Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm 48 and don't make that much. I am a teacher. I must have done something very wrong then.
Teaching is generally a job for trust funders and those with rich spouses.
Wow I didn't know only the rich were allowed to teach.
Only the rich would think teaching is a good idea from a lifestyle standpoint
This is such an American viewpoint and it’s disgusting. Why don’t you guys value teaching as a profession?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This thread is bizarre. So many wealthy people not really getting it. Usually if you are making $100k as a single then you are likely living in a high cost of living area and indeed probably living paycheck to paycheck.
It takes two decent salaries to afford housing and daycare costs now.
However, we are going to see one of the greatest wealth transfers in history soon as boomers pass on their wealth to fend and millenials. Boomers control about 70% of the wealth in the country.
You're saying the boomers will die soon?
I dunno, boomers have a lot of money now, at the end of their careers/beginning of retirement, but they are going to live longer than any generation in history and will probably spend a lot of it, including on healthcare and end-of-life care. My late-60s parents have a lot of money right now, but 20 years from now? Who knows. They have stopped working and have nothing but expenses now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Rent costs $2500-3000 per mo. A modest Honda is gonna set you back $400-500 per mo. We aren’t even covering childcare, health expenses, and utilities that keep going up. Food prices keep going up and up and up. You will feel poor on a $120k salary these days.
Not everyone can afford to live in a trendy, desirable major city. Some people will have to move. They’ll survive.
If you have a portable career like teacher or nurse you can get a job anywhere, and if you have a corporate desk job you have WFH so you might only need to come in once a week. You commute from Baltimore County once a week. No big deal.
I never quite understood some of these arguments. First, teachers and nurses make crap in LCOL areas. And second, HCOL needs nurses and teachers. Are you saying they should just suck it up and commute 2 hours to HCOL areas so people like you won't go without essential workers?
I work as a nurse in federal government. I make $118K as a staff nurse. I would never make that much LCOL. I live in Northern Virginia in a $1.2 mln house which is paid off by the way. My husband is also government employee, so our combined income is over $250K. We are doing fine. We are not rich, but there are plenty families like us who don't need to move to LCOL areas.
So you and your husband bought a $1.2 Million house? This doesn’t make sense. If you have a HHI of over $250k you’re not struggling or paycheck to paycheck. What was the point of this post lol
Probably bought a long time ago.
I was about to say this. Even a 600-700k house bought back in 2010-15 could be worth 1.2-1.5 million today depending on location.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This thread is bizarre. So many wealthy people not really getting it. Usually if you are making $100k as a single then you are likely living in a high cost of living area and indeed probably living paycheck to paycheck.
It takes two decent salaries to afford housing and daycare costs now.
However, we are going to see one of the greatest wealth transfers in history soon as boomers pass on their wealth to fend and millenials. Boomers control about 70% of the wealth in the country.
You're saying the boomers will die soon?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm 48 and don't make that much. I am a teacher. I must have done something very wrong then.
Teaching is generally a job for trust funders and those with rich spouses.
Wow I didn't know only the rich were allowed to teach.
Only the rich would think teaching is a good idea from a lifestyle standpoint
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Rent costs $2500-3000 per mo. A modest Honda is gonna set you back $400-500 per mo. We aren’t even covering childcare, health expenses, and utilities that keep going up. Food prices keep going up and up and up. You will feel poor on a $120k salary these days.
Not everyone can afford to live in a trendy, desirable major city. Some people will have to move. They’ll survive.
If you have a portable career like teacher or nurse you can get a job anywhere, and if you have a corporate desk job you have WFH so you might only need to come in once a week. You commute from Baltimore County once a week. No big deal.
I never quite understood some of these arguments. First, teachers and nurses make crap in LCOL areas. And second, HCOL needs nurses and teachers. Are you saying they should just suck it up and commute 2 hours to HCOL areas so people like you won't go without essential workers?
I work as a nurse in federal government. I make $118K as a staff nurse. I would never make that much LCOL. I live in Northern Virginia in a $1.2 mln house which is paid off by the way. My husband is also government employee, so our combined income is over $250K. We are doing fine. We are not rich, but there are plenty families like us who don't need to move to LCOL areas.
