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Anonymous wrote:Like, these are your words exactly: "I don't have an issue with there being kids from other areas at the school."

I meant that I don’t have an issue with any kid attending our school, I just think we need solutions that don’t involve people lying and breaking the law. It’s not a personal issue with any family. It’s that there are actually rules in place and they exist for a reason (largely: funding) and we need a solution that is legal and functional.

Having some parents commit residency fraud while the rest of the school community pretends it isn’t happening is not a good solution. And yes, it is absolutely confusing for the kids. If you don’t think it is, then you’ve never had your kid say “hey how come larla and her parents live so far away?” and not being able to answer fully or truthfully.

Don't you have bigger problems to address in your life and community than your small child's "confusion" about where another kid lives? Come on.

I love this one. It's what people say when they don't have a real argument to make and know they are wrong. "Who even has time to worry about this?"

This is an actual crime with real victims. It's a form of theft (from tax payers) and in the cases of schools with limited seats, it absolutely hurts kids who may not be able to attend their IB school, or who wind up in crowded classrooms. This is not a victimless crime, and most people don't do it -- plenty of people in PG county just send their kids to school there! There is absolutely no reason why some small number of families who are willing to break the law should get to send their kids to schools that are more convenient for their commute just because.

You have no argument against this and you know it.

It says a lot more about you that you waste your mental energy on this “crime” compared to other things.

This general attitude is why DC has been going down the tubes. "Don't waste your time" on residency fraud, "don't waste your time" on skyrocketing crime, "don't waste your time" on all the homeless tents, "don't waste your time" on crazy people pooping on the sidewalk. Just keep paying your taxes and MYOB, right?

If you equate MD license plates at school drop-off with carjacking, I don't know what to tell you.

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Anonymous wrote:Like, these are your words exactly: "I don't have an issue with there being kids from other areas at the school."

I meant that I don’t have an issue with any kid attending our school, I just think we need solutions that don’t involve people lying and breaking the law. It’s not a personal issue with any family. It’s that there are actually rules in place and they exist for a reason (largely: funding) and we need a solution that is legal and functional.

Having some parents commit residency fraud while the rest of the school community pretends it isn’t happening is not a good solution. And yes, it is absolutely confusing for the kids. If you don’t think it is, then you’ve never had your kid say “hey how come larla and her parents live so far away?” and not being able to answer fully or truthfully.

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Anonymous wrote:Like, these are your words exactly: "I don't have an issue with there being kids from other areas at the school."

I meant that I don’t have an issue with any kid attending our school, I just think we need solutions that don’t involve people lying and breaking the law. It’s not a personal issue with any family. It’s that there are actually rules in place and they exist for a reason (largely: funding) and we need a solution that is legal and functional.

Having some parents commit residency fraud while the rest of the school community pretends it isn’t happening is not a good solution. And yes, it is absolutely confusing for the kids. If you don’t think it is, then you’ve never had your kid say “hey how come larla and her parents live so far away?” and not being able to answer fully or truthfully.

Don't you have bigger problems to address in your life and community than your small child's "confusion" about where another kid lives? Come on.

I love this one. It's what people say when they don't have a real argument to make and know they are wrong. "Who even has time to worry about this?"

This is an actual crime with real victims. It's a form of theft (from tax payers) and in the cases of schools with limited seats, it absolutely hurts kids who may not be able to attend their IB school, or who wind up in crowded classrooms. This is not a victimless crime, and most people don't do it -- plenty of people in PG county just send their kids to school there! There is absolutely no reason why some small number of families who are willing to break the law should get to send their kids to schools that are more convenient for their commute just because.

You have no argument against this and you know it.

It says a lot more about you that you waste your mental energy on this “crime” compared to other things.

This general attitude is why DC has been going down the tubes. "Don't waste your time" on residency fraud, "don't waste your time" on skyrocketing crime, "don't waste your time" on all the homeless tents, "don't waste your time" on crazy people pooping on the sidewalk. Just keep paying your taxes and MYOB, right?

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Anonymous wrote:Like, these are your words exactly: "I don't have an issue with there being kids from other areas at the school."

I meant that I don’t have an issue with any kid attending our school, I just think we need solutions that don’t involve people lying and breaking the law. It’s not a personal issue with any family. It’s that there are actually rules in place and they exist for a reason (largely: funding) and we need a solution that is legal and functional.

Having some parents commit residency fraud while the rest of the school community pretends it isn’t happening is not a good solution. And yes, it is absolutely confusing for the kids. If you don’t think it is, then you’ve never had your kid say “hey how come larla and her parents live so far away?” and not being able to answer fully or truthfully.

Don't you have bigger problems to address in your life and community than your small child's "confusion" about where another kid lives? Come on.

I love this one. It's what people say when they don't have a real argument to make and know they are wrong. "Who even has time to worry about this?"

This is an actual crime with real victims. It's a form of theft (from tax payers) and in the cases of schools with limited seats, it absolutely hurts kids who may not be able to attend their IB school, or who wind up in crowded classrooms. This is not a victimless crime, and most people don't do it -- plenty of people in PG county just send their kids to school there! There is absolutely no reason why some small number of families who are willing to break the law should get to send their kids to schools that are more convenient for their commute just because.

You have no argument against this and you know it.

It says a lot more about you that you waste your mental energy on this “crime” compared to other things.

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Anonymous wrote:Like, these are your words exactly: "I don't have an issue with there being kids from other areas at the school."

I meant that I don’t have an issue with any kid attending our school, I just think we need solutions that don’t involve people lying and breaking the law. It’s not a personal issue with any family. It’s that there are actually rules in place and they exist for a reason (largely: funding) and we need a solution that is legal and functional.

