If you are kissing in public for five minutes you just want people to look at you. If it happened at all.

Jen’s new book cover reveal on 2/17.

Hadn’t she already written her “manifesto”, something called Fierce, Free, and Full
Of Fire? This seems to a new manifesto, the “truest thing she’s ever written”? Wow.

But it’s not a how-to, prescriptive memoir, y’all.

Whis the market for this?

Will this bomb as bad as Tyler’s recent book? I can’t see how.

Anonymous wrote:
I don't believe for one second that they are handsy and kissy and lovey. They kissed for 5 minutes while standing on the street? He visibly moves away on live video when she tries to show him affection.

How is she not embarrassed to make these kind of claims when we all saw his discomfort with her sitting close and giving a peck on the cheek?

Anonymous wrote:"come to me" has the same vibes as Tyler's fingey picture. Both repulse me!

Thank you for making me laugh!
Yeaaa, his little "trademark" fingey-in-mouth is soooo......I don't have the right words.

Yeaaaa....this "come to me" line from Big Sass sounds.....not true! And if he did
actually say that---how weird!

5 minutes of kissing....? C'mon!

And all the "we flew to Nashville, then we flew to New York"....can they ever just
chill at his and/ or her houses? Like so many Instagram scammers, she HAS to
sound like their lives are just SO busy, SO full of adventures, SO ex. cit. ing. !!!!


**OMG, we met Trisha Yearwood, my precious beloveds !!! **


I really miss Jane Capstitcher !!!
We NEED Jane to talk about the cruise,
the gag-worthy Podcast with Sydney, and this wayyy over-the-top Valentines
post !!!

"come to me" has the same vibes as Tyler's fingey picture. Both repulse me!

Anonymous wrote:What are the chances Big Sass posts a fawning Valentine's Day tribute to Big Sis???

Lol. His big valentine love tribute post was to: all of the single people in the world.

His audience is probably 75% from Jen (if not more), yet he still doesn’t want proof of their relationship on HIS social media.

Sis. Wake up.

Anonymous wrote:Unless someone is seductively waiting on a bed for you, there is no other context where texting or saying "Come to me." is romantic lol

Exactly, if he were interested he’d pick her up at the airport. I can’t tell if she really knows the truth and she just can’t bear to not have a man or if she’s really this delusional.

Anonymous wrote:Unless someone is seductively waiting on a bed for you, there is no other context where texting or saying "Come to me." is romantic lol

If a man is picking you up for a date, and rather than enter a building to get you, he TEXTS “Come to me”, that means, “You do the work. I won’t. Im double parked and I don’t have money for the valet.”

How romantic.

Unless someone is seductively waiting on a bed for you, there is no other context where texting or saying "Come to me." is romantic lol

Does she even hear herself?! Building a life with someone is what we hope for when we meet our person. Good, bad, exhausting, whatever! It's a certain type of richness and fulfillment that I'm not sure she has had or will experience.

What are the chances Big Sass posts a fawning Valentine's Day tribute to Big Sis???

"If you find yourself starting over way past the time you expected to, don't despair. Keep being amazing you, and see who the world brings to your doorstep."

"Keep being amazing you, and get yourself an agent who also represents someone who could benefit from your social media presence, and let her bring him to your table while you eat fries with honey mustard." **Fixed it for you.

When it comes to the health and wellness of Big Sis’ romantic relationships I remember her Ode to Brandon Sweet Brandon post from three weeks before it all went to hell. Then, later, in interviews she admits to all sorts of longstanding problems in her marriage.

It’s all fake and performative with this one.

As IF Jen would ever post a We Are Soooo In Love, My Droolings! Valentines post that wasn’t over the top and nauseating.

We know, though. We all know.

Anonymous wrote:I agree with the last paragraph of Jen's recent post about her three years of Tyler...

I just don't think that has actually happened for her yet.

And the preceding lead up about her and Tyler's relationship. Didn't she say that Tyler just thought they were friends and she had to ask "What is this?" and he said he thought they were just friends and had to think about it or something?

And her at her hotel and him texting "Come to me." is not the romantic gesture she thought lol but rather a red flag of his not putting in effort and probably a metaphor of their whole relationship.

Him leaning up against his red car? Was he just standing there? And he didn't pick her up from the airport and met her outside her hotel?

This whole relationship of signs of rewriting and exaggerating and reframing reality to make it fit something that isn't there. Very desperately trying to make everything seem the best and the most this and none of it comes across as very believable.

^^All of this. She is fabricating a story that is supposed to sound like the most romantic of movies. But I had the same reaction to his, "Come to me." Who speaks like that?

And she speaks so dismissively of going through all the "building years": "We are enjoying our life together because we aren't exhausted from building one." But the struggles and triumphs that come from building a life together can lead to something so much more rewarding and *real* than whatever it is that she is trying to convince herself that they have.

I don't believe for one second that they are handsy and kissy and lovey. They kissed for 5 minutes while standing on the street? He visibly moves away on live video when she tries to show him affection.

When my husband and I were dating, I got so ill from food poisoning that I was sick both ways (trying to keep it not too gross.) After he helped me get bathed and put into bed, he cleaned up the bathroom and washed the floor and rugs. THAT is love and care for someone. Not performative buying them an expensive mixer so that you can get clicks and likes.

I don't know exactly what her relationship was like with Brandon. We know that 3 weeks before she filed for divorce, she posted a long ode to their love. But I imagine that if Jen ever found herself sick with tummy trouble, Brandon is much more likely to be the one to mop up her $h!t than Tyler would be.