Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would love to know where Vanessa’s children go to school. That would be interesting for context. It is unclear how much the authors actually know about the specifics of DC Public Schools. I think that is why they blatantly misinterpret their data - confirmation bias.
I strongly disagree w/the premise that experts in X area pertaining to kids need to be parents themselves, or that their personal decisions should somehow color perceptions of their work. My two cents.
Anonymous wrote:jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:i think what a lot of people are missing here is the mindset that you are either making an anti-racist decision, or you are making a racist decision.
Often, what white people consider to be the default or obvious choice is one that supports a racist, segregated country. It doesn't mean you are a member of the KKK, but it is still true. THAT is what the author is trying to get at, but bc it is a Brookings piece she can't be more obvious about driving home that conclusion.
Great point. I think a lot of folks are getting defensive (Jeff included) because they see this as a black or white issue--either the report says we're segregationists/racists, or we're not. Really, this should be seen collectively as shades of grey--many decisions made by white families in American perpetuate systemic racism to some degree. But increased awareness will hopefully lead some folks to be more thoughtful about their role in the system and how their individual behaviors can help to dismantle it (e.g., housing decisions, lottery rankings).
The poster that you say is making a "Great point" is making exactly the type of binary determination that you think is wrong ("you are either making an anti-racist decision, or you are making a racist decision"). My "defensiveness" is primarily due to my frustration that a complex issue is being over-simplified. There are a considerable number of shades of grey. Making this an either/or proposition ignores all of those. Many factors contribute to school choices. It is lazy to decide than any decision other than the one that you support is racist.
PP here. I guess I didn't write clearly enough. I'm saying exactly this--it's not an either/or issue. We, collectively, as highly educated (mostly white, although I myself am not) Americans with choices when it comes to schools--are all complicit in a system that isn't of our own making, but which we participate in and perpetuate. It is like implicit bias--by virtue of being raised in this country, with America's original sin of racism at its very core--we're all influenced by it, whether we are aware or not. So it doesn't make sense to categorize people as "racists" or not, because most people are not blatant racists these days. But the absence of overt racism doesn't mean that systemic racism is absent. As a social scientist, there are many studies that suggest that our decision-making and behaviors are still influenced by beliefs about race. For example, there are the studies of physicians and how patient race affects clinical care. Many of these people will consider themselves good white people, liberal in politics and policy, but not so when it comes to school and housing choices. I have neighbors and colleagues that fit this description.
I'm reminded of MLK's quote about the "white moderate." I hope that this report and other research like it will invite some introspection, even if the methods here are imperfect.
Anonymous wrote:I would love to know where Vanessa’s children go to school. That would be interesting for context. It is unclear how much the authors actually know about the specifics of DC Public Schools. I think that is why they blatantly misinterpret their data - confirmation bias.
jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:+1
Saying, "well, we aren't segregationists because you aren't telling us what the solution is" is a complete non sequitur. The solution is really complicated, and involves things beyond what schools parents send their kids to, but it will NEVER happen as long as parents who are participating in and benefiting from the system hear "systemic racism" and immediately bristle because someone is calling them "racist." Some problems don't have easy solutions, but pretending that they aren't problems because of that doesn't help.
Part of it is that we really need to think HARD about what we think makes a "good school," and the ways that race plays into that. There are studies about how people's perception of a school's quality declines when the percentage of black students increases, even if things like test scores stay the same.
Nobody has said anything remotely similar to what you are suggesting. I agree completely that, "The solution is really complicated, and involves things beyond what schools parents send their kids". We live in a nation built on racism. Every institution is tarnished by racism. What I have said is that given the options available, parents attempt to make the best choice. That is a normal and natural thing to do. If you believe that the options parents are choosing are racist or are supporting segregation, then it would be very helpful to offer suggestions for what they should do differently. What is the benefit in simply telling someone they are supporting institutionalized racism and leaving it at that? Why not help with a plan of action that could encourage real change?
Literally nobody thinks there is not a problem. The racial dynamics of DC schools are probably the most discussed topic here. Whether it is school choice, school quality, boundaries, funding, renovations, or even opening or closing schools due to the pandemic, race is part of the discussion. We talk about it all the time.
Let's assume the report is correct for a second. What can I, as the owner of the forum, do to stop the forum from promoting segregation? I can't really think of realistic steps I could take. Everything that comes to mind seems absurd. Should I ban discussions of certain schools or discussions about the lottery? Should I remove posts which encourage moving to a school with a higher percentage of White students? Should I close the whole thing down? By participating in this forum are you also contributing to its use in supporting segregation? If pointing out the problem is the first step, what is the second?
jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:yes, exactly. A lot of the books that have come out this year (How to Be Anti-racist, Caste) are about exactly this. It's really understandable that people get defensive when they think they are being "called a segregationist." this year has been a long journey of trying to get people to face instead that they are participating in a racist system. it's a subtle difference but maybe one that can relieve some of that defensiveness.
