Anonymous
09/08/2021 20:25
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.
The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.
I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.
I was looking at bacon at the time.
Then he invited me to go to the cookout.
"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"
Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally
Um, I'm not PP but I've been invited to a BBQ by someone in a grocery store before. A man, who was hitting on me. And I had given him my number to be polite and he also texted me several times trying to convince me to go. Why would someone joke about that, lol? Some of you are so sheltered and nothing even vaguely interesting happens to you
Because it makes little sense. The dude buying all the food for the kids and the adults probably owns the house the BBQ is happening at and the kids are probably his. The single guy isn't tasked with that. Use your brain. His wife probably sent him to the store.
Are you stupid? Men have BBQs all the time. Maybe you dont live in an urban area, but men have house parties and kickbacks where they cook food and bring chips and beer. My God the people on here are socially awkward and weird
Are you dense? The single men bring the beer pretty much everyone else provides the food. The guy without the kids doesn't feed the kids. What kind of backwards parties are you at? Enjoy being hit on by married losers at the store thinking you're the bees knees.
According to what? Nonexistent barbecues that you will never be invited to you because you sound like a prim stick in the mud? The men bring food too, especially if they're bachelors! Please never leave your house again, you're not fit for it. Wow.
Wow you sure told me
Keep hanging out in grocery stores and maybe Mr Right will come along soon. 
Anonymous
09/08/2021 20:21
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.
The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.
I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.
I was looking at bacon at the time.
Then he invited me to go to the cookout.
"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"
Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally
Um, I'm not PP but I've been invited to a BBQ by someone in a grocery store before. A man, who was hitting on me. And I had given him my number to be polite and he also texted me several times trying to convince me to go. Why would someone joke about that, lol? Some of you are so sheltered and nothing even vaguely interesting happens to you
Because it makes little sense. The dude buying all the food for the kids and the adults probably owns the house the BBQ is happening at and the kids are probably his. The single guy isn't tasked with that. Use your brain. His wife probably sent him to the store.
Are you stupid? Men have BBQs all the time. Maybe you dont live in an urban area, but men have house parties and kickbacks where they cook food and bring chips and beer. My God the people on here are socially awkward and weird
Are you dense? The single men bring the beer pretty much everyone else provides the food. The guy without the kids doesn't feed the kids. What kind of backwards parties are you at? Enjoy being hit on by married losers at the store thinking you're the bees knees.
According to what? Nonexistent barbecues that you will never be invited to you because you sound like a prim stick in the mud? The men bring food too, especially if they're bachelors! Please never leave your house again, you're not fit for it. Wow.
Anonymous
09/08/2021 20:19
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.
The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.
I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.
I was looking at bacon at the time.
Then he invited me to go to the cookout.
"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"
Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally
Um, I'm not PP but I've been invited to a BBQ by someone in a grocery store before. A man, who was hitting on me. And I had given him my number to be polite and he also texted me several times trying to convince me to go. Why would someone joke about that, lol? Some of you are so sheltered and nothing even vaguely interesting happens to you
Because it makes little sense. The dude buying all the food for the kids and the adults probably owns the house the BBQ is happening at and the kids are probably his. The single guy isn't tasked with that. Use your brain. His wife probably sent him to the store.
Are you stupid? Men have BBQs all the time. Maybe you dont live in an urban area, but men have house parties and kickbacks where they cook food and bring chips and beer. My God the people on here are socially awkward and weird
Are you dense? The single men bring the beer pretty much everyone else provides the food. The guy without the kids doesn't feed the kids. What kind of backwards parties are you at? Enjoy being hit on by married losers at the store thinking you're the bees knees.
Anonymous
09/08/2021 20:15
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.
The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.
I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.
I was looking at bacon at the time.
Then he invited me to go to the cookout.
"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"
Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally
Um, I'm not PP but I've been invited to a BBQ by someone in a grocery store before. A man, who was hitting on me. And I had given him my number to be polite and he also texted me several times trying to convince me to go. Why would someone joke about that, lol? Some of you are so sheltered and nothing even vaguely interesting happens to you
Because it makes little sense. The dude buying all the food for the kids and the adults probably owns the house the BBQ is happening at and the kids are probably his. The single guy isn't tasked with that. Use your brain. His wife probably sent him to the store.
Are you stupid? Men have BBQs all the time. Maybe you dont live in an urban area, but men have house parties and kickbacks where they cook food and bring chips and beer. My God the people on here are socially awkward and weird
Anonymous
09/08/2021 20:15
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.
The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.
I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.
I was looking at bacon at the time.
Then he invited me to go to the cookout.