Having some parents commit residency fraud while the rest of the school community pretends it isn’t happening is not a good solution. And yes, it is absolutely confusing for the kids. If you don’t think it is, then you’ve never had your kid say “hey how come larla and her parents live so far away?” and not being able to answer fully or truthfully.

Don't you have bigger problems to address in your life and community than your small child's "confusion" about where another kid lives? Come on.

I love this one. It's what people say when they don't have a real argument to make and know they are wrong. "Who even has time to worry about this?"

This is an actual crime with real victims. It's a form of theft (from tax payers) and in the cases of schools with limited seats, it absolutely hurts kids who may not be able to attend their IB school, or who wind up in crowded classrooms. This is not a victimless crime, and most people don't do it -- plenty of people in PG county just send their kids to school there! There is absolutely no reason why some small number of families who are willing to break the law should get to send their kids to schools that are more convenient for their commute just because.

You have no argument against this and you know it.

Anonymous wrote:I had an uber driver a couple years ago who freely told me over the course of our half-hour ride that she had enrolled her kid at Stuart Hobson because they live in Ft Washington and the schools are terrible. I forget which DC school the younger one was enrolled at. She also said she enrolls her kids in DPR summer camps for the same reason. She was DC born and raised and not shy at all about telling me that DC programs were just better than MD. I think this happens a lot.

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Anonymous wrote:Like, these are your words exactly: "I don't have an issue with there being kids from other areas at the school."

I meant that I don’t have an issue with any kid attending our school, I just think we need solutions that don’t involve people lying and breaking the law. It’s not a personal issue with any family. It’s that there are actually rules in place and they exist for a reason (largely: funding) and we need a solution that is legal and functional.

Having some parents commit residency fraud while the rest of the school community pretends it isn’t happening is not a good solution. And yes, it is absolutely confusing for the kids. If you don’t think it is, then you’ve never had your kid say “hey how come larla and her parents live so far away?” and not being able to answer fully or truthfully.

Don't you have bigger problems to address in your life and community than your small child's "confusion" about where another kid lives? Come on.

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Anonymous wrote:How many people here are actually IB to Maury and failed to get into Maury PK4?

We're in-bounds and did not get PK3. So there is a real impact on real families.

Lots of people don’t get in for pk3 or pk4.

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Anonymous wrote:How many people here are actually IB to Maury and failed to get into Maury PK4?

We're in-bounds and did not get PK3. So there is a real impact on real families.

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Anonymous wrote:How many people here are actually IB to Maury and failed to get into Maury PK4?

We're in-bounds and did not get PK3. So there is a real impact on real families.

Anonymous wrote:How many people here are actually IB to Maury and failed to get into Maury PK4?

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Anonymous wrote:At our school I have noticed a large sense of entitlement by people that have roots in our neighborhood but no longer live there. They believe their kids have a right to go to the neighborhood school because they went there or their mother/sibling/aunt/cousin lives in the neighborhood. They could care less that they don't even live in DC anymore. They're not even that shy about it. The school knows who they are but as long as they submit some kind of paperwork that checks the residency box they don't care.

This. You don't get to go to a public school because your parent went there if you no longer live in boundary. I think part of this is because people who used to live there can't afford to live there now so there's a socio-economic and race lens to all this too.

100%. Though one thing to keep in mind is that some of the long time DC residents who were pushed out by gentrifiers may actually still be home owners in DC. They inherited and rent out a family home and live in a much bigger home in Maryland. I work for the DC government and hear this not infrequently. So short of doing actual home inspections, it's hard for school staff to question an actual deed or mortgage document.

This is frequently suggested on these very boards as a smart way for high SES (presumably white) families to get into upper NW schools - buy a condo and live there for one year, then move, rent it out, and keep the address for in-bounds schooling. Or, buy the condo for your parents/in-laws, and use the address for both residency and free after school care for your kids. Rationale when confronted: the landlord is paying the property taxes, they deserve the in-boundary preference. But somehow it bothers the same board of posters when the demographics are different.

FWIW, I think it's pretty terrible in either situation, probably worse in the situation where a wealthy white family is purposefully manipulating the system to get into a school in UNW because they are abusing their privilege in addition to breaking the rules and also just generally being terrible.

I don't think you can assume that the same posters who are bothered by residency fraud are also unbothered by the scenario you outline above. I think a lot of us are bothered by both. The difference is that my kid does not attend one of the "highly regarded" DCPS schools in UNW. So I'm more likely to be vocal about the residency fraud at my IB DCPS, which I like but is not considered a desirable school by many on these boards. I think the residency fraud at our school inhibits our ability to invest in the school because it IS an elephant in the room and it makes it harder for us to come together as a community. I actually wish there was just a legal way for people who want to do this to attend these schools, ideally by paying some form of tuition. I don't have an issue with there being kids from other areas at the school. I have an issue with people lying to attend our school and potentially taking spots away from IB kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Like, these are your words exactly: "I don't have an issue with there being kids from other areas at the school."

I meant that I don’t have an issue with any kid attending our school, I just think we need solutions that don’t involve people lying and breaking the law. It’s not a personal issue with any family. It’s that there are actually rules in place and they exist for a reason (largely: funding) and we need a solution that is legal and functional.

Having some parents commit residency fraud while the rest of the school community pretends it isn’t happening is not a good solution. And yes, it is absolutely confusing for the kids. If you don’t think it is, then you’ve never had your kid say “hey how come larla and her parents live so far away?” and not being able to answer fully or truthfully.