To an extent I agree with you and I acknowledge that I probably should have viewed things more in this light. However, with regard to this report, I think its research is extremely shoddy, doesn't support the conclusions, and both ignores and reveals the obvious. Because the research is so light and flawed, what stands out are the allegations that are repeated throughout the report about supporting segregation. Perhaps the authors could have made their point without using such a loaded term? Is there really any justification for using such a term toward people who have chosen to remain in DC public schools rather than fleeing for private or the suburbs? Why antagonize the very folks with whom you must partner to find a solution?
jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:yes, exactly. A lot of the books that have come out this year (How to Be Anti-racist, Caste) are about exactly this. It's really understandable that people get defensive when they think they are being "called a segregationist." this year has been a long journey of trying to get people to face instead that they are participating in a racist system. it's a subtle difference but maybe one that can relieve some of that defensiveness.
To an extent I agree with you and I acknowledge that I probably should have viewed things more in this light. However, with regard to this report, I think its research is extremely shoddy, doesn't support the conclusions, and both ignores and reveals the obvious. Because the research is so light and flawed, what stands out are the allegations that are repeated throughout the report about supporting segregation. Perhaps the authors could have made their point without using such a loaded term? Is there really any justification for using such a term toward people who have chosen to remain in DC public schools rather than fleeing for private or the suburbs? Why antagonize the very folks with whom you must partner to find a solution?
Jeff, this reaction is white fragility in action. You can do better.
You may be correct that it is white fragility, but it is also reality. If people are interested in hard truths, it is a simple fact that this sort of language alienates your most likely allies. Why accuse people who didn't choose private schools and who didn't flee to the suburbs of supporting segregation? What solution does that help achieve?
jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:yes, exactly. A lot of the books that have come out this year (How to Be Anti-racist, Caste) are about exactly this. It's really understandable that people get defensive when they think they are being "called a segregationist." this year has been a long journey of trying to get people to face instead that they are participating in a racist system. it's a subtle difference but maybe one that can relieve some of that defensiveness.
To an extent I agree with you and I acknowledge that I probably should have viewed things more in this light. However, with regard to this report, I think its research is extremely shoddy, doesn't support the conclusions, and both ignores and reveals the obvious. Because the research is so light and flawed, what stands out are the allegations that are repeated throughout the report about supporting segregation. Perhaps the authors could have made their point without using such a loaded term? Is there really any justification for using such a term toward people who have chosen to remain in DC public schools rather than fleeing for private or the suburbs? Why antagonize the very folks with whom you must partner to find a solution?
Jeff, this reaction is white fragility in action. You can do better.
You may be correct that it is white fragility, but it is also reality. If people are interested in hard truths, it is a simple fact that this sort of language alienates your most likely allies. Why accuse people who didn't choose private schools and who didn't flee to the suburbs of supporting segregation? What solution does that help achieve?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:i think what a lot of people are missing here is the mindset that you are either making an anti-racist decision, or you are making a racist decision.
Often, what white people consider to be the default or obvious choice is one that supports a racist, segregated country. It doesn't mean you are a member of the KKK, but it is still true. THAT is what the author is trying to get at, but bc it is a Brookings piece she can't be more obvious about driving home that conclusion.
to make it perfectly clear, moving to upper NW to be in a majority white elementary school and choosing a lesser quality charter to be with more white people are both decision that perpetuate that. They are all mildly racist white liberals. I live in Shaw, i have seen many many many people do that. I also have seen the white families who have remained in our EOTP DCPS for the duration -- they are people who are comfortable being a minority as a white person, who actively believe in integration, and who have a lot of faith in their children and aren't worried about them. The number of these people is growing every year. I hope this study does more to increase it.
Shaw is zoned to Cardozo, which is 1% white. That's ~7 kids. The number of white families who are remaining and sending their kids there is miniscule. And that should tell you something about the difficulty of it. Because you have families who are comfortable being in a minority, who do believe in integration, and who still go charter (where they will also be a minority) or selective high school, or leave.
i think we can all agree that 2020 was a paradigm-shifting year. In particular, the way white people think about their own privilege and how they benefit from racist systems has changed. It's all out in the open now. I don't think it's a coincedence that this study came out now... i think there are more people now who are ready to hear it. Maybe even on DCUM.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:NP but it seems like common sense to me that Brookings is actually critiquing both the system and the actors, and you're interpreting it primarily as a personal attack ("they keep calling us segregationists"). When you try to turn a discussion about systemic racism into a conversation about whether or not you're a nice person, you're centering yourself in an unhelpful and unsympathetic way. I agree with the PPs that say you should leave this alone or at least re-read and edit it when you're not so upset. If you have to respond it should be about the weaknesses inherent in the methodology, the fact that boundaries were redrawn during the survey time, and the less outraged points.
