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Anonymous wrote:I’ve been married 20+ years and don’t feel like she filed because of an affair or his sexuality. Many times in those cases, couples will at least work on saving the marriage before moving to divorce. My guess is that it’s something criminal (child abuse, theft, underage porn, etc.) - especially since it appears that the kids have all taken her side quickly. I think it would have taken something really major to file for a divorce so quickly with such a long marriage. Just my two cents!

Arnold Schwarzenegger's kids all jumped immediately to their mom's side after his affair and kid with the housekeeper. They wouldn't even talk to him for a year or so. One of his son's still barely talks to him.

Anonymous wrote:It’s sad. Real sad. But, I met her years ago 2008ish, before she was anywhere close to where she is now. She always struck me as just wayyy over the top. A little too full of herself, if you ask me. He was also a little too sappy for my taste. But, I observed them both change over the next 3 or so years. He became a little more of an outlaw type. Just look at his change physically over the past 10 yrs. He’s sort of like Jesse James lite... maybe her success, and his lack of it, drove him into a deep area where he felt as if he were lacking. It truly did seem as if it were all about her. So, perhaps he found someone who gave him the attention he wanted/needed. Just a guess. Oh, and by the way, she wrote the book “7”, which is about living in excess etc. well, she left that all behind. She drives a top of the line Range Rover and spares no expense on herself.... let’s be real. She’s made everything about her. Not an excuse to cheat by any means (if that did indeed happen), but there’s more to it than him allegedly stepping out. She’d drive me bat shit crazy. Her larger than life earrings and her subtle lisp and over exaggerating everything is just too much for me.

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Anonymous wrote:To leave your wife and children for another woman after so many years, if true, to really pull that trigger makes him a true outlier. And it is disturbing.

What are you talking about. That is fairly common--especially when men hit middle age/50. And, it is awful.

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been married 20+ years and don’t feel like she filed because of an affair or his sexuality. Many times in those cases, couples will at least work on saving the marriage before moving to divorce. My guess is that it’s something criminal (child abuse, theft, underage porn, etc.) - especially since it appears that the kids have all taken her side quickly. I think it would have taken something really major to file for a divorce so quickly with such a long marriage. Just my two cents!

Anonymous wrote:To leave your wife and children for another woman after so many years, if true, to really pull that trigger makes him a true outlier. And it is disturbing.

Anonymous wrote:It’s sad. Real sad. But, I met her years ago 2008ish, before she was anywhere close to where she is now. She always struck me as just wayyy over the top. A little too full of herself, if you ask me. He was also a little too sappy for my taste. But, I observed them both change over the next 3 or so years. He became a little more of an outlaw type. Just look at his change physically over the past 10 yrs. He’s sort of like Jesse James lite... maybe her success, and his lack of it, drove him into a deep area where he felt as if he were lacking. It truly did seem as if it were all about her. So, perhaps he found someone who gave him the attention he wanted/needed. Just a guess. Oh, and by the way, she wrote the book “7”, which is about living in excess etc. well, she left that all behind. She drives a top of the line Range Rover and spares no expense on herself.... let’s be real. She’s made everything about her. Not an excuse to cheat by any means (if that did indeed happen), but there’s more to it than him allegedly stepping out. She’d drive me bat shit crazy. Her larger than life earrings and her subtle lisp and over exaggerating everything is just too much for me.

Anonymous wrote:How about some sort of serious financial mismanagement? A blogger I used to read left her husband when she found out he had completely tapped all their accounts to support a gambling habit. That would explain the quick filing before he could do more damage.
Complete speculation.