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Anonymous wrote:What was up with the expectation that Angela and Jordan were supposed to have sex after he like, held her hand for an episode? Or the depiction that all these 14-15 year olds like Rayanne and Sharon were having lots of sex? That was not the case in my high school. Did this seem seriously young to others?

I’m watching now and had the same thought. Sex was a really, really big deal in the late 80s, at least. My friends who became active in high school did it around senior year with serious boyfriends, for the most part. At 15? It was definitely not prevalent. I had boyfriends and did “everything but” until I felt ready, in my freshman year of college. I know that’s all anecdotal, but I have a 15 year old DD now and she is definitely not ready.

Well, that's just a technicality, if you already did "everything but". For many girls "doing everything" is next level of intimacy. I think you just illustrated that teenagers did, in fact, have sex.

Different poster, but the one who posed the original question about the depiction of sex on the show. I also had a long term boyfriend in high school, and we did most things, but I was definitely not ready to have sex with him and knew that. I knew when I was ready, and it had less to do with the relationship I was in and more of a maturity thing. I wasn’t ready until I was in college and started to understand what mattered to me in relationships and life. While I didn’t know in high school that that’s why I wasn’t ready, I knew very intuitively that I wasn’t and didn’t know myself well enough yet to feel good about having sex.

again, average age of first intercouse in the US is 15. so while you weren't ready and your boyfriend was willing to go slowly, about a half of teens your age have already done it, and many more by the time you graduated. i mean, i get it, i was the same, but at the same time, i knew girls my age who were sexually active and some of those were good, ambitious students, like sharon, so it was not limited to alternative girls or whatever. so it totally makes sense that someone like jordan catalano would not want to wait and that someone like angela was not ready despite pining for him. brian, would, probably, wait, like your boyfriend. but guys like jordan were already having sex, and he was not going to go back to holding hands for 2 years.

once again, the series feels accurate in portraying the HS realities with some of the students (sharon, rayanne, catalano and boys in those circles) being sexually active and then another group (angela, brian, rickie) who were not there yet.

Anonymous wrote:They had so much more freedom than teens today. “Just let me know when you’ll be coming home late” was all that was required of these 15 year olds.

Anonymous wrote:My take away is everyone on the show kind of sucks except Ricki. The writers were good at making sure almost everyone slipped.

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Anonymous wrote:No. I was a sucker for Jordan. What can I say…

Same. I don’t buy them “longing for each other” if that was the direction the show was headed. Maybe if he had a glow up?

How do you not buy it? The season finale followed the plot from Cyrano de Bergerac. The creator said so, and it was obvious anyway. Nobody roots for hot dumb guy there.

Because Brian was an immature jerk. Angela is immature and sweet. I don’t like him as a person in season one. He has his moments, you can see how he can have lots of character growth over several seasons, and obviously this is where they were taking it. But I don’t have to like it. Jordan was never going to be end game, at least not realistically. But Brian and Angela in high school isn’t doing it for me either.

What are you talking about? You don't need to like him, but he absolutely was not portrayed as "immature jerk". I mean, he was not perfect, but he is smart and generous. Angela is portrayed as callous and a user towards Brian, and she is literally called on it in the show. She is often sweet, yes, but can also be cruel.

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Anonymous wrote:I also thought Jordan had been held back. I don’t think he was supposed to be 15.

He was actually held back twice!

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Anonymous wrote:What was up with the expectation that Angela and Jordan were supposed to have sex after he like, held her hand for an episode? Or the depiction that all these 14-15 year olds like Rayanne and Sharon were having lots of sex? That was not the case in my high school. Did this seem seriously young to others?

I’m watching now and had the same thought. Sex was a really, really big deal in the late 80s, at least. My friends who became active in high school did it around senior year with serious boyfriends, for the most part. At 15? It was definitely not prevalent. I had boyfriends and did “everything but” until I felt ready, in my freshman year of college. I know that’s all anecdotal, but I have a 15 year old DD now and she is definitely not ready.

Well, that's just a technicality, if you already did "everything but". For many girls "doing everything" is next level of intimacy. I think you just illustrated that teenagers did, in fact, have sex.

Different poster, but the one who posed the original question about the depiction of sex on the show. I also had a long term boyfriend in high school, and we did most things, but I was definitely not ready to have sex with him and knew that. I knew when I was ready, and it had less to do with the relationship I was in and more of a maturity thing. I wasn’t ready until I was in college and started to understand what mattered to me in relationships and life. While I didn’t know in high school that that’s why I wasn’t ready, I knew very intuitively that I wasn’t and didn’t know myself well enough yet to feel good about having sex.

again, average age of first intercouse in the US is 15. so while you weren't ready and your boyfriend was willing to go slowly, about a half of teens your age have already done it, and many more by the time you graduated. i mean, i get it, i was the same, but at the same time, i knew girls my age who were sexually active and some of those were good, ambitious students, like sharon, so it was not limited to alternative girls or whatever. so it totally makes sense that someone like jordan catalano would not want to wait and that someone like angela was not ready despite pining for him. brian, would, probably, wait, like your boyfriend. but guys like jordan were already having sex, and he was not going to go back to holding hands for 2 years.

once again, the series feels accurate in portraying the HS realities with some of the students (sharon, rayanne, catalano and boys in those circles) being sexually active and then another group (angela, brian, rickie) who were not there yet.

