Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 20:23     Subject: Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:Her womens day post 🤮🤮🤮 I would never think of her as a girls’ girl. She reminds me of the type that would throw her besties under the bus if she could make a buck or get all the attention. I also gagged when she had to include a photo of her friends and Tyler was in it. Her emotional maturity…..


I noticed the same thing! 16 pictures of her with her sisters, her mom, her friends, her daughters, and the only male in all of those photos was Tyler. What the heck?

And I l o v e love Bryant Park. I’m so glad I’ve never been there when she was there posing and smacking her lips and playing with her hair and whispering.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 18:00     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

Jenn, you didn't go there to read a book. You went there to watch yourself while you record selfie videos. Your life is not goals. Find a less sacred place to talk to yourself.

Signed,

Everyone in Bryant Park Today
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 16:13     Subject: Jen Hatmaker
Her womens day post 🤮🤮🤮 I would never think of her as a girls’ girl. She reminds me of the type that would throw her besties under the bus if she could make a buck or get all the attention. I also gagged when she had to include a photo of her friends and Tyler was in it. Her emotional maturity…..
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 12:50     Subject: Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Had to go check out the "my favorite things" post. It's incredible how many people responded for her links.


5. It seems a lot of people that follow influencers have parasocial relationships, thinking the influencer cares about them, and that they're "friends."


I think that’s by design. Why do you think that Jen constantly refers to her followers as “beloveds, her community, her tribe (she doesn’t do that anymore because she was told that it’s insensitive to native people), darlings, dear ones, lovelies, ad nauseum….

There are people who are so desperate to feel loved and included that they will latch on to people like Jen because they truly TRULY believe that she cares about them, when the reality is that all they represent to her is a $.

And she’s laughing all the way to the bank.


Literally none of the women I know have or would refer to each other as "beloved." It's so weird
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 12:39     Subject: Jen Hatmaker
Jen is such a cheerleader for women yall? What would we do with out her??
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 10:09     Subject: Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:Had to go check out the "my favorite things" post. It's incredible how many people responded for her links.


5. It seems a lot of people that follow influencers have parasocial relationships, thinking the influencer cares about them, and that they're "friends."


I think that’s by design. Why do you think that Jen constantly refers to her followers as “beloveds, her community, her tribe (she doesn’t do that anymore because she was told that it’s insensitive to native people), darlings, dear ones, lovelies, ad nauseum….

There are people who are so desperate to feel loved and included that they will latch on to people like Jen because they truly TRULY believe that she cares about them, when the reality is that all they represent to her is a $.

And she’s laughing all the way to the bank.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 08:58     Subject: Jen Hatmaker
Had to go check out the "my favorite things" post. It's incredible how many people responded for her links.


1. Can people not just shop for things anymore on their own?

2. Do people realize how much MONEY people like Jen make from those links?

3. Do people still go to *reputable* review sites to decide what items they want to spend money on?

4. Does anyone ask their friends/ co-workers/ family about products they trust?

5. It seems a lot of people that follow influencers have parasocial relationships, thinking the influencer cares about them, and that they're "friends."
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 08:51     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

Quote #1:
Jane, if you wrote a book in your voice, it would be the next Bridget Jones’ Diary. People wouldn’t need to know Jen Hatmaker (because who does, lol), it could be a sendup of implementer culture writ large. Do a spec chapter and shop it around; I think you’d get a great response!



Quote # 2:
It Jen was Jane I’d be floored. “Jane” is so much a better writer, way wittier, way more savage than Jen. I don’t think Jen has it in her. Plus, when has Jen ever been so self deprecating or self critical? She’s too much of a narcissist to ridicule herself so mockingly. “Jane” basically takes what she’s does and brutalizes it. It’s only powerful and cutting cause it exposes a raw truth. That Jen is a massive performative phoney.



YESSS!!! Agree with everything
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 08:48     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here's a podcast that I would actually be tempted to watch: what do her parents really think about this new Jen and her new-found beliefs about the Bible and traditional teachings? AFAIK she's never remotely touched upon this. That could be a rich discussion. As the golden child, are they disappointed in her? Are they secretly praying that she'll find her way back? How do they feel about all this?


I agree, she never mentions this.


I like to think Jen still believes what she was taught more than she doesn't and that this deconstruction BS is performative to pay the bills.