"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"
Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally
Um, I'm not PP but I've been invited to a BBQ by someone in a grocery store before. A man, who was hitting on me. And I had given him my number to be polite and he also texted me several times trying to convince me to go. Why would someone joke about that, lol? Some of you are so sheltered and nothing even vaguely interesting happens to you
Because it makes little sense. The dude buying all the food for the kids and the adults probably owns the house the BBQ is happening at and the kids are probably his. The single guy isn't tasked with that. Use your brain. His wife probably sent him to the store.
Anonymous
09/08/2021 20:12
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.
The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.
I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.
I was looking at bacon at the time.
Then he invited me to go to the cookout.
"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"
Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally
Um, I'm not PP but I've been invited to a BBQ by someone in a grocery store before. A man, who was hitting on me. And I had given him my number to be polite and he also texted me several times trying to convince me to go. Why would someone joke about that, lol? Some of you are so sheltered and nothing even vaguely interesting happens to you
Anonymous
09/08/2021 20:11
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Women who "say" they get hit on -OP you sound like you are looking for a fight, discrediting, or ego trap. I had a friend who whenever we went out men would make out with her and try to sleep with her that weekend. Some women really are popular with men. Sorry it is not always the delusion you obviously wanted it to be.
Well that's not everywhere you go, right? It's at the bar and clubs where pretty much everyone is there for one reason. But at the library, car wash, hair salon and bending over to pick up dog poop? No, it's not happening to some women everywhere no matter how delusional they are. The answers here have made it obvious.
Anonymous
09/08/2021 20:09
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.
The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.
I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.
I was looking at bacon at the time.
Then he invited me to go to the cookout.
"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"
Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally
Anonymous
09/08/2021 19:19
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Women who "say" they get hit on -OP you sound like you are looking for a fight, discrediting, or ego trap. I had a friend who whenever we went out men would make out with her and try to sleep with her that weekend. Some women really are popular with men. Sorry it is not always the delusion you obviously wanted it to be.
Anonymous
09/08/2021 19:00
Subject: Re:Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
My mom is 90 at a over 55 community and has a boyfriend, so even she gets hit on at “the friendship table”. 😂
Anonymous
09/08/2021 18:58
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.
The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.
I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.
I was looking at bacon at the time.
Then he invited me to go to the cookout.
Anonymous
09/08/2021 18:55
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!
Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...
No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location
Anonymous
09/08/2021 18:20
Subject: Re:Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Soon after college I was a bartender for about a year and getting hit on was a regular event once a guy had his third drink and got his nerve up. I’d be polite until he’d get obnoxious and then I’d get the attention of one of the guys I worked with and he would deal with them. Some of them were great tippers so you didn’t want to alienate everyone.
Anonymous
09/08/2021 17:14
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who I have known for nearly 20 years from the time we were18 until now. She's not DCUM definition of pretty, tall white, blonde, and big breasted.
She's tall and thin though. She's AA, flat-chested, has had hair of varying lengths. She is totally gorgeous. Men fall all over themselves for her. I'm talking tongues pretty much hanging out of their mouths and staring. When we were in college and I was a little more insecure this would make me a little bit jealous. I actually recall one of my other friends declaring when we were all out in a group " That if Larla was coming the rest of us aren't going to get any attention"
She's not a super stylish dresser, doesn't wear makeup, and is not overly friendly, is actually fairly shy. . Still gets checked out,hit on at work, grocery stores, at the pizza shop or playground, church, bars etc. and you can tell it's not just the guys being nice."
The funny thing is she never makes a big deal about it, Certainly doesn't brag about it, in fact, she most often can be described as being annoyed and embarrassed by it.
She's sadly had to deal with workplace harassment too. So I definitely think it happens, but I don't think it's the women who are constantly saying it happens like it's something to brag about that it is happening to
I also have a friend similar to this. Not DCUM definition of pretty with heavy makeup and blonde etc. She does not wear makeup, but she is really pretty. She legitimately gets checked out, hit on, and flirted with everywhere she goes, . What gets me is she doesn't seem to notice at all.
That's kind of like me. I get stared at wherever I go. My friends are always remarking on "That huge group of guys is staring at you!" and I have had crazy stories, being asked to model (despite being short), asked if I'm a movie star, propositioned for thousands of dollars for a night more than once, and all kinds of crazy stuff. But tbh, most men seem intimidated and dont approach me. It's actually kind of annoying (I know, no one wants to hear someone complain about being too attractive, but I hear from a lot of beautiful/famous women that they never get hit on, so I know it's not an isolated thing). I feel like some women have an approachable vibe that makes people feel comfortable approaching them, but a lot of beautiful women exude an ice queen vibe which means no dates, no offers, and no asking out. I think a lot of men are also just way out of practice with OLD now as well
Anonymous
09/08/2021 17:10
Subject: Women who say they get hit on everywhere they go
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.
Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.
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