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Meant to say The best, not the beat.
but maybe autocorrect is kismet? Hee hee!





Good luck

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand the wall you’re putting up — as if it’s an absolute no-go. You have 6 months left working for him. I just don’t see why any of this is a deal-breaker. But, okay.

I'm sorry if I've been vague, just trying not to put myself. I know I lot of people read DCUM. It's also because. I'm confused. I know what the right and wise thing to do is, and I'm doing that. But then there's days like today and yesterday where we talk for a whole hour and I second guess myself.

I guess the wall is there to protect myself. I've had my share of heartbreak as I'm sure most women my age have, and I'm just not willing to do it again, especially when the odds are not favorably.

Getting way ahead of myself, but long distance relationships don't work, particularly if those involved are living in different countries. I couldn't ask him to stay. I realistically can't uproot my life long-term. My parents are here and getting older, I don't want to miss out on time with them. My sisters are also here with their families, I want to be apart of my nieces and nephews growing up.
And none of that factors in his children. Although they are young and wouldn't know anything was up right away.

My whole plan with this job was to regroup, take the classes I need and possibly go to nursing school. Nursing school seems like it will be on hold at least another semester, but even still. Dropping everything for a romance?

What would I say to him anyway? . I think there could be something here? Try it out for the next 6 months?
Change my mind about the kiss and resign so we could date instead?

Are there no Scandinavian nursing schools?


Tell him when you’re ready, you respect him, have appreciated the time working with the family, but we’re grappling with the kiss because you enjoyed it. Tell him everything you shared here I’d you want.

Why not? If you completely screw things up, he will be out of your life for good at the end of the school year. Kids don’t need to know. But you give him time to consider how to make it work if it’s something he wants too.

Lol. Of course there's nursing schools. I don't know how easy it is for foreigners to get into.

I have vacation coming up. I think I'm going to take the time apart from him and the kids to process exactly how I feel and what I want to do, and go from there.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand the wall you’re putting up — as if it’s an absolute no-go. You have 6 months left working for him. I just don’t see why any of this is a deal-breaker. But, okay.

I'm sorry if I've been vague, just trying not to put myself. I know I lot of people read DCUM. It's also because. I'm confused. I know what the right and wise thing to do is, and I'm doing that. But then there's days like today and yesterday where we talk for a whole hour and I second guess myself.

I guess the wall is there to protect myself. I've had my share of heartbreak as I'm sure most women my age have, and I'm just not willing to do it again, especially when the odds are not favorably.

Getting way ahead of myself, but long distance relationships don't work, particularly if those involved are living in different countries. I couldn't ask him to stay. I realistically can't uproot my life long-term. My parents are here and getting older, I don't want to miss out on time with them. My sisters are also here with their families, I want to be apart of my nieces and nephews growing up.
And none of that factors in his children. Although they are young and wouldn't know anything was up right away.

My whole plan with this job was to regroup, take the classes I need and possibly go to nursing school. Nursing school seems like it will be on hold at least another semester, but even still. Dropping everything for a romance?

What would I say to him anyway? . I think there could be something here? Try it out for the next 6 months?
Change my mind about the kiss and resign so we could date instead?

Are there no Scandinavian nursing schools?


Tell him when you’re ready, you respect him, have appreciated the time working with the family, but we’re grappling with the kiss because you enjoyed it. Tell him everything you shared here I’d you want.

Why not? If you completely screw things up, he will be out of your life for good at the end of the school year. Kids don’t need to know. But you give him time to consider how to make it work if it’s something he wants too.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand the wall you’re putting up — as if it’s an absolute no-go. You have 6 months left working for him. I just don’t see why any of this is a deal-breaker. But, okay.

I'm sorry if I've been vague, just trying not to put myself. I know I lot of people read DCUM. It's also because. I'm confused. I know what the right and wise thing to do is, and I'm doing that. But then there's days like today and yesterday where we talk for a whole hour and I second guess myself.

I guess the wall is there to protect myself. I've had my share of heartbreak as I'm sure most women my age have, and I'm just not willing to do it again, especially when the odds are not favorably.

