Anonymous wrote:Eighth grade lunchtime in the cafeteria. Sat with two girls who I knew casually but was not really friends with. Hoped we could become friends. As soon as I sat down, one said to me, “Is that really your face or did your neck throw up?” Thirty years later I’m still not sure what her motivation was but damn did it hurt. I was completely humiliated.
Anonymous wrote:In 9th grade, I dated a guy for maybe 3 weeks. He told me, "my friends think you're ugly but I told them I still want to go out with you."
It was such a douchey comment.
Anonymous wrote:Some of you are so weird. By some of you I mean the idiot who insists she can tell if people are ugly or not based on chat board posts. And to everyone who has been called ugly: fk the haters.
Anonymous wrote:I was alway told “You’re so pretty for a fat girl”....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
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ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....
Hmmm my ugly meter puts you at about a 2 on a scale of 1 to 10.. 10 being Hot.
LOL not sure how your meter works online but not to worried about it. One of the women who called me ugly was anorexic and the other was my mother. I've been called beautiful way more times than ugly. : )
Ouch! I’m assuming you’re overweight because overweight people think all thin people are Anorexic and if your mom calls you ugly well you’re pretty much ugly.
She was anorexic to the point of being involuntarily hospitalized and my mother is a competitive narcissist whose instincts are to destroy the competition by attacking wherever they think will hurt the most.
Nice try, though, PP. You are a horrible person for trying to make me feel ugly. I don't know what you look like but you are clearly ugly on the inside.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
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ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....
Hmmm my ugly meter puts you at about a 2 on a scale of 1 to 10.. 10 being Hot.
LOL not sure how your meter works online but not to worried about it. One of the women who called me ugly was anorexic and the other was my mother. I've been called beautiful way more times than ugly. : )
Ouch! I’m assuming you’re overweight because overweight people think all thin people are Anorexic and if your mom calls you ugly well you’re pretty much ugly.