I went to college and studied and worked hard just to have the freedom to choose. I have heard that it is just as easy to love a rich man as a poor man. That is wrong. Ask Melania Trump.
I need the freedom to love the man I choose and stay away from the jerks. There are many out there. Few good men, very few

No minimum for me. We are a team. If what we make is enough we would optimize based on our overall situation. In our situation DH has the riskier and slightly lower pay and less fulfilling job for him. I have a slightly higher pay and more stable and moderately fulfilling job. He quit when we had kids as we do not need the money but do need the extra time.