Anonymous
02/11/2024 12:12
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The old saying is, “It’s cheaper to keep her.”
But you only get a 50% say in that. She can leave (and get cash and prizes for doing so) no matter what you want.
No one wants to get a divorce. She doesn’t get cash and prizes. She also loses half of her retirement and access to your entire household income.
The only way a woman would come out financially ahead in divorce vs remaining married would be if her husband was hoarding money away and denying her access to it.
She usually loses the house in this expensive area too. If never worked, can’t buy him out. So they have to sell or he keeps it.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 12:07
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The old saying is, “It’s cheaper to keep her.”
But you only get a 50% say in that. She can leave (and get cash and prizes for doing so) no matter what you want.
No one wants to get a divorce. She doesn’t get cash and prizes. She also loses half of her retirement and access to your entire household income.
The only way a woman would come out financially ahead in divorce vs remaining married would be if her husband was hoarding money away and denying her access to it.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 11:59
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Same I get $1900/m but my ex makes $600K, so it’s not a lot considering his income.
Who was his lawyer? I was ordered to pay $1100 a month on a $50k salary.
I’m in the same boat OP! Except in my case my ex cheated on me and was abusive and still ended up with the kids. On top of CS I am in a 5 year bankruptcy plan paying money I charged to escape the marriage.
Good times.
I don’t know, man. If you make $50k/yr, then you probably both need to work. If you have two kids, $1100/month is probably half of the cost of childcare, before you have paid for anything else.
I’m a woman. Ex-H was making about $100k when I was ordered to pay that amount. It’s just staggering to see posters making multiple times that amount and paying only hundreds more.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 11:53
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Move to a different country and give up your citizenship. Send checks only to coveje kids.
US divorce courts are GROSSLY unfair to men. Period.
The faster you get out the better. Singapore speaks English everywhere. You are literally a modern day slave who'll keep laying alimony for for. It's slavery.
The data on courts being unfair to men would disagree with your assertion. In general, men tend to come out of divorces okay financially, but it often tips women and children into poverty.
This.
I also saw a statistic that men who ask for custody get it 93% of the time.
I’m sure there are cases that are unfair toward men out there, but they certainly aren’t the majority.
I also saw at satistic that 97% of all alimony payments are made by men. This is even though these days 50% of the workforce is women and there are now more college graduates that are women than men. Alimony is supposed to be gender neutral, yet courts are massively biased against men when it comes to alimony payments.
Gosh, yes there are just so many men downshifting job to support their hard working wives in top jobs. They all get alimony since those guys with the dad jobs supported the house, family and kids whilst Mom focused on her career building.
The men I know who did this DO get alimony.
Honestly, the men who were in and out of rehab throughout the marriage get alimony. Nearly every man who asks for alimony gets it.
Yup. The mental disorder dads who keep getting fired also get child support and alimony from their MC, UMC ex wife.
Good stuff.
About 2 percent of alimony in America is paid by women.
That’s an old statistic. It was 10 percent in 2018 and probably higher now.
Oh wow, big whoop. 90% still paid by men. Even if the number is 20% that still means men pay 80%. Still GROSSLY unfair to men. Look at all of the nastiness Kevin Federline got for asking for it from Brittany even though women have gotten far higher from their famous ex.husbands.
Ah, theres a Dad of the Year for you back in the day when the kids were little. He wanted $50k a month so he could hire Nannie’s and cooks and maids. Not to spend time with the kid.
So in other words exactly what every woman has ever wanted from their famous ex husbands. $50k was low. Brit got off easy.
This is a woman who famously doesn’t control her own finances. So this is about a man fighting with other men for control of a woman’s money.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 11:47
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Move to a different country and give up your citizenship. Send checks only to coveje kids.
US divorce courts are GROSSLY unfair to men. Period.
The faster you get out the better. Singapore speaks English everywhere. You are literally a modern day slave who'll keep laying alimony for for. It's slavery.
The data on courts being unfair to men would disagree with your assertion. In general, men tend to come out of divorces okay financially, but it often tips women and children into poverty.