She wants to be one of the cool kids, bless her heart, but she's really just a Bible camp kid with some bad window dressing and a fauxmance that she can't turn off because for whatever strange reason, her following seems to dig it.

If Jen were my friend IRL I would not want to see her with an obese man with bad hygeine who doesn't seem into her.







Respectfully, I disagree. I think Jen was the Queen Bee of the church camp. With her dad as the pastor, she probably acted like she owned the place. Her shallow faith made deconstruction easy. Just show her where to sign up to look down on people, and she’s there. It was presented to her as “what the sophisticated crowd” was doing, and she needed to stay on top.


The faux sophistication thing seems to me to be a big part of the deconstruction phenomenon and progressive leaning religion in general. It's a desire to be seen as intellectual based on alignment with the zeitgeist by people who are usually very shallow and sophomoric in their views.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 08:45     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here's a podcast that I would actually be tempted to watch: what do her parents really think about this new Jen and her new-found beliefs about the Bible and traditional teachings? AFAIK she's never remotely touched upon this. That could be a rich discussion. As the golden child, are they disappointed in her? Are they secretly praying that she'll find her way back? How do they feel about all this?


I agree, she never mentions this.


I like to think Jen still believes what she was taught more than she doesn't and that this deconstruction BS is performative to pay the bills.

She wants to be one of the cool kids, bless her heart, but she's really just a Bible camp kid with some bad window dressing and a fauxmance that she can't turn off because for whatever strange reason, her following seems to dig it.

If Jen were my friend IRL I would not want to see her with an obese man with bad hygeine who doesn't seem into her.







If she still believes what she was taught but is pushing the opposite for personal gain, then she is on the same level as TV preachers who utilize religion for personal profit.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 08:01     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here's a podcast that I would actually be tempted to watch: what do her parents really think about this new Jen and her new-found beliefs about the Bible and traditional teachings? AFAIK she's never remotely touched upon this. That could be a rich discussion. As the golden child, are they disappointed in her? Are they secretly praying that she'll find her way back? How do they feel about all this?


I agree, she never mentions this.


I like to think Jen still believes what she was taught more than she doesn't and that this deconstruction BS is performative to pay the bills.

She wants to be one of the cool kids, bless her heart, but she's really just a Bible camp kid with some bad window dressing and a fauxmance that she can't turn off because for whatever strange reason, her following seems to dig it.

If Jen were my friend IRL I would not want to see her with an obese man with bad hygeine who doesn't seem into her.







Respectfully, I disagree. I think Jen was the Queen Bee of the church camp. With her dad as the pastor, she probably acted like she owned the place. Her shallow faith made deconstruction easy. Just show her where to sign up to look down on people, and she’s there. It was presented to her as “what the sophisticated crowd” was doing, and she needed to stay on top.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2025 23:50     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here's a podcast that I would actually be tempted to watch: what do her parents really think about this new Jen and her new-found beliefs about the Bible and traditional teachings? AFAIK she's never remotely touched upon this. That could be a rich discussion. As the golden child, are they disappointed in her? Are they secretly praying that she'll find her way back? How do they feel about all this?


I agree, she never mentions this.


I like to think Jen still believes what she was taught more than she doesn't and that this deconstruction BS is performative to pay the bills.

She wants to be one of the cool kids, bless her heart, but she's really just a Bible camp kid with some bad window dressing and a fauxmance that she can't turn off because for whatever strange reason, her following seems to dig it.

If Jen were my friend IRL I would not want to see her with an obese man with bad hygeine who doesn't seem into her.





Anonymous
Post 03/07/2025 21:45     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:Here's a podcast that I would actually be tempted to watch: what do her parents really think about this new Jen and her new-found beliefs about the Bible and traditional teachings? AFAIK she's never remotely touched upon this. That could be a rich discussion. As the golden child, are they disappointed in her? Are they secretly praying that she'll find her way back? How do they feel about all this?


I agree, she never mentions this.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2025 21:43     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker
Here's a podcast that I would actually be tempted to watch: what do her parents really think about this new Jen and her new-found beliefs about the Bible and traditional teachings? AFAIK she's never remotely touched upon this. That could be a rich discussion. As the golden child, are they disappointed in her? Are they secretly praying that she'll find her way back? How do they feel about all this?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2025 21:43     Subject: Jen Hatmaker
Anonymous wrote:
I wonder if Tyler secretly wishes she wouldn't insist on tagging along.


YES i wondered this too.