Anonymous wrote:A few years ago at my club there were four couples in their late 30’s early 40’s who always hung out together and were fun partiers. It turned out that two of the women were having affairs with two of the husbands and two couples were swapping so all eight were effing someone else. Three of the couples ended up getting divorced and all left the club. They were all attractive and successful and ended up wrecking their lives.

We knew quite a few that got divorced for various reasons. Some cheating, and all have financial problems today almost 10-15 years later. Seemed like it all happened around the time of the bubble. I know 2 who are in bad second marriages with steps, exes and all kinds of problems. One reason I'm glad I stayed married.

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Anonymous wrote:Not me and if my husband is I will kill him because there is no way he can complain about a lack of affection.

Same here, but I wouldn't be able to divorce. At the age it would seriously impact our future retirement.

I'd put a stop to it like my friend did, then smile while secretly hating him. Not everyone can afford to divorce especially now.

I could afford to divorce because my half would be more than enough to live on and large enough to attract enough hot moths to the flame! We’ve been married 34 years and yesterday I initiated and left him exhausted which is pretty impressive at my age. My husband might wish for someone with a harder body but he has no reason to wander at this point in his life.

That's not why people cheat. My friend had plenty of sex with her husband. He met someone and started cheating on her. No there aren't any hot moths over 55, lol. Mainly a lot of baggage and money and health issues. After lawyers it's still a divided by 2 portion which will impact most peoples lifestyle.

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Anonymous wrote:Not me and if my husband is I will kill him because there is no way he can complain about a lack of affection.

Same here, but I wouldn't be able to divorce. At the age it would seriously impact our future retirement.

I'd put a stop to it like my friend did, then smile while secretly hating him. Not everyone can afford to divorce especially now.

I could afford to divorce because my half would be more than enough to live on and large enough to attract enough hot moths to the flame! We’ve been married 34 years and yesterday I initiated and left him exhausted which is pretty impressive at my age. My husband might wish for someone with a harder body but he has no reason to wander at this point in his life.

You're every married man's dream.

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Anonymous wrote:I've been in the game for over a decade and I can spot a married women who cheats or is open to it within ten minutes of talking to her. I'd say the percent who have or are willing is about 20%. Probably the same for men. There have never been a shortage of available cheating wives. Most of my affairs have been short lived except this current one which has gone on for 4 years.

How can you tell? That is so fascinating. Do they show they are interested in you? I could never guess. I see people that continue to focus on their looks and fitness well into middle age and I wonder. I figure someone who is moving comfortably into their 40s without worrying about how they look and figure they probably aren’t candidates.

The woman who had an affair with my husband did a complete 180 with her looks when she had checked out of her marriage. She was married having an affair too. If you looked back at old Facebook pictures she was your average frumpy mom until she started working out, bleached her hair blond, fake tanned, and dressed too young for her age. She was for sure on the prowl and looks were very important to her.

I have not had an affair, but I work in a field where they are very common occurrences. The signs are usually pretty textbook. Sudden interest in stepping up their game - lookswise with clothing or hair, or with fitness.

To be fair, not all women who "step up" are doing so because of wanting to step outside of their marriage. I did so because I had more time as kids were more independent. As a result, I wanted to start taking care of my health, and challenge myself to take care of myself overall (clothes, hair etc.). No intention whatsoever of wanting to have an affair.

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Anonymous wrote:Not me and if my husband is I will kill him because there is no way he can complain about a lack of affection.

Same here, but I wouldn't be able to divorce. At the age it would seriously impact our future retirement.

I'd put a stop to it like my friend did, then smile while secretly hating him. Not everyone can afford to divorce especially now.

I could afford to divorce because my half would be more than enough to live on and large enough to attract enough hot moths to the flame! We’ve been married 34 years and yesterday I initiated and left him exhausted which is pretty impressive at my age. My husband might wish for someone with a harder body but he has no reason to wander at this point in his life.

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Anonymous wrote:A group of 6 (4 dudes 2 chicks) of us from College still keep in touch and hang out with each other’s families and children. I am one of the chicks, were all mid 30s and all 4 of the guys cheat on their wives. They discuss it openly amongst us, and they’ve done it many times not just with one AP. It’s awful but it’s not my place to say anything, and their spouses are so “my husband is perfect” they would never believe it. It’s weird hanging out with them while feeling sorry for them that they actually have no idea the person they married.

