Anonymous wrote:Me next, me next!
Bryce
Zoe
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Your husband make a ton if money in a small dot com business and you are suddenly wealthy (well, the money came around the same time as your first child). You were catapulted from a rental in Adams Morgan to a 6 bedroom house in Reston - where DHs company put down roots in a giant glass and steel tower. Not only did you not need to work, you actually couldn't work - the commute from the city was just too far and there's no one doing international development in Reston. You miss the challenge and feel a bit out if step with the Virginia SAHM set that never intended to work. All their kids are named either simple, plain names - Sarah. Tom. Or ultra-trendy - Braden and 2 jadens live on your block. You picked your kids names when you were at the London school of economics from a cafe and a novel you loved. The SAhM crew thinks they're weird and Bryce often gets called Bruce. You are currently working on getting DH to move to a more cosmopolitan part of town where you think you might fit in better. He likes his commute and likes having you home (home made dinner every night) and this is a nearly constant source of stress and anxiety.

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Ahmad
Zahra
American-born convert married to an Arab Muslim.
Close...ish...American born Muslim from birth who married a former Baptist turned agnostic.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I posted on page 12 and never saw a response. So, trying again:
DD1: Maureen
DD2: Clara
DS1: David
DD3: Grainne
Maureen's named for your mom. Clara because it's pretty (and you thought it was unusual when you picked it). DH got to name David. Grainne was a surprise. You picked the name and you wanted something unusual and (obviously) irish-many of the other irish name names seem too trendy to you. Luckily, even with the Grainne surprise, you and DH still have a solid marriage. You would probably best be described as "culturally Catholic," but you would never let your relatives hear you say that, and the idea of divorce still makes you feel a little sick. He can be too focused on work, and you can be too focused on the kids, but since that rough patch you are really trying to make time for each other. You hope it will get easier as the kids get older. Maureen was such a sweet little girl, but now as a teen she's a handful. Catholic school didn't work out. She didn't care, because she wanted a school with art classes and boys, but it was awkward explaining it all to the family.
is this the one you were looking for pp?
Was there another one where Maureen was the child from a teen pregnancy, then mom became a dental tech and remarried the dentist with whom she had the other 3 kids? Am I blurring 2 thumbnails together here?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Best DCUM thread ever!
OK, I'll give it up:
Sam
Evan
Lily
Hit me with your best shot!
You had Sam and Evan without any difficulty and love them both dearly, but you were determined to have a girl so you put your name in the hat to adopt from China.[b] And then you waited and waited and waited. When you finally got that wonderful referral, Sam was in high school and Evan was in middle school. You had forgotten what it was like to change diapers on very little sleep while also dealing with the bundle of issues that come with international adoptions.[b] Your sweet, Lily, is a fierce and fiery toddler who keeps all of you alternating between adoration and bewilderment. You now juggle soccer tournaments with play groups and therapy sessions. You can't remember the last time you had sex with your husband and you find yourself forgetting important dates and familiar names. You are parenting a very different child at a very different stage of life and it all feels out of whack, but you can't admit that to anyone because you have plastered on a joyful smile while popping in another annoying children's cd. All will eventually settle down and you will sleep again and Lily will lead a fairly happy life and your boys will be proud of their multicultural family and your husband will be relieved to have you hold his hand again.
Well done. The kids are closer in age than you thought, but otherwise, you nailed it. They're now in HS and college. Lily is quite happy, I think, as are the boys (who are no longer boys, but young men). Though we are a multicultural family, I'm not sure we think of ourselves that way very often. Recently we met Evan's roommate's family for the first time and when the mom commented on this, it took me a few minutes to figure out what she was talking about (me: "Oh yeah, Lily's Chinese.") And, yes, DH and I are happy in our almost-empty nest. BTW, did you know the dog's name is Ruby?
I should have known...Ruby! The reason I nailed this one because it is remarkably close to home. Glad to hear all has worked out for your family and that the nearly empty nest stage isn't too sad or lonely![]()
It's always surprising to me how many families who adopted daughters born in China also have two older sons by birth.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Miles.
Married late, had your first at 38. Pregnancy was fraught with complications and even small problems - borderline gestational diabetes - we're ultra-stressful and you told your hubby it was one and done. He was 42 at the time and was more than happy to have only one. He has a sister, but they've never been close, so he doesn't feel the need for siblings. You live in Woodley / Cleveland park in a single family home on a small lot. No parking, but you renovated the kitchen recently and on nights you can't find parking, you assure yourself the kitchen makes up for the long walk in the cold. You and DH work in big law; DH was just made "special counsel." Miles is 6 now, so you're ramping up your work schedule; you reason that he's no longer a baby and his afte school babysitter is an AU undergrad who is a good homework helper. You often have your neighbors over for sunday dinner,
Anonymous wrote:Bettina
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Fine. I give in. Do me too!
Ds1 John ( goes by jack)
Dd1 Virginia
Dd2 Meredith
Ds 2 Tanner
You never thought you'd end up with four kids. Four kids? And two sets of twins no less. After all, you were president of your sorority chapter, studied in Austria for a semester, and lived the single life in Chicago as a low level advertising rep for a few years. Then you met James, a former Mormon and defense analyst and everything changed. You guys moved to Fairfax Co so that he could be closer to his job at DOD. You guys struggled to conceive DC #1, so you turned to IVF. Voila, you were blessed with the first set of twins, John and Virginia. Then six years later, a second IVF helped you conceive Meredith and Tanner. Life is good as the SAHM to a large brood. And you had quite a tale to tell at the sorority reunion.
I'm not the PP, but I love this one. The details make this so perfect -- the semester in Austria and James being a former Mormon. I was supposed to go to a cocktail party down the street about 30 minutes ago, but this is much more fun.