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I'll be honest with you, OP. I'm starting to lighten up on my kids. They've been pretty good up until this point, but I can tell this lack of friend interaction is really starting to impact them. And I'm sorry; I just don't believe that the threat is still there, as much as we feared 6 weeks ago. We've flattened the curve. That was the goal. I think it's OK at this point to start living a little again.

Biking with friends - OK. Basketball with 1-2 other friends - OK. I'm not ready to let them start visiting other people's houses yet, but hopefully that will come soon.

Biking with friends is ok? Basketball with 1-2 other friends is ok? NO! This is not ok! Why do you think your kids are such special snowflakes that they don't need to follow stay at home orders? There is no carveout for teens. The lack of interaction is affecting everyone, not just your kids. The threat is still there, but to the extent it has been mitigated at all it is because the people around you are doing their part. Do yours.

Stay at home order doesn’t prohibit bike rides or basketball.

+1

Not in Virginia. groups under 10 are allowed. They do NOT need to be related. Read the order and step off.

-1. Basketball or other sports with those NOT UNDER YOUR ROOF is a NO.

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Anonymous wrote:The goal was to flatten the curve. We have done that. Mission accomplished.

It is not going to be just another six weeks of this virus. Probably a year or more. So we will need to relax the social distancing policies to survive, politically, emotionally and emotionally.

+1. The virus could stick around, it could be less of a problem in the summer and come back in the fall like other viruses do, it could burn out like SARS did, we could get to a point where we have herd immunity. We don't know. But at some point we're going to have to weigh economics, education, civil liberties, etc. with the risk. I'm happy to see that in the reopening guidelines for governors (no, not the reopening plan from the White House, but one put together by the Association of Governors, led by Hogan and Cuomo) includes balancing medical/hospital resources is part of the plan. With Maryland re-opening Laurel Hospital to accept COVID patients, that's a big help in the balance. Flattening the curve was never meant to prevent everyone from getting COVID, it was to try to prevent everyone from getting it at the same time. The curve doesn't come to a complete stop, it just flattens and lengthens.

Of course. We know all of this. Don't you think it's best to then wait for the data driven plan instead of everyone just doing what feels best right now?

Well we may be waiting for a LONG time as the data keeps changing. Remember how we were told wearing face masks was useless? And now we're told to wear face masks with the Surgeon General giving us a cute little youtube tutorial.

Remember how asymptomatic carriers were contagious? The latest is they aren't.

Remember how mortality rates are changing practically daily?

And it's understandable that the data will keep changing. That's how science works. But we may never have this completely figured out, heck we can't even get a completely effective flu shot (I say this as someone who gets one every year and makes my kids). So for the data to be set in stone and not changing, we're going to be waiting a long time.

This. X1000.

Where is this?

PP has it backwards. The “experts” previously insisted that asymptomatic transmission was not a major factor in the spread of the virus and we should only focus on people who have symptoms...but now course has reversed and all we hear about is how you can unknowingly spread it to people. But the broader point remains — shaming people for not listening to THE EXPERTS!!!! is so stupid given how wrong the experts have been on pretty much everything.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm the "BECAUSE WE ARE STAYING AT HOME" lady and this has been fun, as usual, DCUM. Great reading comprehension all around. Certainly no one putting words into my mouth, like pretending I told everyone to STAY AT HOME FOREVER OR UNTIL THERE'S A VACCINE OR WHATEVER.

I was going to present a bunch of points about infection rate (even 1.5 new infections per person is exponential-- ever increasing-- though it's much lower than the 2.5 expected with zero social distancing measures). Or mention that hey, in the DC area and many others, infection rates are continuing to increase even with social distancing! Hospitals may not (yet) be overwhelmed here, but we haven't (yet) flattened the curve at all! Yes, let's relax things now, while we are seeing a rising hospitalization rate every day. Oh, it's not affecting you so much in Nebraska yet? Cool, that couldn't possibly mean that you started out with fewer cases or you have yet to see your peak or anything. It must mean that you did something right, and now your job is done.

Great job, everyone! It's definitely not super early in the game, with loads of possible effects we haven't yet seen. We've done it! Time to have that barbecue that "no one here is saying" we should.

In conclusion:

in my state, the curve has definitely flattened and we have an overabundance of hospital space.

So you are wrong on all counts. Our barbecue will continue. But you continue trying to lock up your kids.

What makes it possible for you to have a low-risk barbecue is the fact that NO ONE ELSE IS. Unless you think it would be fine for every person in America to have friends over this weekend, you shouldn't either.

Not every state is the SAME, GET IT!? Different rules in my state.