Getting way ahead of myself, but long distance relationships don't work, particularly if those involved are living in different countries. I couldn't ask him to stay. I realistically can't uproot my life long-term. My parents are here and getting older, I don't want to miss out on time with them. My sisters are also here with their families, I want to be apart of my nieces and nephews growing up.
And none of that factors in his children. Although they are young and wouldn't know anything was up right away.

My whole plan with this job was to regroup, take the classes I need and possibly go to nursing school. Nursing school seems like it will be on hold at least another semester, but even still. Dropping everything for a romance?

What would I say to him anyway? . I think there could be something here? Try it out for the next 6 months?
Change my mind about the kiss and resign so we could date instead?

You talk for hours? Is this before you leave for the day or is he contacting you at home? What are you talking about?

Family is important. I'll give you that. But would your parents and sisters want you to put your life on hold for them? Your parents have each other. Your sisters have families of their own. Your nieces and nephews will grow up and have lives of their own. What about you? I'm not saying it has to be this guy, but you can't live your life for other people.

Anonymous wrote:I understand, OP. Life doesn’t always work out like a Hallmark movie. But I do hope things turn out well for you, no matter what happens.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand the wall you’re putting up — as if it’s an absolute no-go. You have 6 months left working for him. I just don’t see why any of this is a deal-breaker. But, okay.

I'm sorry if I've been vague, just trying not to put myself. I know I lot of people read DCUM. It's also because. I'm confused. I know what the right and wise thing to do is, and I'm doing that. But then there's days like today and yesterday where we talk for a whole hour and I second guess myself.

I guess the wall is there to protect myself. I've had my share of heartbreak as I'm sure most women my age have, and I'm just not willing to do it again, especially when the odds are not favorably.

Getting way ahead of myself, but long distance relationships don't work, particularly if those involved are living in different countries. I couldn't ask him to stay. I realistically can't uproot my life long-term. My parents are here and getting older, I don't want to miss out on time with them. My sisters are also here with their families, I want to be apart of my nieces and nephews growing up.
And none of that factors in his children. Although they are young and wouldn't know anything was up right away.

My whole plan with this job was to regroup, take the classes I need and possibly go to nursing school. Nursing school seems like it will be on hold at least another semester, but even still. Dropping everything for a romance?

What would I say to him anyway? . I think there could be something here? Try it out for the next 6 months?
Change my mind about the kiss and resign so we could date instead?

Anonymous wrote:Just hope you are not a rebound fling

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand the wall you’re putting up — as if it’s an absolute no-go. You have 6 months left working for him. I just don’t see why any of this is a deal-breaker. But, okay.

I'm sorry if I've been vague, just trying not to put myself. I know I lot of people read DCUM. It's also because. I'm confused. I know what the right and wise thing to do is, and I'm doing that. But then there's days like today and yesterday where we talk for a whole hour and I second guess myself.

I guess the wall is there to protect myself. I've had my share of heartbreak as I'm sure most women my age have, and I'm just not willing to do it again, especially when the odds are not favorably.

Getting way ahead of myself, but long distance relationships don't work, particularly if those involved are living in different countries. I couldn't ask him to stay. I realistically can't uproot my life long-term. My parents are here and getting older, I don't want to miss out on time with them. My sisters are also here with their families, I want to be apart of my nieces and nephews growing up.
And none of that factors in his children. Although they are young and wouldn't know anything was up right away.

My whole plan with this job was to regroup, take the classes I need and possibly go to nursing school. Nursing school seems like it will be on hold at least another semester, but even still. Dropping everything for a romance?

What would I say to him anyway? . I think there could be something here? Try it out for the next 6 months?
Change my mind about the kiss and resign so we could date instead?

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand the wall you’re putting up — as if it’s an absolute no-go. You have 6 months left working for him. I just don’t see why any of this is a deal-breaker. But, okay.

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like the plot to half the Hallmark Christmas movies.

Let’s name it Troll City.

The whole dcum Nanny Forum is filled with this hypothetical fake drama. It’s like D grade Young Adult fake literature.