Anonymous
04/25/2022 15:20
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?
My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.
Sorry but APs and 2nd marriages don't count. Everyone has lots of sex in the first few years of a relationship.
It's been 10 years but ok.
Anonymous
04/25/2022 14:47
Subject: Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
47DW and 51DH with 3 kids (college and HS aged)
we're typically 1-2/week - and he would like it more often. He has always been a great lover and he can still give me a couple (or more) big O's every time.
But with DH about to start on some supplements (at my urging as part of improving overall health), I know his drive will kick even higher and I am bracing myself for it.
we're typically 1-2/week - and he would like it more often. He has always been a great lover and he can still give me a couple (or more) big O's every time.
But with DH about to start on some supplements (at my urging as part of improving overall health), I know his drive will kick even higher and I am bracing myself for it.
Anonymous
04/25/2022 14:37
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.
The PP is much older - this is typical boomer behavior. My first ever manager used to keep a spreadsheet together with his sexual activity and also prostate problems, such as how many times a night he'd wake up to pee, and reminders for viagra, cholesterol, herpes meds etc. He'd keep it on the share drive and it was not password protected. I don't know if he was just stupid or didn't care.
I'm a boomer and don't do any of that stuff. And why would anyone need a reminder for Viagra??
No clue but I'm also a woman. This was 20+ years ago, so maybe the pharmacy didn't have a refill reminder option back then?
Anonymous
04/25/2022 14:11
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.
The PP is much older - this is typical boomer behavior. My first ever manager used to keep a spreadsheet together with his sexual activity and also prostate problems, such as how many times a night he'd wake up to pee, and reminders for viagra, cholesterol, herpes meds etc. He'd keep it on the share drive and it was not password protected. I don't know if he was just stupid or didn't care.
I'm a boomer and don't do any of that stuff. And why would anyone need a reminder for Viagra??
Anonymous
04/25/2022 14:09
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?
When I wrote that I did with my (younger) girlfriend above, I was attacked.
Anonymous
04/25/2022 13:50
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?
My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.
Advanced placement?
An*l Partner
Anonymous
04/25/2022 13:44
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?
My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.
Advanced placement?
Anonymous
04/25/2022 13:43
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:no s** for over 3 years. DH got cancer and I got the vibrator.
If you were my wife, I wouldn’t be happy about doing it, but I would definitely encourage you find a lover.
My wife is so beautiful when she is having sex, I could never deny her that. Even if I dont get to witness it which I probably wouldn’t.
This is heavy. You sound like a loving husband.
No, that is ridiculous. Just divorce and be friends if he feels so inclined to let her get a sex partner.
If you haven't loved a person with a disability, you're not qualified to comment.
Having a spouse with a disability is not a free pass to go screwing others.
Who said it was a free pass?
Oh, so do it in secret. That makes it better.
You have serious reading comprehension issues.
Tired dcum comeback.
Anonymous
04/25/2022 13:41
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:53f and 56m, once a week, sometimes twice. Married 31 years. 2 kids in college.
Mom, get off!
well son, I think we both did...it's that the whole point?
Anonymous
04/24/2022 22:39
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?
My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.
Sorry but APs and 2nd marriages don't count. Everyone has lots of sex in the first few years of a relationship.
Anonymous
04/24/2022 22:00
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.
The PP is much older - this is typical boomer behavior. My first ever manager used to keep a spreadsheet together with his sexual activity and also prostate problems, such as how many times a night he'd wake up to pee, and reminders for viagra, cholesterol, herpes meds etc. He'd keep it on the share drive and it was not password protected. I don't know if he was just stupid or didn't care.
Oh he had no idea that was public. That's hilarious!
Anonymous
04/24/2022 21:59
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?
My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.
Anonymous
04/24/2022 21:45
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?
Early in relationship, yes with all of them. After 3 years, no.
Anonymous
04/24/2022 21:17
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:no s** for over 3 years. DH got cancer and I got the vibrator.
If you were my wife, I wouldn’t be happy about doing it, but I would definitely encourage you find a lover.
My wife is so beautiful when she is having sex, I could never deny her that. Even if I dont get to witness it which I probably wouldn’t.
This is heavy. You sound like a loving husband.
No, that is ridiculous. Just divorce and be friends if he feels so inclined to let her get a sex partner.
If you haven't loved a person with a disability, you're not qualified to comment.
Having a spouse with a disability is not a free pass to go screwing others.
Who said it was a free pass?
Oh, so do it in secret. That makes it better.
You have serious reading comprehension issues.
Anonymous
04/24/2022 17:51
Subject: Re:Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:no s** for over 3 years. DH got cancer and I got the vibrator.
If you were my wife, I wouldn’t be happy about doing it, but I would definitely encourage you find a lover.
My wife is so beautiful when she is having sex, I could never deny her that. Even if I dont get to witness it which I probably wouldn’t.
This is heavy. You sound like a loving husband.
No, that is ridiculous. Just divorce and be friends if he feels so inclined to let her get a sex partner.
If you haven't loved a person with a disability, you're not qualified to comment.
Found the person who has had an affair. And is quite sensitive about it.