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Anonymous wrote:So, nobody has proven examples of why they are against DEIB in schools. It just seems like a bunch of fragility and racism.

There have been many points. You can’t refute them, so you ignore them.

Personally I don’t want my children taught overt anti-union and anti-labor rhetoric, which is why I am skeptical of most DEI programs, which are profoundly anti-labor.

+100000

Can you say more about the anti labor/union bias in DEI programs? I have not seen this myself but am curious what you have seen.

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Anonymous wrote:I’ll play. My child’s first grade teacher taught class about pronouns and encouraged DC to adopt different ones. When we expressed that step was perhaps a bit drastic for a 6 year old and perhaps could slow roll any social transition to see how things played out, school told us to F off and basically implied that we are bigots. It was only when our normally happy and enthusiastic child developed daily anxiety and school-avoidant behaviors did teacher and admin back down with tail between their legs, and stopped reading daily books about pronouns to the class.

Thankfully child is doing great from a confidence and sense of self perspective a couple years on, and doesn’t talk about pronouns anymore, fyi.

People on this board have told me that this didn’t happen, but I can assure you that it did and that it was an extremely challenging 12-18 months for the whole family. We are liberal democrats fwiw.

Was this in MoCo?

Anonymous wrote:I’ll play. My child’s first grade teacher taught class about pronouns and encouraged DC to adopt different ones. When we expressed that step was perhaps a bit drastic for a 6 year old and perhaps could slow roll any social transition to see how things played out, school told us to F off and basically implied that we are bigots. It was only when our normally happy and enthusiastic child developed daily anxiety and school-avoidant behaviors did teacher and admin back down with tail between their legs, and stopped reading daily books about pronouns to the class.

Thankfully child is doing great from a confidence and sense of self perspective a couple years on, and doesn’t talk about pronouns anymore, fyi.

People on this board have told me that this didn’t happen, but I can assure you that it did and that it was an extremely challenging 12-18 months for the whole family. We are liberal democrats fwiw.

Anonymous wrote:Because a major political organization decided the only way they could win elections was through lies, untruths, and deception. Dividing people and sowing chaos helps them too. They’ve been doing it since the civil rights movement and this is just their latest, greatest attempt to continue in that vein. A good percentage of you all fall for it every time, but you know, why not make America great again?

Anonymous wrote:At our DMV private that pushes DEI down our throats, one student stated in health class — where the MS students were learning about healthy food choices — that using the terms “red meat” (a la beef) and “white meat” (a la chicken) was “racist”

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Anonymous wrote:So, nobody has proven examples of why they are against DEIB in schools. It just seems like a bunch of fragility and racism.

There have been many points. You can’t refute them, so you ignore them.

Personally I don’t want my children taught overt anti-union and anti-labor rhetoric, which is why I am skeptical of most DEI programs, which are profoundly anti-labor.

+100000

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Anonymous wrote:So, nobody has proven examples of why they are against DEIB in schools. It just seems like a bunch of fragility and racism.

There have been many points. You can’t refute them, so you ignore them.

Personally I don’t want my children taught overt anti-union and anti-labor rhetoric, which is why I am skeptical of most DEI programs, which are profoundly anti-labor.

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Anonymous wrote:So, nobody has proven examples of why they are against DEIB in schools. It just seems like a bunch of fragility and racism.

I’m not against DEIB but how it has been implemented and prioritised in my kids’ schools over issues which matter more to me or in ways that cause division and drama.

In my DS’s US, we have had problems with getting the school to address concerns regarding poor teaching. With one, it got to the point where parents had to band together and force the issue. With another, the administration continue to try to avoid the problems. Throughout all of this, there is a constant barrage of DEIB newsletters, invitations to discussion groups and other initiatives which makes it feel like they prioritise DEIB over very real academic problems (which obviously affect all students regardless of skin colour).

In my DD’s MS, I think the intentions are good but clearly younger children aren’t as able to handle the concepts and it can lead to bullying and intolerance. When she was in 5th and 6th grades, it was exasperating. Kids that age tend to see things as black and white (no pun intended). She and I had battles as she and her friends would ‘brand’ other kids as racists, misogynists and homophobes over stupid thoughtless comments that typical immature 11 year old boys and girls might make. Kids would be accused of cultural misappropriation over dumb things which clearly showed they didn’t understand the concept.

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Anonymous wrote:I used to think the same as you OP. I thought DEI pushback was simply racist republicans being racists.

Then I read a proposed curriculum that asserted that Mathematics’ focus on students getting correct answers was indicative of white supremacist culture. I then looked into DEI further and was shocked to discover what is creeping into public school curriculums and lesson plans.

This also isn't true. But again, I'm sure there are a lot of families that would believe it. Why are they falling for it?

Probably because they see evidence of it in their own schools? A lot of people tried these schools and pulled their kids out based on what they actually observed. But keep pretending that people are just majorly inconveniencing themselves and switching schools for not reason.

It's not happening. I promise that nobody is indoctrinating kids to not be racist. It's weird thing to be bothered about.

Oh sweetie, didn’t you know? It’s not enough to “not be racist.” That’s actually SUPER racist. You have to be “anti-racist.”

It's this right here that wild. This person is complaining that being against racism is an extreme position. I see this a lot and I don't understand

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Anonymous wrote:Here's the problem: The lessons are ones that adults would have benefitted from (and have now had). Our kids live in a different context, but their easy targets as a captive audience for lessons others should have had.

The kids would be best off if they just functioned together day to day in their very diverse environments. And then systemic racism that we are inured to would strike them as odd.

But instead we are inundating them with differences, drawing lines between them, and tacitly accusing them of the sins of long dead people.

This may feel good for adults now, but it does no favors for future society.

+100. When I was growing up, my white classmates made fun of my food. Now, my children’s white classmates ask me to teach them how to cook it. Of course it was traumatic to be racially excluded. But my children’s white classmates are not my old white classmates. Just because they’re the same race doesn’t mean they’re the same people. To say so would be… racist

Furthermore, I should add, as much as I want apologies from those who hurt me, taking it out on kids today by saying they should apologize for what happened in my adult past isn’t right