This.
I also saw a statistic that men who ask for custody get it 93% of the time.
I’m sure there are cases that are unfair toward men out there, but they certainly aren’t the majority.
I also saw at satistic that 97% of all alimony payments are made by men. This is even though these days 50% of the workforce is women and there are now more college graduates that are women than men. Alimony is supposed to be gender neutral, yet courts are massively biased against men when it comes to alimony payments.
Gosh, yes there are just so many men downshifting job to support their hard working wives in top jobs. They all get alimony since those guys with the dad jobs supported the house, family and kids whilst Mom focused on her career building.
The men I know who did this DO get alimony.
Honestly, the men who were in and out of rehab throughout the marriage get alimony. Nearly every man who asks for alimony gets it.
Yup. The mental disorder dads who keep getting fired also get child support and alimony from their MC, UMC ex wife.
Good stuff.
About 2 percent of alimony in America is paid by women.
That’s an old statistic. It was 10 percent in 2018 and probably higher now.
Oh wow, big whoop. 90% still paid by men. Even if the number is 20% that still means men pay 80%. Still GROSSLY unfair to men. Look at all of the nastiness Kevin Federline got for asking for it from Brittany even though women have gotten far higher from their famous ex.husbands.
Ah, theres a Dad of the Year for you back in the day when the kids were little. He wanted $50k a month so he could hire Nannie’s and cooks and maids. Not to spend time with the kid.
So in other words exactly what every woman has ever wanted from their famous ex husbands. $50k was low. Brit got off easy.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 11:45
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:The old saying is, “It’s cheaper to keep her.”
But you only get a 50% say in that. She can leave (and get cash and prizes for doing so) no matter what you want.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 11:43
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:I also would like to see sex as part of the marriage contract being a thing you can use for payments. Don't have sex in a year? File for a separation with payments. Cheating? File for the Cheating spouse to pay more or receive less depending on the situation. If sex is the most major part of the marriage contract it should legally be part of the marriage contract as well.
If the man still has to provide money after the marriage is over, the woman should still have to provide sex, cooking, and housekeeping. Fair is fair!
Anonymous
02/11/2024 09:45
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
And fedorer not the millionaire tennis player.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 09:45
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Move to a different country and give up your citizenship. Send checks only to coveje kids.
US divorce courts are GROSSLY unfair to men. Period.
The faster you get out the better. Singapore speaks English everywhere. You are literally a modern day slave who'll keep laying alimony for for. It's slavery.
The data on courts being unfair to men would disagree with your assertion. In general, men tend to come out of divorces okay financially, but it often tips women and children into poverty.
This.
I also saw a statistic that men who ask for custody get it 93% of the time.
I’m sure there are cases that are unfair toward men out there, but they certainly aren’t the majority.
I also saw at satistic that 97% of all alimony payments are made by men. This is even though these days 50% of the workforce is women and there are now more college graduates that are women than men. Alimony is supposed to be gender neutral, yet courts are massively biased against men when it comes to alimony payments.
Gosh, yes there are just so many men downshifting job to support their hard working wives in top jobs. They all get alimony since those guys with the dad jobs supported the house, family and kids whilst Mom focused on her career building.
The men I know who did this DO get alimony.
Honestly, the men who were in and out of rehab throughout the marriage get alimony. Nearly every man who asks for alimony gets it.
Yup. The mental disorder dads who keep getting fired also get child support and alimony from their MC, UMC ex wife.
Good stuff.
About 2 percent of alimony in America is paid by women.
That’s an old statistic. It was 10 percent in 2018 and probably higher now.
Oh wow, big whoop. 90% still paid by men. Even if the number is 20% that still means men pay 80%. Still GROSSLY unfair to men. Look at all of the nastiness Kevin Federline got for asking for it from Brittany even though women have gotten far higher from their famous ex.husbands.
Ah, theres a Dad of the Year for you back in the day when the kids were little. He wanted $50k a month so he could hire Nannie’s and cooks and maids. Not to spend time with the kid.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 09:40
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:This is why men die earlier. They stay in marriages with horrible women only because the other alternative is financial ruination.
