Anonymous wrote:OP here, appreciate all the responses from those who are members of clubs. I can definitely see the value of clubs for families with kids, part of the reason I was wondering if it was "worth it" to join a club is because we are childfree by choice. We considered another club a few years ago, but it was further from our house and very family oriented so we decided it wasn't a good fit.
The club we're considering now is less than 10 minutes from our home. I do see a lot of value in the experience of being a member: the flexibility to stop in whenever, golf on demand for DH, meeting new people, etc. Especially for DH who would love to play 9 in 70 minutes and still be home for dinner, which would make me happy. You're really paying for the convenience and experience that only a club can deliver. While we've also considered buying a vacation home, but don't think we'd get to use it enough at this point in our careers. The club would give us resort-like amenities that we can fit into our busy schedules and we can get a second home down the line when we're more able to use it. I guess I'm just convincing myself now,![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So OP is asking if they should join a country club because they can "easily afford it," it would "expand their social network," and they're "childless by choice."
OP, once you've made your decision, let us know which club it is so we can all avoid it.
The person we all want to avoid is you.
What an a**hole.
Anonymous wrote:So OP is asking if they should join a country club because they can "easily afford it," it would "expand their social network," and they're "childless by choice."
OP, once you've made your decision, let us know which club it is so we can all avoid it.
Anonymous wrote:OP here, appreciate all the responses from those who are members of clubs. I can definitely see the value of clubs for families with kids, part of the reason I was wondering if it was "worth it" to join a club is because we are childfree by choice. We considered another club a few years ago, but it was further from our house and very family oriented so we decided it wasn't a good fit.
The club we're considering now is less than 10 minutes from our home. I do see a lot of value in the experience of being a member: the flexibility to stop in whenever, golf on demand for DH, meeting new people, etc. Especially for DH who would love to play 9 in 70 minutes and still be home for dinner, which would make me happy. You're really paying for the convenience and experience that only a club can deliver. While we've also considered buying a vacation home, but don't think we'd get to use it enough at this point in our careers. The club would give us resort-like amenities that we can fit into our busy schedules and we can get a second home down the line when we're more able to use it. I guess I'm just convincing myself now,![]()