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah it's sustainable in my house/yard too. I realize not everyone has a home with privacy and a yard, but if you do, suck it up buttercup.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s “sustainable.” It’s necessary.

My kids haven’t left the house since March 16 and will continue to stay at home for as long as necessary.

Please tell me you're not serious about this. Your kids literally have not left the house since March 16? I do hope that's a typo.

Yes, I am serious. They have left the house to go for walks together, and on their own. The older one is a cross country runner, and he goes for runs on his own.

One of them went to pick up takeout curbside a few weeks ago.

That’s it.

What do you think they should be doing?

Not that PP, but your post sounded like they hadn't been outdoors, period. She asked you if you meant it literally and you said yes, so....

The point is that they have not seen friends, have not socialized, have not shot baskets with anyone outside of our immediate family. They will not do any of that for the foreseeable future.

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Anonymous wrote:The order USED to be no groups of more than 10. It is now NO Groups at all-stick to those who live in your home.

We are not loosening things up because we care about EVERYONE not just ourselves. We teach our kids we are not special fragile snowflakes. They keep in touch with friends online. It's tough, but it is manageable. They get plenty of exercise too. We feel it is important to teach them not to be entitled and expect special treatment.

+1000. Everyone is being asked to make sacrifices for the greater good--how can people justify telling their kids that they're exempt? Of course it "helps them tremendously." But learning that sometimes you don't get to do what you want, and there's a value in doing something for others, will help them more in the long run. Their own kids are going to ask them how they managed and what are they going to say? "Oh, we didn't really follow the rules so it wasn't actually that bad." and their kids will be like "wow, you suck."

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t live in DC, I live in Oregon now and our curve is beyond flattened. Our hospitals are empty. Everyone here are still acting like they are going to drop dead going on a walk though.

I gave in recently to two friends hanging out. After a few store trips where I had so many ppl around me, it felt super pointless to allow that but not allow a handful of friends (whose families are all at home) esp considering the super low cases in my county.

Kids are almost entirely safe from severe symptoms of coronavirus - when you let them hang out, you are really just endangering the adults in your house. So that’s your decision. I personally am not afraid and think that as we aren’t getting rid of it anytime soon, and vaccine looks unlikely (considering past history) we need to move on somewhat from this fear paralysis and accept the virus will be something many of us will get.

And no I’m not a protester - Im proud of my state actually just ready to move on.

Your about 3 weeks behind in the news or you chose the wrong language. We used to think kids were "almost entirely safe from severe symptoms." Since then kids with no known pre-existing conditions have died. They are less likely than we are to get a severe response and even less likely than their grandparents, but kids absolutely are at risk, they can have permanent damage from this illness and they can die. This goes beyond flu risks.

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah it's sustainable in my house/yard too. I realize not everyone has a home with privacy and a yard, but if you do, suck it up buttercup.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s “sustainable.” It’s necessary.

My kids haven’t left the house since March 16 and will continue to stay at home for as long as necessary.

Please tell me you're not serious about this. Your kids literally have not left the house since March 16? I do hope that's a typo.

Yes, I am serious. They have left the house to go for walks together, and on their own. The older one is a cross country runner, and he goes for runs on his own.

One of them went to pick up takeout curbside a few weeks ago.

That’s it.

What do you think they should be doing?

Not that PP, but your post sounded like they hadn't been outdoors, period. She asked you if you meant it literally and you said yes, so....

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah it's sustainable in my house/yard too. I realize not everyone has a home with privacy and a yard, but if you do, suck it up buttercup.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s “sustainable.” It’s necessary.

My kids haven’t left the house since March 16 and will continue to stay at home for as long as necessary.

Please tell me you're not serious about this. Your kids literally have not left the house since March 16? I do hope that's a typo.

Yes, I am serious. They have left the house to go for walks together, and on their own. The older one is a cross country runner, and he goes for runs on his own.

One of them went to pick up takeout curbside a few weeks ago.

That’s it.

What do you think they should be doing?

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Anonymous wrote:The goal was to flatten the curve. We have done that. Mission accomplished.

It is not going to be just another six weeks of this virus. Probably a year or more. So we will need to relax the social distancing policies to survive, politically, emotionally and emotionally.

People keep saying we've "accomplished" the goal of flattening the curve, so we're "done."

That's literally not how this works.

It's flatter than it would be BECAUSE WE ARE STAYING AT HOME. Once we resume anything even vaguely resembling normal life-- without heavy testing and tracing-- the curve will shoot up again.