That must be it.
DARVO and blame the women ever for your very own death.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 08:13
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Date nights, couples vacations, and marital counseling should be thought of as asset protection rather than frivolous expenses.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 08:05
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:The old saying is, “It’s cheaper to keep her.”
I thought it was, “One House, One Spouse.”
Anonymous
02/11/2024 08:03
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Move to a different country and give up your citizenship. Send checks only to coveje kids.
US divorce courts are GROSSLY unfair to men. Period.
The faster you get out the better. Singapore speaks English everywhere. You are literally a modern day slave who'll keep laying alimony for for. It's slavery.
The data on courts being unfair to men would disagree with your assertion. In general, men tend to come out of divorces okay financially, but it often tips women and children into poverty.
This.
I also saw a statistic that men who ask for custody get it 93% of the time.
I’m sure there are cases that are unfair toward men out there, but they certainly aren’t the majority.
I also saw at satistic that 97% of all alimony payments are made by men. This is even though these days 50% of the workforce is women and there are now more college graduates that are women than men. Alimony is supposed to be gender neutral, yet courts are massively biased against men when it comes to alimony payments.
Gosh, yes there are just so many men downshifting job to support their hard working wives in top jobs. They all get alimony since those guys with the dad jobs supported the house, family and kids whilst Mom focused on her career building.
The men I know who did this DO get alimony.
Honestly, the men who were in and out of rehab throughout the marriage get alimony. Nearly every man who asks for alimony gets it.
Yup. The mental disorder dads who keep getting fired also get child support and alimony from their MC, UMC ex wife.
Good stuff.
About 2 percent of alimony in America is paid by women.
That’s an old statistic. It was 10 percent in 2018 and probably higher now.
Oh wow, big whoop. 90% still paid by men. Even if the number is 20% that still means men pay 80%. Still GROSSLY unfair to men. Look at all of the nastiness Kevin Federline got for asking for it from Brittany even though women have gotten far higher from their famous ex.husbands.
I don’t know what to tell you. The numbers are going up as more women are becoming breadwinners.
Also, men pretty much always get alimony when they ask for it.
If you can’t handle asking for alimony from your ex-wife, don’t complain that you don’t get it.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 07:47
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Move to a different country and give up your citizenship. Send checks only to coveje kids.
US divorce courts are GROSSLY unfair to men. Period.
The faster you get out the better. Singapore speaks English everywhere. You are literally a modern day slave who'll keep laying alimony for for. It's slavery.
The data on courts being unfair to men would disagree with your assertion. In general, men tend to come out of divorces okay financially, but it often tips women and children into poverty.
This.
I also saw a statistic that men who ask for custody get it 93% of the time.
I’m sure there are cases that are unfair toward men out there, but they certainly aren’t the majority.
I also saw at satistic that 97% of all alimony payments are made by men. This is even though these days 50% of the workforce is women and there are now more college graduates that are women than men. Alimony is supposed to be gender neutral, yet courts are massively biased against men when it comes to alimony payments.
Gosh, yes there are just so many men downshifting job to support their hard working wives in top jobs. They all get alimony since those guys with the dad jobs supported the house, family and kids whilst Mom focused on her career building.
The men I know who did this DO get alimony.
Honestly, the men who were in and out of rehab throughout the marriage get alimony. Nearly every man who asks for alimony gets it.
Yup. The mental disorder dads who keep getting fired also get child support and alimony from their MC, UMC ex wife.
Good stuff.
About 2 percent of alimony in America is paid by women.
That’s an old statistic. It was 10 percent in 2018 and probably higher now.
Oh wow, big whoop. 90% still paid by men. Even if the number is 20% that still means men pay 80%. Still GROSSLY unfair to men. Look at all of the nastiness Kevin Federline got for asking for it from Brittany even though women have gotten far higher from their famous ex.husbands.
Anonymous
02/11/2024 07:35
Subject: Broke due to child support and alimony
This is why men die earlier. They stay in marriages with horrible women only because the other alternative is financial ruination.