My point is that the show made it seem like Angela and Brian and rickie were in the minority not being sexually active. I would say the minority in my high school were, and same with my husbands circle. And I was not particularly prude.

Anonymous wrote:I also thought Jordan had been held back. I don’t think he was supposed to be 15.

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Anonymous wrote:What was up with the expectation that Angela and Jordan were supposed to have sex after he like, held her hand for an episode? Or the depiction that all these 14-15 year olds like Rayanne and Sharon were having lots of sex? That was not the case in my high school. Did this seem seriously young to others?

I’m watching now and had the same thought. Sex was a really, really big deal in the late 80s, at least. My friends who became active in high school did it around senior year with serious boyfriends, for the most part. At 15? It was definitely not prevalent. I had boyfriends and did “everything but” until I felt ready, in my freshman year of college. I know that’s all anecdotal, but I have a 15 year old DD now and she is definitely not ready.

Well, that's just a technicality, if you already did "everything but". For many girls "doing everything" is next level of intimacy. I think you just illustrated that teenagers did, in fact, have sex.

Different poster, but the one who posed the original question about the depiction of sex on the show. I also had a long term boyfriend in high school, and we did most things, but I was definitely not ready to have sex with him and knew that. I knew when I was ready, and it had less to do with the relationship I was in and more of a maturity thing. I wasn’t ready until I was in college and started to understand what mattered to me in relationships and life. While I didn’t know in high school that that’s why I wasn’t ready, I knew very intuitively that I wasn’t and didn’t know myself well enough yet to feel good about having sex.

again, average age of first intercouse in the US is 15. so while you weren't ready and your boyfriend was willing to go slowly, about a half of teens your age have already done it, and many more by the time you graduated. i mean, i get it, i was the same, but at the same time, i knew girls my age who were sexually active and some of those were good, ambitious students, like sharon, so it was not limited to alternative girls or whatever. so it totally makes sense that someone like jordan catalano would not want to wait and that someone like angela was not ready despite pining for him. brian, would, probably, wait, like your boyfriend. but guys like jordan were already having sex, and he was not going to go back to holding hands for 2 years.

once again, the series feels accurate in portraying the HS realities with some of the students (sharon, rayanne, catalano and boys in those circles) being sexually active and then another group (angela, brian, rickie) who were not there yet.

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Anonymous wrote:What was up with the expectation that Angela and Jordan were supposed to have sex after he like, held her hand for an episode? Or the depiction that all these 14-15 year olds like Rayanne and Sharon were having lots of sex? That was not the case in my high school. Did this seem seriously young to others?

I’m watching now and had the same thought. Sex was a really, really big deal in the late 80s, at least. My friends who became active in high school did it around senior year with serious boyfriends, for the most part. At 15? It was definitely not prevalent. I had boyfriends and did “everything but” until I felt ready, in my freshman year of college. I know that’s all anecdotal, but I have a 15 year old DD now and she is definitely not ready.

Well, that's just a technicality, if you already did "everything but". For many girls "doing everything" is next level of intimacy. I think you just illustrated that teenagers did, in fact, have sex.

Different poster, but the one who posed the original question about the depiction of sex on the show. I also had a long term boyfriend in high school, and we did most things, but I was definitely not ready to have sex with him and knew that. I knew when I was ready, and it had less to do with the relationship I was in and more of a maturity thing. I wasn’t ready until I was in college and started to understand what mattered to me in relationships and life. While I didn’t know in high school that that’s why I wasn’t ready, I knew very intuitively that I wasn’t and didn’t know myself well enough yet to feel good about having sex.

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Anonymous wrote:What was up with the expectation that Angela and Jordan were supposed to have sex after he like, held her hand for an episode? Or the depiction that all these 14-15 year olds like Rayanne and Sharon were having lots of sex? That was not the case in my high school. Did this seem seriously young to others?

I’m watching now and had the same thought. Sex was a really, really big deal in the late 80s, at least. My friends who became active in high school did it around senior year with serious boyfriends, for the most part. At 15? It was definitely not prevalent. I had boyfriends and did “everything but” until I felt ready, in my freshman year of college. I know that’s all anecdotal, but I have a 15 year old DD now and she is definitely not ready.

Well, that's just a technicality, if you already did "everything but". For many girls "doing everything" is next level of intimacy. I think you just illustrated that teenagers did, in fact, have sex.

Anonymous wrote:What was up with the expectation that Angela and Jordan were supposed to have sex after he like, held her hand for an episode? Or the depiction that all these 14-15 year olds like Rayanne and Sharon were having lots of sex? That was not the case in my high school. Did this seem seriously young to others?