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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Not in 2024 does this instantly finish her career.

I also don't believe the drugs rumor, has never been her scene.

She dates men that are addicts though. I think Cris Judd was her only normal mate .

Diddy- not an addict but a master of deviancy (His “white parties” were where to get the best drugs and models in the city -a stepping out party for dealers , pimps, escorts/models and celebrities and he made more money than he spent from every party ) . Diddy is also a good friend of Trump and his kids. They attended his parties in NY.

Marc Anthony- cigarettes and coke

Ben-cigarettes and alcohol

A Rod- Steroids

how could she stand to kiss any of these men.

Ben is also a gambling addict and that’s a harder addiction to beat than Alcohol or drugs.

I just don’t get how a disciplined woman like J Lo always ends up with addicts . She might as well have stayed in the Bronx if her love life consists of dating alcoholics , gamblers, or drug users who need a responsible woman to tell them to get up from their stupor and go to work .

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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Not in 2024 does this instantly finish her career.

I also don't believe the drugs rumor, has never been her scene.

She dates men that are addicts though. I think Cris Judd was her only normal mate .

Diddy- not an addict but a master of deviancy (His “white parties” were where to get the best drugs and models in the city -a stepping out party for dealers , pimps, escorts/models and celebrities and he made more money than he spent from every party ) . Diddy is also a good friend of Trump and his kids. They attended his parties in NY.

Marc Anthony- cigarettes and coke

Ben-cigarettes and alcohol

A Rod- Steroids

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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Not in 2024 does this instantly finish her career.

I also don't believe the drugs rumor, has never been her scene.

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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Not in 2024 does this instantly finish her career.

Well , I guess she can cry and say he forced her to do drugs and carry guns .

Tears always work.

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Not in 2024 does this instantly finish her career.

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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Oh yes. Beyond The Blinds podcast has been speculating about this. Apparently, JLO is mentioned in a lot of the documents. It’s going to be pretty bad for her over the course of the years that this is going to play out given the trials and probably coverage of his jail time if he gets any, and you know there’s going to be several documentaries coming out - it’s going to be 3-4 years of bad press.

There are so many sad blind items about her relationship with Diddy and relationship with Marc Anthony.

Drugs and DV namely

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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Oh yes. Beyond The Blinds podcast has been speculating about this. Apparently, JLO is mentioned in a lot of the documents. It’s going to be pretty bad for her over the course of the years that this is going to play out given the trials and probably coverage of his jail time if he gets any, and you know there’s going to be several documentaries coming out - it’s going to be 3-4 years of bad press.

The gun was packed in her purse and she ran with it still smoking hot in the car. It seems odd Diddy and J Lo ran with a weapon if they had nothing to do with discharging it. An innocent man (another rapper) went to jail for almost a decade for that . The witnesses all said he had nothing to do with that shooting and not even nearby. The rumor is he and his family were promised permanent financial compensation by Diddy in exchange for taking the fall and then Diddy gave him nothing when he finally was released from jail . How cruel .

What a mess. The past can really come back to haunt

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Oh yes. Beyond The Blinds podcast has been speculating about this. Apparently, JLO is mentioned in a lot of the documents. It’s going to be pretty bad for her over the course of the years that this is going to play out given the trials and probably coverage of his jail time if he gets any, and you know there’s going to be several documentaries coming out - it’s going to be 3-4 years of bad press.

Sorry, PP above and I meant leaving the party not ceremony.

Look it’s been less than three years. Neither of them have shown that they have either the desire or the skills to get over rough patches in relationships. There is a reason people are way more likely to divorce a second or third time around vs first time around divorces. It just gets easier and easier and the stakes are lower. They don’t share kids together, and it’s highly unlikely there will be battles over finances. They will both leave the marriage with what they came in with.

Ben is loaded, and it probably took his assistant one day to find a mansion for him to rent near his kids and move out. Easy breezy. They are older and set in their ways and no one is compromising.

Does anyone think the raids on Diddys home have something to do with his divorce? There’s an old urban gossip/rumor J Lo and Diddy created sex tapes together while high on ecstasy and that they were a drugged out party couple and the nightclub shooting was a drug deal gone wrong during NYE partying . Good God . If she did this, her career is truly finished lol

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why JLo would go to Violet’s party if they are headed towards divorce.

Violet isn’t a JLo fan. She didn’t go to the wedding, correct?

She’s 18, not a young kid attached to his dad’s new wife.

And I doubt Garner would allow her there if it was just for good PR.

I think arriving together and leaving together is a sign they are still together and trying to get things back on track. Why else fake it for the cameras at a family event? Doesn’t make sense.

Again, ben not opening the car door for her speaks volumes. He has never not done that.

They are clearly not ready to announce it, or at least she’s not ready and he’s going along with it. But yeah, considering they immediately went their separate ways after the ceremony. I don’t see any narrative where they are together.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why JLo would go to Violet’s party if they are headed towards divorce.

Violet isn’t a JLo fan. She didn’t go to the wedding, correct?

She’s 18, not a young kid attached to his dad’s new wife.

And I doubt Garner would allow her there if it was just for good PR.

I think arriving together and leaving together is a sign they are still together and trying to get things back on track. Why else fake it for the cameras at a family event? Doesn’t make sense.

I think this was overblown. She apparently didn't go to the Las Vegas one but did participate in the Georgia one, and was photographed looking very happy with JLo on the Paris trip. My guess is she and JLo get along just fine, and Violet must have wanted her there.

J Lo always gets along with girls . ARods daughters adored her too. She has the mentality of a teenage girl so I’m sure it’s easy to relate to her.

It’s J Los own son that looks visibly annnoyed around his mom and Ben and the paps in general . He’s funny. I love how he wasnt playing along with Ben’s obvious “happy blended family” pap stunt

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Anonymous wrote:Why would he bring her to Violet’s party unless they were trying to make it work?

Who knows, but it doesn't look like it's working.

They went their separate ways immediately after.
https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-went-separate-ways-after-his-daughters-graduation-party-report/

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why JLo would go to Violet’s party if they are headed towards divorce.

Violet isn’t a JLo fan. She didn’t go to the wedding, correct?

She’s 18, not a young kid attached to his dad’s new wife.

And I doubt Garner would allow her there if it was just for good PR.

I think arriving together and leaving together is a sign they are still together and trying to get things back on track. Why else fake it for the cameras at a family event? Doesn’t make sense.

I think this was overblown. She apparently didn't go to the Las Vegas one but did participate in the Georgia one, and was photographed looking very happy with JLo on the Paris trip. My guess is she and JLo get along just fine, and Violet must have wanted her there.