbians!

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Anonymous wrote:this was a concern of my grandmother when I went to college - and then she got over it. how is it possible that people in my generation aren't used to this by now. we've had these bathrooms in dorms for 30 years without the world falling apart

My dorm had single-sex floors and bathrooms.

As people have pointed out, men have been using the bathrooms on single-sex women's floors for a long time.

The move to more all gender options has come in the context of more suite style and apartment rooms, where only a few people share a single person bathroom, and retrofitting of bathrooms to provide more privacy such as floor to ceiling doors on toilet stalls, and individual rooms or cubicles with doors for showering.

You would think that someone whose concern was privacy would be happy about these changes.

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Anonymous wrote:I understand the embarrassment/modesty issue. But the OP sprinkled in bigoted nonsense and lost credibility.

Maybe the kid finds a single toilet with a door for the toilet problem. But, otherwise, short of requesting a single sex dorm or getting her own place, she’s just going to have to learn to roll with it.

OP is an incel troll. Ignore him.

I think you mean most of the PP's are incel trolls who think they're entitled to access to women's private spaces.

No, I am speaking only about you.

The weird Puritanism runs deep in America.

Hence the oddness about nakedness in our own houses.

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Anonymous wrote:I understand the embarrassment/modesty issue. But the OP sprinkled in bigoted nonsense and lost credibility.

Maybe the kid finds a single toilet with a door for the toilet problem. But, otherwise, short of requesting a single sex dorm or getting her own place, she’s just going to have to learn to roll with it.

OP is an incel troll. Ignore him.

I think you mean most of the PP's are incel trolls who think they're entitled to access to women's private spaces.

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Anonymous wrote:Have any of you been to Northern Europe? Public gender-neutral bathrooms are very common. They usually involve individual stalls with doors that lock and a common wash-up area. I went to HS in northern Europe in the 70s and they were the norm--that's how long ago they were in place. What is the weird American obsession with bathrooms?

What is also with the weird obsession with thinking European ways are more valid.

This is how bars and restaurants are in Boston too

Anonymous wrote:Have any of you been to Northern Europe? Public gender-neutral bathrooms are very common. They usually involve individual stalls with doors that lock and a common wash-up area. I went to HS in northern Europe in the 70s and they were the norm--that's how long ago they were in place. What is the weird American obsession with bathrooms?

What is also with the weird obsession with thinking European ways are more valid.

Anonymous wrote:A lot of colleges have a specific dorm wing designated to students who are women, which she could opt into. But she should snap out of the mindset or the projected mindset from her parents that lesbians are all hitting on her.

I think its cute that anyone thinks the first time they will run into a lesbian in a bathroom is in college. We're EVERYWHERE.

Anonymous wrote:this was a concern of my grandmother when I went to college - and then she got over it. how is it possible that people in my generation aren't used to this by now. we've had these bathrooms in dorms for 30 years without the world falling apart

My dorm had single-sex floors and bathrooms.

Have any of you been to Northern Europe? Public gender-neutral bathrooms are very common. They usually involve individual stalls with doors that lock and a common wash-up area. I went to HS in northern Europe in the 70s and they were the norm--that's how long ago they were in place. What is the weird American obsession with bathrooms?

A lot of colleges have a specific dorm wing designated to students who are women, which she could opt into. But she should snap out of the mindset or the projected mindset from her parents that lesbians are all hitting on her.

this was a concern of my grandmother when I went to college - and then she got over it. how is it possible that people in my generation aren't used to this by now. we've had these bathrooms in dorms for 30 years without the world falling apart

Anonymous wrote:I understand the embarrassment/modesty issue. But the OP sprinkled in bigoted nonsense and lost credibility.

Maybe the kid finds a single toilet with a door for the toilet problem. But, otherwise, short of requesting a single sex dorm or getting her own place, she’s just going to have to learn to roll with it.

OP is an incel troll. Ignore him.

Anonymous wrote:Lots of posters here would probably lay down their life to protect the right for the most extreme LGBTQ…XYZ person to have their preferences respected. But some 17 year old girl isn’t wild about taking a dump next 3 feet from a guy she might have a crush on & people act like she’s from Pluto. You’re all about individuality & choice, but Heaven forbid someone is an outlier on the topic of shared bathrooms.

What does one have to do with the other?

Your phrasing "take a dump" strongly suggests you're a man engaged in concern trolling. It's very weird how preoccupied you lot are with bathrooms, toilets and other things. The fact that you're so triggered about this phantom menace here tells me you're either trolling and trying to provoke reactions or mentally unstable. So, which is it, dude?

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Anonymous wrote:Hope the ladies enjoy all of the piss all over the seats and floors from the dudes urinating in the same bathroom.

Welcome to progress in action.

I grew up sharing a bathroom with brothers and a dad and this wasn't an issue, do they lose the ability to be housetrained when they go to college?

Yes. You could say this about any dude. But clearly you've never been in a men's bathroom in a public place like a restaurant, school, bar, stadium, truck stop, etc. It is way different in public places. Men get piss all over toilet seats and the floor. Lol, I've been to some places where there is so much piss on the floor that it wears off flooring surface around the toilet or urinal. The amount of piss on toilet seats in men's bathrooms in public places is crazy and why I never play away games with #2. Ladies now have a lifetime of piss soaked toilet seats to look forward to all in the name of progress and nongendered bathrooms, ha.