Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for Tori. It had to be brutal growing up in Hollywood looking the way she does. If she was male, it would've been okay. If she had some sort of talent that she could use in the entertainment industry, it would've been okay too. (There are ugly successful women--comedians, character actors, etc). But unfortunately, she doesn't have any talent, and doesn't seem interested in a life outside Hollywood.
Her parents failed her. They should have encouraged her to develop other interests or pursue more education or a trade.
Instead they did nothing, and then cut her off.
She doesn't have the looks or skills to make it in the industry she wants to be in, and she never developed basic skills to take care of herself either.
If she was born into a regular family in the Midwest, she probably would've become a secretary or something, married some dude and been perfectly content.
I feel no sympathy for her. She was cut off after she left her first husband to get together with Dean who was married at the time. Her kids’ eductation is paid by her mother. She goes through money like it’s water. I feel bad for her kids and that’s about it.
Her younger brother is a life coach or something in the NW. he’s also cut off but he seems to be functional.
We keep referring to Tori Spelling as being “cut off”. She wasn’t “cut off”; at some point most functioning adults stop living off their parents. They have a job and earn money. This is true for even privileged people - believe it or not, many people of wealth do not suck from their parents wealth forever.
Tori Spelling had advantages most of us can only dream of. The best education, could have probably gone to college but chose not to, got an early boost to a career on TV, she likely made $$$ pretty early in her life, certainly earlier than most mere mortals. And she wiped it all away. Boo hoo.
They also raised her to never have any skills except being a actress. The mom is smart not to give him much because she was wise enough to know her daughter was being used by Dean. He only stays with her because he is in the same boat, and couldn't afford child support.
Anonymous wrote:Wow, I checked out her brother's website (https://randyspelling.com/about-life-coach-randy-spelling/) and, while I'm typically skeptical about the whole life coaching thing, he does seem genuinely happy and fulfilled. And he looks so much like his father. Getting out of Hollywood was the best thing for him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for Tori. It had to be brutal growing up in Hollywood looking the way she does. If she was male, it would've been okay. If she had some sort of talent that she could use in the entertainment industry, it would've been okay too. (There are ugly successful women--comedians, character actors, etc). But unfortunately, she doesn't have any talent, and doesn't seem interested in a life outside Hollywood.
Her parents failed her. They should have encouraged her to develop other interests or pursue more education or a trade.
Instead they did nothing, and then cut her off.
She doesn't have the looks or skills to make it in the industry she wants to be in, and she never developed basic skills to take care of herself either.
If she was born into a regular family in the Midwest, she probably would've become a secretary or something, married some dude and been perfectly content.
I feel no sympathy for her. She was cut off after she left her first husband to get together with Dean who was married at the time. Her kids’ eductation is paid by her mother. She goes through money like it’s water. I feel bad for her kids and that’s about it.
Her younger brother is a life coach or something in the NW. he’s also cut off but he seems to be functional.
We keep referring to Tori Spelling as being “cut off”. She wasn’t “cut off”; at some point most functioning adults stop living off their parents. They have a job and earn money. This is true for even privileged people - believe it or not, many people of wealth do not suck from their parents wealth forever.
Tori Spelling had advantages most of us can only dream of. The best education, could have probably gone to college but chose not to, got an early boost to a career on TV, she likely made $$$ pretty early in her life, certainly earlier than most mere mortals. And she wiped it all away. Boo hoo.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for Tori. It had to be brutal growing up in Hollywood looking the way she does. If she was male, it would've been okay. If she had some sort of talent that she could use in the entertainment industry, it would've been okay too. (There are ugly successful women--comedians, character actors, etc). But unfortunately, she doesn't have any talent, and doesn't seem interested in a life outside Hollywood.
Her parents failed her. They should have encouraged her to develop other interests or pursue more education or a trade.
Instead they did nothing, and then cut her off.
She doesn't have the looks or skills to make it in the industry she wants to be in, and she never developed basic skills to take care of herself either.
If she was born into a regular family in the Midwest, she probably would've become a secretary or something, married some dude and been perfectly content.
I feel no sympathy for her. She was cut off after she left her first husband to get together with Dean who was married at the time. Her kids’ eductation is paid by her mother. She goes through money like it’s water. I feel bad for her kids and that’s about it.
Her younger brother is a life coach or something in the NW. he’s also cut off but he seems to be functional.
Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry for Tori. It had to be brutal growing up in Hollywood looking the way she does. If she was male, it would've been okay. If she had some sort of talent that she could use in the entertainment industry, it would've been okay too. (There are ugly successful women--comedians, character actors, etc). But unfortunately, she doesn't have any talent, and doesn't seem interested in a life outside Hollywood.
Her parents failed her. They should have encouraged her to develop other interests or pursue more education or a trade.
Instead they did nothing, and then cut her off.
She doesn't have the looks or skills to make it in the industry she wants to be in, and she never developed basic skills to take care of herself either.
If she was born into a regular family in the Midwest, she probably would've become a secretary or something, married some dude and been perfectly content.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Man her kids look so disheveled in that Disney pic. Unhappy, fat and bad clothes. I blame bad parents who are too interested in themselves to pay attention to them.
I agree. I always think it’s super screwed up when you have parents who are clearly fixated on their own appearance with thousands in injectibles yet obese children. You have time and money for that, but not to have your kids participate in activities?
Anonymous wrote:Man her kids look so disheveled in that Disney pic. Unhappy, fat and bad clothes. I blame bad parents who are too interested in themselves to pay attention to them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Man her kids look so disheveled in that Disney pic. Unhappy, fat and bad clothes. I blame bad parents who are too interested in themselves to pay attention to them.
I hate to say it, but I totally agree. They look totally uncared for, and I'm not exactly a stickler on this issue normally. They're downright slovenly.
They’re at a theme park in the summer what should they be wearing?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Man her kids look so disheveled in that Disney pic. Unhappy, fat and bad clothes. I blame bad parents who are too interested in themselves to pay attention to them.
I hate to say it, but I totally agree. They look totally uncared for, and I'm not exactly a stickler on this issue normally. They're downright slovenly.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Man her kids look so disheveled in that Disney pic. Unhappy, fat and bad clothes. I blame bad parents who are too interested in themselves to pay attention to them.
I hate to say it, but I totally agree. They look totally uncared for, and I'm not exactly a stickler on this issue normally. They're downright slovenly.
Anonymous wrote:Man her kids look so disheveled in that Disney pic. Unhappy, fat and bad clothes. I blame bad parents who are too interested in themselves to pay attention to them.