Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 23:11     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

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Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


AS is known to be quirkier. More accommodating to kids who have learning differences. A warm and diverse community. I have never looked at AS kids or families as "well you ended up there because you didn't get into..." There are MANY schools that would fall into that category for me-- ones who run second admissions processes after decision day and accept kids without meeting them after a parent tour and a check. AS isn't that by a long shot.

PS6 is free and gets pretty great reviews. Unless money is no object you could always start there and if you're unhappy apply to AS off cycle. But if money isn't part of the equation and you love AS, don't let anyone make you feel bad about it!


That’s what I mean, though. The other boys schools, let alone TT coeds, would counsel out a lot of AS students. It’s not as rigorous. And you can have plenty of learning disabled classmates at PS6 if that’s what you want.


Sure. But the poster doesn't seem to want an intense school. Is that not a valid desire?


They asked AS v PS6. If you want to kick back and smoke a blunt then take it easy at public school.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 23:10     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


AS is known to be quirkier. More accommodating to kids who have learning differences. A warm and diverse community. I have never looked at AS kids or families as "well you ended up there because you didn't get into..." There are MANY schools that would fall into that category for me-- ones who run second admissions processes after decision day and accept kids without meeting them after a parent tour and a check. AS isn't that by a long shot.

PS6 is free and gets pretty great reviews. Unless money is no object you could always start there and if you're unhappy apply to AS off cycle. But if money isn't part of the equation and you love AS, don't let anyone make you feel bad about it!


That’s what I mean, though. The other boys schools, let alone TT coeds, would counsel out a lot of AS students. It’s not as rigorous. And you can have plenty of learning disabled classmates at PS6 if that’s what you want.


Sure. But the poster doesn't seem to want an intense school. Is that not a valid desire?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 23:07     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

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Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


AS is known to be quirkier. More accommodating to kids who have learning differences. A warm and diverse community. I have never looked at AS kids or families as "well you ended up there because you didn't get into..." There are MANY schools that would fall into that category for me-- ones who run second admissions processes after decision day and accept kids without meeting them after a parent tour and a check. AS isn't that by a long shot.

PS6 is free and gets pretty great reviews. Unless money is no object you could always start there and if you're unhappy apply to AS off cycle. But if money isn't part of the equation and you love AS, don't let anyone make you feel bad about it!


That’s what I mean, though. The other boys schools, let alone TT coeds, would counsel out a lot of AS students. It’s not as rigorous. And you can have plenty of learning disabled classmates at PS6 if that’s what you want.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 23:04     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


AS is known to be quirkier. More accommodating to kids who have learning differences. A warm and diverse community. I have never looked at AS kids or families as "well you ended up there because you didn't get into..." There are MANY schools that would fall into that category for me-- ones who run second admissions processes after decision day and accept kids without meeting them after a parent tour and a check. AS isn't that by a long shot.

PS6 is free and gets pretty great reviews. Unless money is no object you could always start there and if you're unhappy apply to AS off cycle. But if money isn't part of the equation and you love AS, don't let anyone make you feel bad about it!
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 23:03     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:The fact that it’s easier doesn’t mean they don’t have smart kids or great families. We need to walk away from equating intelligence and ability to get admission into a school at kindergarten of all stages.

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Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


Way easier to get into.


No it’s not. I know several great families there with really smart kids, and people seem really happy. You should go with the school that feels right. Almost all of the schools do near-identical curricula so it’s about which school culture feels right to you.


Their exmissions are way weaker than the other boys schools. Look up the thread here on AS, the admissions director’s son goes to Dalton apparently. It lacks the network and reputation of the other schools, fair or unfair. And that’s a lot of what you pay for.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 23:01     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

The fact that it’s easier doesn’t mean they don’t have smart kids or great families. We need to walk away from equating intelligence and ability to get admission into a school at kindergarten of all stages.

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


Way easier to get into.


No it’s not. I know several great families there with really smart kids, and people seem really happy. You should go with the school that feels right. Almost all of the schools do near-identical curricula so it’s about which school culture feels right to you.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:57     Subject: Best private schools in NYC?

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Anonymous wrote:How detailed is the feedback usually? We are at a public pre-k so we don’t get feedback but one school did kindly offer quite detailed comments when we asked. So I’m curious how much detail PSDs usually go into and how accurate they usually are, especially since we are considering private preschool for our younger child


It depends on the school. Some give a lot of feedback. Some have signal phrases that preschool directors understand based on years of exmission cycle results. Some blatantly say "we want them" or "it's a no" or "too young."


Interesting… does anyone know how are the exmissions results of unconnected preschools like IPS, Petits Poussins, Goddard, garden house, play garden? These are a few that I understand provide exmissions support


I know families at IPS, Garden House, and Playgarden at TTs. I'd put IPS and Garden House in the connected preschool pile (though not the "TT" list).
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:56     Subject: Best private schools in NYC?

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Anonymous wrote:How detailed is the feedback usually? We are at a public pre-k so we don’t get feedback but one school did kindly offer quite detailed comments when we asked. So I’m curious how much detail PSDs usually go into and how accurate they usually are, especially since we are considering private preschool for our younger child


It depends on the school. Some give a lot of feedback. Some have signal phrases that preschool directors understand based on years of exmission cycle results. Some blatantly say "we want them" or "it's a no" or "too young."


Interesting… does anyone know how are the exmissions results of unconnected preschools like IPS, Petits Poussins, Goddard, garden house, play garden? These are a few that I understand provide exmissions support


Garden House has good exmissions.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:55     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


Way easier to get into.


No it’s not. I know several great families there with really smart kids, and people seem really happy. You should go with the school that feels right. Almost all of the schools do near-identical curricula so it’s about which school culture feels right to you.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:54     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


Way easier to get into.


No it’s not. I know several great families there with really smart kids, and people seem really happy. You should go with the school that feels right. Almost all of the schools do near-identical curricula so it’s about which school culture feels right to you.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:39     Subject: Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How detailed is the feedback usually? We are at a public pre-k so we don’t get feedback but one school did kindly offer quite detailed comments when we asked. So I’m curious how much detail PSDs usually go into and how accurate they usually are, especially since we are considering private preschool for our younger child


It depends on the school. Some give a lot of feedback. Some have signal phrases that preschool directors understand based on years of exmission cycle results. Some blatantly say "we want them" or "it's a no" or "too young."


Interesting… does anyone know how are the exmissions results of unconnected preschools like IPS, Petits Poussins, Goddard, garden house, play garden? These are a few that I understand provide exmissions support
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:37     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer


Way easier to get into.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:37     Subject: Re:Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thoughts on PS6 vs. Allen Stevenson?


PS6. At least if you go to PS6 no one will rightfully assume you couldn’t get into Buckley St B St D and a bunch of other schools. Take the tuition and invest it in a custodial at that point.


Is that really the view on AS?? I actually preferred it to Buckley and St B, both of which came across as too intense and not very diverse. AS felt more welcoming and warmer
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:25     Subject: Best private schools in NYC?

Also, some preschool directors are more willing to share while others keep it close to the vest.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 22:24     Subject: Best private schools in NYC?

Anonymous wrote:How detailed is the feedback usually? We are at a public pre-k so we don’t get feedback but one school did kindly offer quite detailed comments when we asked. So I’m curious how much detail PSDs usually go into and how accurate they usually are, especially since we are considering private preschool for our younger child


It depends on the school. Some give a lot of feedback. Some have signal phrases that preschool directors understand based on years of exmission cycle results. Some blatantly say "we want them" or "it's a no" or "too young."