Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 17:31     Subject: Re:Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You all are way too naive. If he’s not in a hospital and the police haven’t arrested him, he went home with a coworker. Period. Grown man didn’t get kidnapped.


Seriously, who wants a grown man??


I do. Winter is coming and my attic insulation needs repair.


Good lord it's not worth all that to have a man pay someone to do it and be done with it already.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 17:29     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
OP, hope everything is ok!
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 16:46     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:Could DH be off hunting bobcats??


they got married and had a kid.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 15:55     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
I think we all know what happened here.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 14:22     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I literally posted on DCUM 3 hours after I found out my DH was having an affair in the middle of the night while we were on a family trip on the other side of the world. I needed someone to talk me off a cliff and given the time difference, DCUMers responded right away. I got some really, really kind and empathetic responses that I read several times. So yes, I can see OP coming here for advice that you don't want to necessarily ask friends and family about.


I remember this. How are you? Are you and DH still together?

Yes, we are. It's been a hell of a 10 months with so so much mental and emotional work. My first thread was locked but I updated a few times in another one if you want to search vacation wife.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 14:16     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Could DH be off hunting bobcats??
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 14:00     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:I literally posted on DCUM 3 hours after I found out my DH was having an affair in the middle of the night while we were on a family trip on the other side of the world. I needed someone to talk me off a cliff and given the time difference, DCUMers responded right away. I got some really, really kind and empathetic responses that I read several times. So yes, I can see OP coming here for advice that you don't want to necessarily ask friends and family about.


I remember this. How are you? Are you and DH still together?
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 13:57     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Ugh, I feel like OP's failure to reappear is worrisome. I hope there wasn't a terrible accident or something.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 13:26     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:Does anyone remember the post from a few months ago where someone was worried about the erratic nighttime behavior of their neighbor and then some weird stuff at that house the next day?

I tried to check back in on that post later to see if there had been an update and I couldn’t find it.

This post reminded me of that.

Also I hope OP’s DH is okay.


DP and I absolutely remember that post. I recall it got the usual "MYOB" and "don't be busybody" responses. Jerks. Some people here simply post to bash OPs no matter what. I would have been concerned too, if I'd witnessed what that OP was seeing. Wonder what happened with that situation.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 10:35     Subject: Re:Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You all are way too naive. If he’s not in a hospital and the police haven’t arrested him, he went home with a coworker. Period. Grown man didn’t get kidnapped.


Seriously, who wants a grown man??


I do. Winter is coming and my attic insulation needs repair.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 10:21     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:The poster claiming to be the OP and saying her husband was drugged and stayed with a coworker was a troll, posting from an IP address in Belarus. I am fairly certain that poster is a frequent troll here. As for the actual OP, I have no idea whether she is legitimate or a troll.


Ok, anyone else find this concerning? How many other Belarusian and Russian trolls are hanging out on DCUM sowing chaos?


Sowing chaos?! I can't imagine this dumb thread is an effective Russian attack on the US.

Also attackers should be using a VPN, so a Belarusian IP should be someone from elsewhere.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 10:05     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
jsteele wrote:The poster claiming to be the OP and saying her husband was drugged and stayed with a coworker was a troll, posting from an IP address in Belarus. I am fairly certain that poster is a frequent troll here. As for the actual OP, I have no idea whether she is legitimate or a troll.


Ok, anyone else find this concerning? How many other Belarusian and Russian trolls are hanging out on DCUM sowing chaos?
Anonymous
Post 09/29/2023 14:08     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I literally posted on DCUM 3 hours after I found out my DH was having an affair in the middle of the night while we were on a family trip on the other side of the world. I needed someone to talk me off a cliff and given the time difference, DCUMers responded right away. I got some really, really kind and empathetic responses that I read several times. So yes, I can see OP coming here for advice that you don't want to necessarily ask friends and family about.


We know, you talk about it all the time.


DP. You should move along. I recognize your unhappiness causes you to lash out but you need to learn to edit yourself.


I’ve actually never posted about that specific poster. She’s just all over the place. We get itttt…


It doesn't matter if you've posted before. This particular post is uncalled for and untrue. There is no requirement that you read every post. Skip the ones where you have nothing of value to add....like this one.
Anonymous
Post 09/29/2023 13:13     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Does anyone remember the post from a few months ago where someone was worried about the erratic nighttime behavior of their neighbor and then some weird stuff at that house the next day?

I tried to check back in on that post later to see if there had been an update and I couldn’t find it.

This post reminded me of that.

Also I hope OP’s DH is okay.
Anonymous
Post 09/29/2023 11:26     Subject: Husband didn’t come home
Anonymous wrote:Why do people start threads and not come back? I guess it was a troll.


Or maybe her husband was actually in an accident or something and she is dealing with real life. Or she has been at work and at a job where she isn't hanging out on DCUM.