So what if you found out that your husband has been cheating for a while and all of his friends knew? Would you have wanted someone to tell you?

Of COURSE?!!!!

Who wants to find out in year 3 or 4 when somebody could have told them at month 2-3 before things were too far gone.

Also—these losers are having unprotected sex and then going back and screwing their spouses. That is CRIMINAL.

The husband who has these worthless friends is also cheating, or cheated. First I would contact the wives or at least anonymously. Secondly I would be checking up on my husband and finally he would need to get new friends. I couldn't respect my spouse if all his friends were dirt bags. There's a reason he's friends with them.

If he has a Google account one of my friends checks up on her husband who cheated. She puts in myactivity.google.com on the computer and can see his whereabouts. She makes sure his location is on, and to date he hasn't figured it out. I feel like everyone should spot check their spouse. If you're not doing wrong then you shouldn't care imo. Of course I wouldn't tell them either. Getting a serious disease is criminal.

Anonymous wrote:Not me and if my husband is I will kill him because there is no way he can complain about a lack of affection.

Same here, but I wouldn't be able to divorce. At the age it would seriously impact our future retirement.

I'd put a stop to it like my friend did, then smile while secretly hating him. Not everyone can afford to divorce especially now.

A few years ago at my club there were four couples in their late 30’s early 40’s who always hung out together and were fun partiers. It turned out that two of the women were having affairs with two of the husbands and two couples were swapping so all eight were effing someone else. Three of the couples ended up getting divorced and all left the club. They were all attractive and successful and ended up wrecking their lives.

The couple next door was doing threesome's and swapping. But they had rules and he was seeing the wife of the swapping couple on the side so his wife considered that an affair and divorced him. Both women had fake boobs. Other than that, would think that 1 out of 5 in this boring as f#$k UMC are doing someone on the side, though I have no empirical evidence.

Anonymous wrote:43,897 people are actively having affairs at this moment

That's all?

Anonymous wrote:43,897 people are actively having affairs at this moment

According to Trump there,a only 5 he knows of and they are go away going away tremendously fast

43,897 people are actively having affairs at this moment

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes a whore is just a whore

No underlying reason.

Do you know how many women have been molested!?! Iys about 1 in 5. So you definitely know someone (most likely multiple someones) who have suffered. I have; I don’t cheat but I find ppl like you insufferable.

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Anonymous wrote:I've been in the game for over a decade and I can spot a married women who cheats or is open to it within ten minutes of talking to her. I'd say the percent who have or are willing is about 20%. Probably the same for men. There have never been a shortage of available cheating wives. Most of my affairs have been short lived except this current one which has gone on for 4 years.

How can you tell? That is so fascinating. Do they show they are interested in you? I could never guess. I see people that continue to focus on their looks and fitness well into middle age and I wonder. I figure someone who is moving comfortably into their 40s without worrying about how they look and figure they probably aren’t candidates.

The woman who had an affair with my husband did a complete 180 with her looks when she had checked out of her marriage. She was married having an affair too. If you looked back at old Facebook pictures she was your average frumpy mom until she started working out, bleached her hair blond, fake tanned, and dressed too young for her age. She was for sure on the prowl and looks were very important to her.

Not the short dumpy 49-year old redhead that had an affair with my husband.

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Anonymous wrote:I've been in the game for over a decade and I can spot a married women who cheats or is open to it within ten minutes of talking to her. I'd say the percent who have or are willing is about 20%. Probably the same for men. There have never been a shortage of available cheating wives. Most of my affairs have been short lived except this current one which has gone on for 4 years.

How can you tell? That is so fascinating. Do they show they are interested in you? I could never guess. I see people that continue to focus on their looks and fitness well into middle age and I wonder. I figure someone who is moving comfortably into their 40s without worrying about how they look and figure they probably aren’t candidates.

Also wonder how you can tell. Are they women who are particularly flirtatious and use a lot of double entendres?

The thought of an affair ready woman using a lot of double entendres made me laugh

Same. Too bad affair-ready women don’t have like a gland that signals they are ready for receiving.