Garner once joked she took up baking because Ben has a sweet tooth.
I can’t see J Lo -as smitten as she is with him -ever doing this nor should she . It’s her way or the highway. She seems like she would poke him in the ribs , tell him to wake his adds up; and cut back on the sugar and cigarettes or have their chef prepare healthy meals only. The documentary showing scenes of Ben visibly uncomfortable in his own house as J Lo trots about talking to the camera is proof of this. She runs the show and wears the pants

Anonymous wrote:That was nice that she took a few years off to be with her kids.

She also ran a marathon for charity to get back into shape after the twins so she’s a woman who is highly disciplined. How she ended up with an addict, chain smoker, and Dunkin Donuts king like Ben is beyond me.

I don’t think Ben works out. I think she was best suited with A Rod. They are both gym rats. Ben is not a disciplined eater or drinker and he loves to spend money on gambling . He’s the total opposite of famed Penny pincher with wait staff J Lo. It doesn’t seem like their personalities match whatsoever

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Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

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There is a difference between people who work and workaholics. workaholics do not priorize their family/kids.

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There is also a difference in looking good and taking care of oneself and having elaborate outfits, hairstyles and makeup every day.

But if you never have to cook, clean, mow the lawn?

And you don't drive so your kids are chauffeured everywhere they need to go, and you have assistants to handle every errand imaginable?

I suspect when she’s promoting a project she doesn’t spend much time with the kids. But, it’s not like she’s in the news everyday and when she not working she's probably home with them. And when she’s promoting? Probably with their DAD. They do have one you know.

She’s only in the news now is because of her projects and relationship issues.

Her kids are adorable here. She also took a few years off after her kids were born so I’m confused about where the absent mom thing comes in

https://youtu.be/v9mApYxt8kg?si=O2njJsY_4zDc1nfr

I find it strange her parenting is questioned. Ben is the one who only sees his kids part time. He’s probably around Jennifer’s kids more than his own in that house .

That could be another reason he feels uncomfortable. It must be guilt inducing to spend more time with your step kids than your actual kids

Emme wrote a book a few years ago. She's cute and well-spoken. I like how Jennifer didn't get in the camera when Mario told her to come say Hi. She let Emme have her moment.

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Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

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There is no comparison between Jlo and a normal working mother. Jlo is a complete narcissist.

Ok but let’s be real. If she didn’t spend a ton of time exercising and on her appearance more generally, Ben A wouldn’t have looked twice at her. He’s not exactly known for dating women in their 50s.

If she wasn’t his ex, he wouldn’t have dated her regardless.

Thought lindsay shookus was in her 40s or so when they dated several years back.

That was nice that she took a few years off to be with her kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

Da

There is a difference between people who work and workaholics. workaholics do not priorize their family/kids.

+1
There is also a difference in looking good and taking care of oneself and having elaborate outfits, hairstyles and makeup every day.

But if you never have to cook, clean, mow the lawn?

And you don't drive so your kids are chauffeured everywhere they need to go, and you have assistants to handle every errand imaginable?

I suspect when she’s promoting a project she doesn’t spend much time with the kids. But, it’s not like she’s in the news everyday and when she not working she's probably home with them. And when she’s promoting? Probably with their DAD. They do have one you know.

She’s only in the news now is because of her projects and relationship issues.

Her kids are adorable here. She also took a few years off after her kids were born so I’m confused about where the absent mom thing comes in

https://youtu.be/v9mApYxt8kg?si=O2njJsY_4zDc1nfr

I find it strange her parenting is questioned. Ben is the one who only sees his kids part time. He’s probably around Jennifer’s kids more than his own in that house .

That could be another reason he feels uncomfortable. It must be guilt inducing to spend more time with your step kids than your actual kids

Anonymous wrote:I remember her from her Fly Girl days on In Living Color. Even in a crowd of back up dancers she had a lot of charisma and appeal and stood out. I have always rooted for her.

Same here, she stood out among the dancers. I remember thinking she was quite striking back then.

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Anonymous wrote:I remember her from her Fly Girl days on In Living Color. Even in a crowd of back up dancers she had a lot of charisma and appeal and stood out. I have always rooted for her.

I used to watch In Living Color every week, but she never stood out to me. I'm not hating; I love her movies and some of her '90s songs and I even enjoy her performances now. I just never thought anything special of her back then. This is when she auditioned for the show (and didn't make it; she was added a year later). Fun fact: Rosie Perez was the choreographer for the Fly Girls (which is why she's giving instructions in this clip).

DP. I remember her.

Anonymous wrote:I remember her from her Fly Girl days on In Living Color. Even in a crowd of back up dancers she had a lot of charisma and appeal and stood out. I have always rooted for her.

I used to watch In Living Color every week, but she never stood out to me. I'm not hating; I love her movies and some of her '90s songs and I even enjoy her performances now. I just never thought anything special of her back then. This is when she auditioned for the show (and didn't make it; she was added a year later). Fun fact: Rosie Perez was the choreographer for the Fly Girls (which is why she's giving instructions in this clip).

I remember her from her Fly Girl days on In Living Color. Even in a crowd of back up dancers she had a lot of charisma and appeal and stood out. I have always rooted for her.

Narcissist imploding, that's what is happening.

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Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

+1000

There is no comparison between Jlo and a normal working mother. Jlo is a complete narcissist.

Ok but let’s be real. If she didn’t spend a ton of time exercising and on her appearance more generally, Ben A wouldn’t have looked twice at her. He’s not exactly known for dating women in their 50s.

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Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

Da

There is a difference between people who work and workaholics. workaholics do not priorize their family/kids.

+1
There is also a difference in looking good and taking care of oneself and having elaborate outfits, hairstyles and makeup every day.

But if you never have to cook, clean, mow the lawn?

And you don't drive so your kids are chauffeured everywhere they need to go, and you have assistants to handle every errand imaginable?

I suspect when she’s promoting a project she doesn’t spend much time with the kids. But, it’s not like she’s in the news everyday and when she not working she's probably home with them. And when she’s promoting? Probably with their DAD. They do have one you know.

She’s only in the news now is because of her projects and relationship issues.

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Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

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There is no comparison between Jlo and a normal working mother. Jlo is a complete narcissist.

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Anonymous wrote:JLo also not wearing wedding ring today.

where?

On either ET or Access Hollywood or one of those shows. They had a picture.