Not to pile on, but I've reported enough overtly racist stuff on the schools forum to know that there's plenty of meat on the report's bones. You've deleted most, though not all, of it, so I'm not sure why you're committed to arguing that racism doesn't play a role in the school choices made by posters here. Stop looking at it as about you and start looking at is about the aggregate of posts. The methodology is flawed but it's not like they're coming out of fantasy land.
Directly from the report, "The conversations on DC Urban Moms illustrate what other research has also shown: When privileged parents choose, they tend to choose segregation." What is this saying if it is not saying that we are segregationists? Their description includes you, by the way. I don't know why I shouldn't take this misrepresentation of a website I own personally. I actually think I should.
As I have said, there are racists here. There are racists everywhere in America. Racism, whether conscious or unconscious, may play a role in school choices. But, I disagree with the report's conclusion that DCUM posters are choosing segregation. You are one of our posters. Did you choose segregation? The aggregate of the posts here are not racist. I don't know how many you have reported, but I guarantee that they are such a small percentage of the posts as to be almost unnoticeable. The report is doing a grave disservice by reducing a complex and nuanced issue to a simple accusation of racism. You know there is more to it than that. Why are you defending such their conclusion?
Many, many conversations on DCUM do illustrate what other research has shown, that privileged parents choose segregation. I am not horrified by this report because it rings true to me based on the comical amount of time I spend here. The conclusion is overbroad, especially since you seem to be reading "the conversations on DCUM" to mean "every single conversation on DCUM," but the defensiveness (and trying to transfer the defensiveness to me?) is also overblown. Their description doesn't include me, because I have not participated in the conversations that support their point other than to debate people who insist that SWW is the bees knees and Banneker is for problem cases with no dads (real thread!).
I think there are methodological problems with the report, and I think you've described some of them persuasively. I also think the overly-personal reactions in other parts of your draft are inappropriate and you may come to regret publishing this while upset. But this is your site, and it's your essay. If that's the direction you want to go, I'm not going to keep arguing against it.
I also think that saying that "privileged parents choose segregation" is the same as saying that they are "segregationists" is a mistake, because you make it an attack on your character rather than a statement about the ways in which everyone participates in a racist system. There are no "pure" choices. You can choose segregation without really meaning to, by not thinking about why things are the way they are, by not interrogating your own sense of what make a "good" school or a "good" neighborhood, by relying on "objective" measures, like test scores, that really aren't.
It's funny to me that parents who consider themselves liberal and progressive on race in many ways can be reliably counted on to get all their hackles up when someone points out that their choice of neighborhood or school for their kids was informed by racism (even unconscious) or entrenches racism, even if that's an unintended consequence. Because you're doing what's "best for your kid," and that trumps every other obligation and consideration, and justifies anything.
yes, exactly. A lot of the books that have come out this year (How to Be Anti-racist, Caste) are about exactly this. It's really understandable that people get defensive when they think they are being "called a segregationist." this year has been a long journey of trying to get people to face instead that they are participating in a racist system. it's a subtle difference but maybe one that can relieve some of that defensiveness.
jsteele wrote:Anonymous wrote:+1
Saying, "well, we aren't segregationists because you aren't telling us what the solution is" is a complete non sequitur. The solution is really complicated, and involves things beyond what schools parents send their kids to, but it will NEVER happen as long as parents who are participating in and benefiting from the system hear "systemic racism" and immediately bristle because someone is calling them "racist." Some problems don't have easy solutions, but pretending that they aren't problems because of that doesn't help.
Part of it is that we really need to think HARD about what we think makes a "good school," and the ways that race plays into that. There are studies about how people's perception of a school's quality declines when the percentage of black students increases, even if things like test scores stay the same.
Nobody has said anything remotely similar to what you are suggesting. I agree completely that, "The solution is really complicated, and involves things beyond what schools parents send their kids". We live in a nation built on racism. Every institution is tarnished by racism. What I have said is that given the options available, parents attempt to make the best choice. That is a normal and natural thing to do. If you believe that the options parents are choosing are racist or are supporting segregation, then it would be very helpful to offer suggestions for what they should do differently. What is the benefit in simply telling someone they are supporting institutionalized racism and leaving it at that? Why not help with a plan of action that could encourage real change?
Literally nobody thinks there is not a problem. The racial dynamics of DC schools are probably the most discussed topic here. Whether it is school choice, school quality, boundaries, funding, renovations, or even opening or closing schools due to the pandemic, race is part of the discussion. We talk about it all the time.
Let's assume the report is correct for a second. What can I, as the owner of the forum, do to stop the forum from promoting segregation? I can't really think of realistic steps I could take. Everything that comes to mind seems absurd. Should I ban discussions of certain schools or discussions about the lottery? Should I remove posts which encourage moving to a school with a higher percentage of White students? Should I close the whole thing down? By participating in this forum are you also contributing to its use in supporting segregation? If pointing out the problem is the first step, what is the second?