Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 18:24     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe you can do crew as a club sport elsewhere. Go lobby the current school to form a team. But it’s not part of the culture today to have a lot of sports offerings.


I didn't realize the class size was only 40 boys, but there are still 4 grades in the HS, right ? So, its actually about 170 boys, correct ?

Not saying offer 5-6 sports every season, but maybe targeted: xc/track, crew, fencing, tennis- sports that only require a roster of 7-10 on the team


Head of School has an open zoom meeting with parents every week, you should mention a sports expansion there.


The one that just listens a take no action?


That’s the one! Just coasting along and talks a good talk.


Oh and what would you like to see implemented? Let me guess, every whim that comes into your head? And within the week, right?


Defensive, aren’t you?


Try “deeply amused”.

Why don’t you put your money where your mouth is? It’s so easy cowering behind an anonymous Internet forum. By all means, please share on the next call. I’ll get the popcorn.
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 17:04     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

same with highschool
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:54     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There are cliques!


Second that!


Can you elaborate? Is this in the MS? The HS? What’s your experience?


Most especially in MS and quite a bit, not as much in high school. No, they do not all get along
and have heard plenty of stories of larger sized kids picking on smaller kids in their own grade where there
is an imbalance of power.
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:50     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe you can do crew as a club sport elsewhere. Go lobby the current school to form a team. But it’s not part of the culture today to have a lot of sports offerings.


I didn't realize the class size was only 40 boys, but there are still 4 grades in the HS, right ? So, its actually about 170 boys, correct ?

Not saying offer 5-6 sports every season, but maybe targeted: xc/track, crew, fencing, tennis- sports that only require a roster of 7-10 on the team


Head of School has an open zoom meeting with parents every week, you should mention a sports expansion there.


The one that just listens a take no action?


That’s the one! Just coasting along and talks a good talk.


Oh and what would you like to see implemented? Let me guess, every whim that comes into your head? And within the week, right?


Defensive, aren’t you?
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:38     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There are cliques!


Second that!


Can you elaborate? Is this in the MS? The HS? What’s your experience?
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:37     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe you can do crew as a club sport elsewhere. Go lobby the current school to form a team. But it’s not part of the culture today to have a lot of sports offerings.


I didn't realize the class size was only 40 boys, but there are still 4 grades in the HS, right ? So, its actually about 170 boys, correct ?

Not saying offer 5-6 sports every season, but maybe targeted: xc/track, crew, fencing, tennis- sports that only require a roster of 7-10 on the team


Head of School has an open zoom meeting with parents every week, you should mention a sports expansion there.


The one that just listens a take no action?


That’s the one! Just coasting along and talks a good talk.


Oh and what would you like to see implemented? Let me guess, every whim that comes into your head? And within the week, right?
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:35     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:There are cliques!


Second that!
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 16:33     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe you can do crew as a club sport elsewhere. Go lobby the current school to form a team. But it’s not part of the culture today to have a lot of sports offerings.


I didn't realize the class size was only 40 boys, but there are still 4 grades in the HS, right ? So, its actually about 170 boys, correct ?

Not saying offer 5-6 sports every season, but maybe targeted: xc/track, crew, fencing, tennis- sports that only require a roster of 7-10 on the team


Head of School has an open zoom meeting with parents every week, you should mention a sports expansion there.


The one that just listens a take no action?


That’s the one! Just coasting along and talks a good talk.
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 12:24     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

There are cliques!
Anonymous
Post 11/04/2021 12:15     Subject: Re:Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

The small size has been good for our son. He is not particularly athletic but has been able to compete for school in a couple of sports. All the boys at the school pretty much get along and they all get to know each other regardless of their personalities backgrounds. There are no cliques.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2021 22:26     Subject: Re:Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:The small size of the HS gives me pause.
I personally loved HS for the social aspects and 30-40 kids per class seems stifling


Yes, it is deliberately smaller just as other schools are deliberately mid-sized or large. Pros and cons to each. Lots of choices though.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2021 22:26     Subject: Re:Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:The small size of the HS gives me pause.
I personally loved HS for the social aspects and 30-40 kids per class seems stifling


To each their own. I’m not a social butterfly and would have preferred a smaller group of more like minded boys than the public school mosh pit I had.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2021 22:25     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe you can do crew as a club sport elsewhere. Go lobby the current school to form a team. But it’s not part of the culture today to have a lot of sports offerings.


I didn't realize the class size was only 40 boys, but there are still 4 grades in the HS, right ? So, its actually about 170 boys, correct ?

Not saying offer 5-6 sports every season, but maybe targeted: xc/track, crew, fencing, tennis- sports that only require a roster of 7-10 on the team


Head of School has an open zoom meeting with parents every week, you should mention a sports expansion there.


The one that just listens a take no action?


Have you presented any specific areas for action? How were those received? Do you think a HOS is supposed to act on every suggestion or should they exercise some discretion?
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2021 22:15     Subject: Re:Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

The small size of the HS gives me pause.
I personally loved HS for the social aspects and 30-40 kids per class seems stifling
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2021 21:36     Subject: Culture of St. Anselm’s Abbey school?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe you can do crew as a club sport elsewhere. Go lobby the current school to form a team. But it’s not part of the culture today to have a lot of sports offerings.


I didn't realize the class size was only 40 boys, but there are still 4 grades in the HS, right ? So, its actually about 170 boys, correct ?

Not saying offer 5-6 sports every season, but maybe targeted: xc/track, crew, fencing, tennis- sports that only require a roster of 7-10 on the team


Head of School has an open zoom meeting with parents every week, you should mention a sports expansion there.


The one that just listens a take no action?