Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Okay, sure, understood. Not offended at all.
But how does this issue come up in conversations with people you barely know?
I didn't say barely know. I said acquaintances. I don't consider them the same thing. Friends are friends, acquaintances are people definitely in my friend "circle," but not my primary friend and I wouldn't independently hang out with them, yet I seem to find them in my orbit on a regular basis. This being Florida (cue the jokes, often merited despite the fact that I like our life here), it comes up more often than you'd think. People casually drop into conversation very regularly about how great our governor is, how much better the school districts are because of him, how much freer they feel sending their kids to "DeSantis's school" because they heard there are "litter boxes in the high school bathrooms for those identifying as a cat and now that won't be true anymore." You better believe I will go head-to-head with that level of ignorance and hate. I just don't stand for that, and when it comes up, I defend my daughter and any and all gay folks. But yeah, they bring it up.
But other than that, those "bad seeds" that I find myself interacting with on the regular, it's otherwise fine here. Besides the horrible bill, she loved her school but is now feeling very much under attack and refuses to go to Pride Club anymore. It's been horrible, right out of the starting gate this year. I feel this will pass but it's been a bumpy start.
Anonymous wrote:Okay, sure, understood. Not offended at all.
But how does this issue come up in conversations with people you barely know?
Anonymous wrote:Ugh, you go “head-to-head,” really? Didn’t your parents tell you never to discuss money, religion, or politics with people you don’t know well? It’s so tacky.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know a few of my friends that moved to Florida, and only one of them are Republicans, is this an outliers? Are more Republican's moving to Florida than Dems?
FL had a boom during the pandemic, take a guess why. Take a guess why tax free red states like FL and TX had an influx of overtaxed citizens of NY and CA whose states had the strictest Covid restrictions and mandates and most radical social/equity justice reforms. This isn't even about republicans migrating or those who used to be democrats switching their political leaning. It's probably more about opportunism, finally saving on state taxes and RE prices (when you come from most expensive places in the USA) started to make sense with remote work, and unfavorable changes to QOL brought on by their states local Covid policies and going a bit too far to the left in other aspects had pushed them to make that move for greener pastures.
A huge factor was that FL had open schools during most of the pandemic. Florida man is smarter than often assumed
+1. Have any of you tried to get a child therapist in the DMV in the past year? It’s almost impossible. None take insurance. Huge waiting lists. The blue cities have set their kids back several years.
Even if that were true, the red state kids were so far behind, the blue state kids are still ahead.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s a healthy family environment where the American dream is still possible and government interference is muzzled.
um.. ok. Guess that depends on how you define 'healthy". Florida health systems aren't that great; childhood obesity is like 35%; infant mortality is fairly high; Desantis is meddling in education.
I guess they are better off than, say, LA, but not compared to placesl ike MD.
LOL! Who needs facts when you have conjecture?
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/pressroom/sosmap/infant_mortality_rates/infant_mortality.htm --> FL Infant mortality is lower than Maryland's
https://stateofchildhoodobesity.org/children1017/ --> as is childhood obesity
good catch, but at least MD expanded medicaid so low income people can get healthcare. I guess FL doesn't care about poor people.
Check your logic, seems that FL people, including the poor ones, have better health.
This.
But the poor ones don't have access to healthcare, and usually, they are the ones who need it most.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We moved to an Orlando suburb in summer 2020. It is much more family friendly. Our whole neighborhood is filled with young kids. When we lived in MoCo, our neighborhood had only one other elementary school boy- a 4th grader who threw rocks at passing cars and dropped the occasional F bomb. Our new neighborhood? Eight kids in my 1st grader's grade alone- one of whom still takes an afternoon napPlus our kids got go to school in 2020!
+1 Also bought a home in an Orlando Suburb. I love the neighborhood feel. Every morning a bunch of kids walk and ride their bikes past the front of my house on their way to school. Occasionally a mom/dad in a golf cart follows up 5-10 minutes later with something a kid forgot. It's hilarious. In the afternoon the whole street is a giant playground with bikes and balls everywhere. Parents sit on their driveways chatting with each other. On the first day we moved in, three different neighbors stopped by to introduce themselves.
+2 Orlando suburb here too! The impact on my kid has been wonderful. We found a good school district (granted, that took a ton of research) and found our place here in Orlando. The neighborhood is fantastic, people are friendly. It is hard with the political climate the way it is, but I have many republican friends. They don't challenge me and I don't challenge them, and we just stay friends. I'll go head-to-head with acquaintances, but I try to protect my true friendships from politics. It's just "better" that way. I'm not changing their minds and they're not changing mine. But I'm here and I vote.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We moved to an Orlando suburb in summer 2020. It is much more family friendly. Our whole neighborhood is filled with young kids. When we lived in MoCo, our neighborhood had only one other elementary school boy- a 4th grader who threw rocks at passing cars and dropped the occasional F bomb. Our new neighborhood? Eight kids in my 1st grader's grade alone- one of whom still takes an afternoon napPlus our kids got go to school in 2020!
+1 Also bought a home in an Orlando Suburb. I love the neighborhood feel. Every morning a bunch of kids walk and ride their bikes past the front of my house on their way to school. Occasionally a mom/dad in a golf cart follows up 5-10 minutes later with something a kid forgot. It's hilarious. In the afternoon the whole street is a giant playground with bikes and balls everywhere. Parents sit on their driveways chatting with each other. On the first day we moved in, three different neighbors stopped by to introduce themselves.