Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 14:53     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:Yes, it happens in 14.6% of cases of Au Pair positions.


And here I thought it happened in 13.47% of placements.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 14:52     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
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Anonymous wrote:We have had 5 AP’s and they were all 18-20 yr old Europeans who thought my husband was like a middle age dad joke kinda guy and honestly he’s a catch tall, dark and handsome. They all kinda think the dads are duds here in the US believe me — with the apps these days they get their action elsewhere


Yeah, no. Hot 40-something guys are still very attractive to young women (remember that crush you had on your college professor?). But if it makes you feel better to think that your “joke” of a husband is really a “catch,” by all means go for it.


I slept with (2) of my professors! They were indeed hot 40-somehtings (and married).


Ate you bragging?

Because this makes you sound pretty trashy.


One of my sorority sisters did this twenty years ago and she’s still single and childless. She’s been a permanent other woman for her whole adult life.

All of them have used her temporarily. She prefers that to actual commitment for some reason.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 14:49     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Not true. Many of these Au Pairs come from 3rd world countries. The are happy to sleep with a middle aged man who has money. Woodmont Country club actually banned Au Pairs from the pool for many years, as they were the cause of so many club sex scandals.

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Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?


I feel like the less attractive women are a bigger issue because they’re the ones willing to sleep with your DH. Really attractive young women don’t want anything to do with middle aged married men. They can find a hot, rich single man.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 14:47     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Yes, it happens in 14.6% of cases of Au Pair positions.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 14:44     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Not gross at all. It's actually super hot. I see it happen fairly often in Bethesda homes.

Anonymous wrote:Gross
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 09:40     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?


What do you do if the start running around in skimpy little outfits/pj’s etc??
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 09:38     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:All depends on how hot the au pair is relative to the wife. if one is smoking and one a pig, what do you expect to happen? and if they are about the same, the "grass is greener" and forbidden fruit dynamics come into play.
This is not rocket science; do you really need to ask?


Can you not call women pigs.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 09:36     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:Why would you hire an au pair who you think is a stunner? You already sound insecure. I've never hired an attractive nanny. As far as I know, my husband has never cheated, so it's more about my own fears and insecurities, but I value my peace of mind.


Chalk up another win for internalized misogyny.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 09:35     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We have had 5 AP’s and they were all 18-20 yr old Europeans who thought my husband was like a middle age dad joke kinda guy and honestly he’s a catch tall, dark and handsome. They all kinda think the dads are duds here in the US believe me — with the apps these days they get their action elsewhere


Yeah, no. Hot 40-something guys are still very attractive to young women (remember that crush you had on your college professor?). But if it makes you feel better to think that your “joke” of a husband is really a “catch,” by all means go for it.


I slept with (2) of my professors! They were indeed hot 40-somehtings (and married).


Ate you bragging?

Because this makes you sound pretty trashy.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 09:32     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:Depends what the man has to offer, especially after a divorce. If his net worth and earning potential will still be high after splitting assets, anything goes.


Please don’t act like women (especially those who are barely out of adolescence) approach relationships with the mindset of a venture capitalist.

Your misogyny is showing.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 09:19     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Why would you hire an au pair who you think is a stunner? You already sound insecure. I've never hired an attractive nanny. As far as I know, my husband has never cheated, so it's more about my own fears and insecurities, but I value my peace of mind.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 09:02     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
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Anonymous wrote:I know an au pair who married the husband. She continued to work cooperatively with both parents to take care of the kids, now as their stepmother.


Is this written by the au pair?


Yes.
She forgot to add that she got her permanent residency which is what she was after.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 08:56     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:I know an au pair who married the husband. She continued to work cooperatively with both parents to take care of the kids, now as their stepmother.


Is this written by the au pair?
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 08:55     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
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Anonymous wrote:No. Young attractive women mostly have no interest in middle aged men.


Huh? Most men with very young children aren't middle aged.


In the DC area they are. Assuming we are considering 40 as middle aged.


Burst your bubble.


I’m sure there are lots of 25 year old dads in small town Ohio who get au pairs.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2024 08:36     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
My friend (woman) left her husband and married the make au pair. They were together almost 20 yrs, raised the children alongside the ex-husband. They got divorced about 2 yrs ago. My friend is VERY self-destructive and cheated on him multiple times during the marriage.