Like-- what do you think we have PERMANENTLY accomplished at this point? Not much. It sucks, but I cannot fathom why people think we actually squashed the virus in any meaningful way at this point. We made it so most hospitals aren't overwhelmed-- that's why you flatten the infection curve. We haven't defeated the virus-- there are many more people infected now than there were on March 10 or 15. If we are talking about the risk of illness and death, we are in worse shape to interact with one another than we were in March 15. We are MORE likely to get the disease now.

We’re fine with the STAY AT HOME part. That was never about elimination of the virus or the risk. It was about protecting our health care systems, many of which are now do empty they’re going broke.

It’s time to move on, risks and all. I’m will to continue some social distancing but will no longer stay cooped up, locked away from friends and family. We’re planning and outdoor BBQ for next week for example, for a small group.

So the rules just don't apply to you. Awesome.

I have followed "the rules," more or less to the letter. We have achieved our mission in flattening the curve. Yes, I think it's time to start loosening up. If you disagree, that's fine. You don't have to attend my BBQ.

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah it's sustainable in my house/yard too. I realize not everyone has a home with privacy and a yard, but if you do, suck it up buttercup.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s “sustainable.” It’s necessary.

My kids haven’t left the house since March 16 and will continue to stay at home for as long as necessary.

Please tell me you're not serious about this. Your kids literally have not left the house since March 16? I do hope that's a typo.

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Anonymous wrote:The goal was to flatten the curve. We have done that. Mission accomplished.

It is not going to be just another six weeks of this virus. Probably a year or more. So we will need to relax the social distancing policies to survive, politically, emotionally and emotionally.

+1. The virus could stick around, it could be less of a problem in the summer and come back in the fall like other viruses do, it could burn out like SARS did, we could get to a point where we have herd immunity. We don't know. But at some point we're going to have to weigh economics, education, civil liberties, etc. with the risk. I'm happy to see that in the reopening guidelines for governors (no, not the reopening plan from the White House, but one put together by the Association of Governors, led by Hogan and Cuomo) includes balancing medical/hospital resources is part of the plan. With Maryland re-opening Laurel Hospital to accept COVID patients, that's a big help in the balance. Flattening the curve was never meant to prevent everyone from getting COVID, it was to try to prevent everyone from getting it at the same time. The curve doesn't come to a complete stop, it just flattens and lengthens.

Of course. We know all of this. Don't you think it's best to then wait for the data driven plan instead of everyone just doing what feels best right now?

Well we may be waiting for a LONG time as the data keeps changing. Remember how we were told wearing face masks was useless? And now we're told to wear face masks with the Surgeon General giving us a cute little youtube tutorial.

Remember how asymptomatic carriers were contagious? The latest is they aren't.

Remember how mortality rates are changing practically daily?

And it's understandable that the data will keep changing. That's how science works. But we may never have this completely figured out, heck we can't even get a completely effective flu shot (I say this as someone who gets one every year and makes my kids). So for the data to be set in stone and not changing, we're going to be waiting a long time.

This. X1000.

Where is this?

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Anonymous wrote:The goal was to flatten the curve. We have done that. Mission accomplished.

It is not going to be just another six weeks of this virus. Probably a year or more. So we will need to relax the social distancing policies to survive, politically, emotionally and emotionally.

+1. The virus could stick around, it could be less of a problem in the summer and come back in the fall like other viruses do, it could burn out like SARS did, we could get to a point where we have herd immunity. We don't know. But at some point we're going to have to weigh economics, education, civil liberties, etc. with the risk. I'm happy to see that in the reopening guidelines for governors (no, not the reopening plan from the White House, but one put together by the Association of Governors, led by Hogan and Cuomo) includes balancing medical/hospital resources is part of the plan. With Maryland re-opening Laurel Hospital to accept COVID patients, that's a big help in the balance. Flattening the curve was never meant to prevent everyone from getting COVID, it was to try to prevent everyone from getting it at the same time. The curve doesn't come to a complete stop, it just flattens and lengthens.

Of course. We know all of this. Don't you think it's best to then wait for the data driven plan instead of everyone just doing what feels best right now?

Well we may be waiting for a LONG time as the data keeps changing. Remember how we were told wearing face masks was useless? And now we're told to wear face masks with the Surgeon General giving us a cute little youtube tutorial.

Remember how asymptomatic carriers were contagious? The latest is they aren't.

Remember how mortality rates are changing practically daily?

And it's understandable that the data will keep changing. That's how science works. But we may never have this completely figured out, heck we can't even get a completely effective flu shot (I say this as someone who gets one every year and makes my kids). So for the data to be set in stone and not changing, we're going to be waiting a long time.

