Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:42
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.
Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!
Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.
Don't complain when that "adaptation" hits your front door. So short sighted and selfish lol.
There is nothing you can do about it.
Don't kid yourself. There is always something to be done.
Hope your trolling has been fun, girl.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:41
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.
What percentages of single mothers do you assume are single mothers by choice?
The vast majority. Including ones that choose not to involve the father (because he, like most men, are subhuman useless).
Why so much hate for men?
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:39
Subject: Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You can sneer at the quality of young men, and you can say it's their own damn fault for being unf**ckable losers that don't deserve love. You could even do those things with some justification.
But when they increasingly make the world a violent sh*tshow, none of us is going to be happy, and it's not going to make a huge difference who was right or wrong.
What is your solution?
I am not the poster to whom you are responding. Not sure what the solution is. Maybe a start would be more support for boys in the early years? Aside from sports, encourage activities that require more social interactions like drama, home economics, the arts. We encourage both boys to do all sorts of activities that would allow for more social interaction. The truth is that when they are in a non-athletic activity, they struggle so much more to be accepted into the group since most girls seem to want to partner with other girls in group activities.
Boys need good role models for them with more mentorship programs.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:38
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.
Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!
Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.
Don't complain when that "adaptation" hits your front door. So short sighted and selfish lol.
There is nothing you can do about it.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:37
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
Enforced by the state or what?
You think what's currently happening has nothing to do with nameless, faceless taxpayer men subsidizing single mothers and having the government play the role of protector, provider and father that men used to play.
The state is always at work; don't kid yourself.
Far preferable than women being stuck in abusive marriages.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:37
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.
Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!
Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.
Don't complain when that "adaptation" hits your front door. So short sighted and selfish lol.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:36
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
Enforced by the state or what?
You think what's currently happening has nothing to do with nameless, faceless taxpayer men subsidizing single mothers and having the government play the role of protector, provider and father that men used to play.
The state is always at work; don't kid yourself.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:34
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.
Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!
Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:34
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It is the natural outcome.
This is not natural. This is a result of culture and choices, as was the period when monogamous, nuclear families were in the ascendancy.
Culture changes.
Duh...that is the point. There is no determinism to the emergent single mother phenomenon.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:32
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.
What percentages of single mothers do you assume are single mothers by choice?
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:32
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
Enforced by the state or what?
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:32
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
The nuclear family is dead. Accept that.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:32
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.
Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.
What is your alternative?
Idk...maybe a nuclear family?
An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.
Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:31
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.
This is...not a good thing.
It is the natural outcome.
This is not natural. This is a result of culture and choices, as was the period when monogamous, nuclear families were in the ascendancy.
Culture changes.
Anonymous
02/23/2023 13:31
Subject: Re:Most young men are single - most young women are not
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am not convinced that somehow schools, or social media or video games are the culprit. Or that men have become significantly less social, educated or "desirable" over time (probably the opposite). But in terms of the mating game, the acute economic pressure that was on women e.g. in 1950, to find a husband is probably close to gone today (and the social pressure has correspondingly abated as well). So if 30% of men are attractive mates, 40% average, and 30% subpar, and this has remained steady over time, there is really no reason women today would date the bottom 30% or even 50%, whereas 40-50 years ago they would have no other feasible option, and 20-30 years ago the social pressure would have still been fairly intense.
I'm not sure you could unwind this dynamic now or why we would even want to.
The shifting role of men means they need to become relevant, which they are, but they’ve seemed to have lost their way. Men need to see dating and marriage as a partnership and not the traditional way marriage has played out.
Right but then men, at least as a class, actually have to improve. If previously, all the bottom 30% had to offer was a paycheck or basic physical protection to get a mate, obviously that is not necessarily going to cut it anymore. So these guys have to become more pro-social, egalitarian, educated, whatever--which sure, would be great, but seems a bigger endeavor than just cutting video game time or changing some company's recruiting strategy.
All men have to be above average if they want a partner.
No. They just have to be a better option to potential partners than no partner at all. It's just the cost to women of "no partner at all" is much much reduced in a world where they have equal access to education and employment.