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Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?

Do whatever that poster put the pictures of look like a chore. Where the boobs are hanging out.

Those are literally the easiest things to put on and take off

It’s not just the ease of wear. It that one is so explicitly, sexually exposed. Just like some women are comfortable wear crop tops and bike shorts to Wegmans, others are more modest. I’d feel as silly in that lingerie as I would in a slutty nurse costume. I don’t like to be a Barbie doll on display, especially as a middle-aged mom with all the battle scars from childbirth. I think most husbands understand this about their reluctant wives.

And this doesn’t mean we don’t have sex. We do 3-4 times a week. Just skipping the costumes.

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Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?

Do whatever that poster put the pictures of look like a chore. Where the boobs are hanging out.

Those are literally the easiest things to put on and take off

Anonymous wrote:DW asked me to buy her something sexy from Victoria's in 2020. Spent a fortune on it. She's never worn it.

How did you spend a fortune on a couple items at VS.

Anonymous wrote:A few ladies have said that they like their men in sexy underwear?

What constitutes that for men? Bc I would 100% wear something different for DW

I’m one of them. I’m going to be annihilated here on dcum. But, if you’re serious… my husband is sexy AF and his butt is a work of art. Neither he nor I have any issues with underwear made from more delicate material usually reserved for women, or more fun stuff targeted for gay men. So, you’d need to have that talk with her.

On the completely tame side, I always like soft boxer briefs. Like from Mark Weldon.

I also like jock straps or thongs with fun prints, jocks let me frame and both let me squish his bare booty however I want. I love knowing that is on under his pants when we’re out at dinner.

And men’s lace boxer briefs or briefs are a treat. He doesn’t wear those often, but it’s always a nice surprise when he does. Lace isn’t always the comfiest, so I get it and am very thankful when he does. Like opening a present.

I find them online. Skull & Bones is one store.

DW asked me to buy her something sexy from Victoria's in 2020. Spent a fortune on it. She's never worn it.

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Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?

Do whatever that poster put the pictures of look like a chore. Where the boobs are hanging out.

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Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

A chore to put on? What kind of lingerie are you referring to? BDSM type leather apparel?

I wear it for me. DH doesn’t seem to care and just wants me naked. But I do feel properly dressed for the day without a nice matching set of lingerie underneath.

Anonymous wrote:I wear lingerie for us, so not just him. It makes me a lot keep confident and sexy. Husband likes the look of it as well. It comes off quickly and ends up on the floor but I still love it. Just another way to keep things hot and spicy. He has never gifted me lingerie. We still have sex when I wear a baggy t shirt and sweatpants to bed too.

Happy it works for you both.

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You seem more than ready for a threesome: Anger, Bitterness, and you (in something slinky.)

dp Of course! making personal attacks against a woman who dares have an opinion that you don't approve of! Not so shocking when you realize that women were burned at the stakes for being "witches" or called prostitutes' when they weren't ( in the bible)

We need to add a fourth to the threesome: Anger, Bitterness, her (in something slinky), and Crazy (the DP).

I have not seen any women burned at the stake recently. However, I live in Vienna, so I might have missed something along these lines in DC (or Fairfax.)

Oh great now you are attacking mentally ill people. You are being obtuse and ignoring our past. Posts like yours are meant to make women feel inferior. Just because we do not like lingerie does not mean we are angry, "crazy", or bitter.

You on the other hand...mean girl.

I wear lingerie for us, so not just him. It makes me a lot keep confident and sexy. Husband likes the look of it as well. It comes off quickly and ends up on the floor but I still love it. Just another way to keep things hot and spicy. He has never gifted me lingerie. We still have sex when I wear a baggy t shirt and sweatpants to bed too.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why woman are upset that their partners like seeing them in lingerie. My DH has great taste and I love the stuff he buys me, and he loves the stuff I pick out.

You love the outfits so that's great. But imagine if your dh wants you to wear something you don't like. Now do you understand?

There is no lingerie you like? DH probably doesn't really like doing half the stuff I ask him to do, but he indulges me.

Nope. That is not my thing. We have a good sex life for us.

You seem more than ready for a threesome: Anger, Bitterness, and you (in something slinky.)

dp Of course! making personal attacks against a woman who dares have an opinion that you don't approve of! Not so shocking when you realize that women were burned at the stakes for being "witches" or called prostitutes' when they weren't ( in the bible)

We need to add a fourth to the threesome: Anger, Bitterness, her (in something slinky), and Crazy (the DP).

I have not seen any women burned at the stake recently. However, I live in Vienna, so I might have missed something along these lines in DC (or Fairfax.)

Anonymous wrote:A few ladies have said that they like their men in sexy underwear?

What constitutes that for men? Bc I would 100% wear something different for DW

Isn’t it funny that no one even really knows the answer to this?

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Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

I would like it. We have been married 15 years and have three kids. It would be nice to know that he still thinks of me as sexy.