This. X1000.

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Anonymous wrote:The goal was to flatten the curve. We have done that. Mission accomplished.

It is not going to be just another six weeks of this virus. Probably a year or more. So we will need to relax the social distancing policies to survive, politically, emotionally and emotionally.

+1. The virus could stick around, it could be less of a problem in the summer and come back in the fall like other viruses do, it could burn out like SARS did, we could get to a point where we have herd immunity. We don't know. But at some point we're going to have to weigh economics, education, civil liberties, etc. with the risk. I'm happy to see that in the reopening guidelines for governors (no, not the reopening plan from the White House, but one put together by the Association of Governors, led by Hogan and Cuomo) includes balancing medical/hospital resources is part of the plan. With Maryland re-opening Laurel Hospital to accept COVID patients, that's a big help in the balance. Flattening the curve was never meant to prevent everyone from getting COVID, it was to try to prevent everyone from getting it at the same time. The curve doesn't come to a complete stop, it just flattens and lengthens.

Of course. We know all of this. Don't you think it's best to then wait for the data driven plan instead of everyone just doing what feels best right now?

Well we may be waiting for a LONG time as the data keeps changing. Remember how we were told wearing face masks was useless? And now we're told to wear face masks with the Surgeon General giving us a cute little youtube tutorial.

Remember how asymptomatic carriers were contagious? The latest is they aren't.

Remember how mortality rates are changing practically daily?

And it's understandable that the data will keep changing. That's how science works. But we may never have this completely figured out, heck we can't even get a completely effective flu shot (I say this as someone who gets one every year and makes my kids). So for the data to be set in stone and not changing, we're going to be waiting a long time.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm the "BECAUSE WE ARE STAYING AT HOME" lady and this has been fun, as usual, DCUM. Great reading comprehension all around. Certainly no one putting words into my mouth, like pretending I told everyone to STAY AT HOME FOREVER OR UNTIL THERE'S A VACCINE OR WHATEVER.

I was going to present a bunch of points about infection rate (even 1.5 new infections per person is exponential-- ever increasing-- though it's much lower than the 2.5 expected with zero social distancing measures). Or mention that hey, in the DC area and many others, infection rates are continuing to increase even with social distancing! Hospitals may not (yet) be overwhelmed here, but we haven't (yet) flattened the curve at all! Yes, let's relax things now, while we are seeing a rising hospitalization rate every day. Oh, it's not affecting you so much in Nebraska yet? Cool, that couldn't possibly mean that you started out with fewer cases or you have yet to see your peak or anything. It must mean that you did something right, and now your job is done.

Great job, everyone! It's definitely not super early in the game, with loads of possible effects we haven't yet seen. We've done it! Time to have that barbecue that "no one here is saying" we should.

In conclusion:

in my state, the curve has definitely flattened and we have an overabundance of hospital space.

So you are wrong on all counts. Our barbecue will continue. But you continue trying to lock up your kids.

What makes it possible for you to have a low-risk barbecue is the fact that NO ONE ELSE IS. Unless you think it would be fine for every person in America to have friends over this weekend, you shouldn't either.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm the "BECAUSE WE ARE STAYING AT HOME" lady and this has been fun, as usual, DCUM. Great reading comprehension all around. Certainly no one putting words into my mouth, like pretending I told everyone to STAY AT HOME FOREVER OR UNTIL THERE'S A VACCINE OR WHATEVER.

I was going to present a bunch of points about infection rate (even 1.5 new infections per person is exponential-- ever increasing-- though it's much lower than the 2.5 expected with zero social distancing measures). Or mention that hey, in the DC area and many others, infection rates are continuing to increase even with social distancing! Hospitals may not (yet) be overwhelmed here, but we haven't (yet) flattened the curve at all! Yes, let's relax things now, while we are seeing a rising hospitalization rate every day. Oh, it's not affecting you so much in Nebraska yet? Cool, that couldn't possibly mean that you started out with fewer cases or you have yet to see your peak or anything. It must mean that you did something right, and now your job is done.

Great job, everyone! It's definitely not super early in the game, with loads of possible effects we haven't yet seen. We've done it! Time to have that barbecue that "no one here is saying" we should.

In conclusion:

in my state, the curve has definitely flattened and we have an overabundance of hospital space.

So you are wrong on all counts. Our barbecue will continue. But you continue trying to lock up your kids.

What makes it possible for you to have a low-risk barbecue is the fact that NO ONE ELSE IS. Unless you think it would be fine for every person in America to have friends over this weekend, you shouldn't either.

Not every state is the SAME, GET IT!? Different rules in my state.