So you and your husband bought a $1.2 Million house? This doesn’t make sense. If you have a HHI of over $250k you’re not struggling or paycheck to paycheck. What was the point of this post lol
Probably bought a long time ago.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Rent costs $2500-3000 per mo. A modest Honda is gonna set you back $400-500 per mo. We aren’t even covering childcare, health expenses, and utilities that keep going up. Food prices keep going up and up and up. You will feel poor on a $120k salary these days.
Not everyone can afford to live in a trendy, desirable major city. Some people will have to move. They’ll survive.
If you have a portable career like teacher or nurse you can get a job anywhere, and if you have a corporate desk job you have WFH so you might only need to come in once a week. You commute from Baltimore County once a week. No big deal.
I never quite understood some of these arguments. First, teachers and nurses make crap in LCOL areas. And second, HCOL needs nurses and teachers. Are you saying they should just suck it up and commute 2 hours to HCOL areas so people like you won't go without essential workers?
I work as a nurse in federal government. I make $118K as a staff nurse. I would never make that much LCOL. I live in Northern Virginia in a $1.2 mln house which is paid off by the way. My husband is also government employee, so our combined income is over $250K. We are doing fine. We are not rich, but there are plenty families like us who don't need to move to LCOL areas.
So you and your husband bought a $1.2 Million house? This doesn’t make sense. If you have a HHI of over $250k you’re not struggling or paycheck to paycheck. What was the point of this post lol
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Rent costs $2500-3000 per mo. A modest Honda is gonna set you back $400-500 per mo. We aren’t even covering childcare, health expenses, and utilities that keep going up. Food prices keep going up and up and up. You will feel poor on a $120k salary these days.
Not everyone can afford to live in a trendy, desirable major city. Some people will have to move. They’ll survive.
If you have a portable career like teacher or nurse you can get a job anywhere, and if you have a corporate desk job you have WFH so you might only need to come in once a week. You commute from Baltimore County once a week. No big deal.
I never quite understood some of these arguments. First, teachers and nurses make crap in LCOL areas. And second, HCOL needs nurses and teachers. Are you saying they should just suck it up and commute 2 hours to HCOL areas so people like you won't go without essential workers?
I work as a nurse in federal government. I make $118K as a staff nurse. I would never make that much LCOL. I live in Northern Virginia in a $1.2 mln house which is paid off by the way. My husband is also government employee, so our combined income is over $250K. We are doing fine. We are not rich, but there are plenty families like us who don't need to move to LCOL areas.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This thread is bizarre. So many wealthy people not really getting it. Usually if you are making $100k as a single then you are likely living in a high cost of living area and indeed probably living paycheck to paycheck.
It takes two decent salaries to afford housing and daycare costs now.
However, we are going to see one of the greatest wealth transfers in history soon as boomers pass on their wealth to fend and millenials. Boomers control about 70% of the wealth in the country.
You're saying the boomers will die soon?
Obviously
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
We live “paycheck to paycheck” after 529, savings, med school student loans, HSA, taxes and more savings.
After savings doesn't count. Aaaaah!
It does when you survey people asking if they’re living paycheck to paycheck.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m gen x and same. Passion job and still renting.
Were you a white person who grew up in a LCOL area in the Midwest or South? Everyone else (except for people in this demographic I think) knows that “passion jobs” are only for trust funders or those with a rich spouse.
Immigrants, Latinos, blacks, Asians and those from other third world countries who live in Virginia DC or Maryland tell their children to go with their passion.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This thread is bizarre. So many wealthy people not really getting it. Usually if you are making $100k as a single then you are likely living in a high cost of living area and indeed probably living paycheck to paycheck.
It takes two decent salaries to afford housing and daycare costs now.
However, we are going to see one of the greatest wealth transfers in history soon as boomers pass on their wealth to fend and millenials. Boomers control about 70% of the wealth in the country.
You're saying the boomers will die soon?
Anonymous wrote:I'm not unsympathetic to Larla but that's a story as old as time. Nothing new there. And for every Larla and her bad mistakes, there's multiples who went to the state flagship or local state school and figured things out quickly and ended up in much better places, financially. And for every Larla there's also the UMC kid with the supportive parents who languished and descended into mediocrity.