Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 11:18     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Anyway, OP, our standards of beauty are now so diverse because of so many different cultures. What one culture finds very attractive, another culture finds ugly. I wouldn’t worry about it because anything seems to go anymore. The truly attractive people here are many times not as successful as you probably are, not all beautiful people live wonderful lives.


What I don't understand are the assumptions to the contrary. Why would anyone assume that they know ho someone's life is, beautiful or not?

Well, I know some “beautiful” people personally, and their lives aren’t pretty, and they would be the first to admit that. This isn’t all beautiful people obviously, but looks are clearly not everything.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 11:05     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Whole lotta sour grapes in this thread.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 11:04     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:To the people on here claiming to be beautiful, how do you know you are beautiful? Beauty can be subjective.


Agreed, but there are certain things that will always be considered objectively more attractive. Symmetry is big. So are certain features (large eyes, high forehead) that are considered beautiful in virtually every culture and ethnicity in the world.

But yes, beyond these basics, what makes someone beautiful is often in the eye of the beholder.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 10:58     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:Anyway, OP, our standards of beauty are now so diverse because of so many different cultures. What one culture finds very attractive, another culture finds ugly. I wouldn’t worry about it because anything seems to go anymore. The truly attractive people here are many times not as successful as you probably are, not all beautiful people live wonderful lives.


What I don't understand are the assumptions to the contrary. Why would anyone assume that they know ho someone's life is, beautiful or not?
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 10:57     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The coolest women are the “jolie laide” ones. They have no Fs to give and age in a vibrantly angry way. Beautiful try too hard to hold on to their looks it’s painful to watch them fight aging (50+ Average lady speaking here)

Yeah, the obvious “bad plastic surgery” look is pathetic and very unfortunate. It’s a shame women can’t feel as comfortable with aging as many men do.


Lots of "good" plastic surgery is obvious too. There is something wrong with a person who has to change their face, someone who hates how they look probably hates themselves - and no amount of plastic surgery will ever change that.

One or two procedures is one thing - but redoing everything? Something is really, really, desperately wrong.

For those people, too bad there isn't plastic surgery for their insides.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 10:28     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
To the people on here claiming to be beautiful, how do you know you are beautiful? Beauty can be subjective.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 10:08     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
I’m beautiful and my life has been far from perfect. I know a lot of less attractive women who have had happier lives than I have.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 09:47     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anyway, OP, our standards of beauty are now so diverse because of so many different cultures. What one culture finds very attractive, another culture finds ugly. I wouldn’t worry about it because anything seems to go anymore. The truly attractive people here are many times not as successful as you probably are, not all beautiful people live wonderful lives.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 09:46     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
OP, spend time with people who don't make you feel full of hate. You'll do yourself a favor and those beautiful women a favor. But also get therapy, because my favorite person in the world is a kind, kind woman who is unquestionably beautiful. She makes everyone else feel loved and beautiful, too. I'd hate to think what I would have missed if I had been too envious to see the person behind the facade. (I am not beautiful, by the way.)
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 09:41     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to befriend these gorgeous women and reap the fringe benefits.



Exactly. Many have low self esteem or other deep rooted problems. They often are needy and looking for a supportive friend.

I'm a pretty girl, but not beautiful and was friends to one. She was a mess and sadly against all good advice she did the opposite. Wasted a lot of good years with losers, and now doesn't have any kids to show for it. Which she now regrets. Seriously OP don't hate on them, or envy them. Look at Kim K. with that loser she still won't eject, very typical.

.
Dumbest post ever

I think plastic surgery “pretty” is a bit different than “actual pretty”, though - no?

Yes, the Kardashians will never be mistaken for supermodels, even Kendall.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 09:15     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's ridiculous. We're not like Nicola Peltz. She's gorgeous AND loaded.


Or Julia Louis Dreyfus, who is gorgeous and aged well, inherited billions, made millions on her own, is smart and has perfect kids and husband. And yet is perfectly likable.


I adore her but gorgeous?

Yeah, she wouldn’t be considered gorgeous by most, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 08:01     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to befriend these gorgeous women and reap the fringe benefits.



Exactly. Many have low self esteem or other deep rooted problems. They often are needy and looking for a supportive friend.

I'm a pretty girl, but not beautiful and was friends to one. She was a mess and sadly against all good advice she did the opposite. Wasted a lot of good years with losers, and now doesn't have any kids to show for it. Which she now regrets. Seriously OP don't hate on them, or envy them. Look at Kim K. with that loser she still won't eject, very typical.

.
Dumbest post ever

I think plastic surgery “pretty” is a bit different than “actual pretty”, though - no?
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 07:47     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
You’ll never be beautiful if you tell yourself you are not.

Why should anyone think you are beautiful if you don’t.

Work on yourself and stop hating on others.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 07:29     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
No I don’t hate them. As an ugly person I would take above average. They also have to deal with things I’ve never had to like constant attention from the opposite sex and not being taken seriously.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2020 07:15     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Mostly even just genes!


This is it folks. Genetic beauty doesn't compare to any other level of attractiveness.