OP, I don't know if you are reading this thread still, but I encourage you to seek out a therapist before you turn your back on your marriage. Your body has been through a lot in the past couple of years. with so many failed pregnancies.

Anonymous wrote:Why didn’t you freeze your eggs? That’s on you

You're a mean girl. GTFO.

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Sorry but you sound selfish and it’s all about you. Good things come to those that wait.

I disagree. Op waited 5 prime years...not for husbay to get tenure but yo get tenure track! That should happen in a year or two, not at age 35ish.

If it's DH failed to get a tenure track job, he should have accepted he's not competitive, deferred to his well.paid wife and started a family while they still could.

Op sacrificed fertility and has multiple m/c do DH could pursue his dream.

Sorry op, I feel for you and understand why you're done.

This is OP. This is exactly how I feel. People familiar with academia and fertility will agree with you as well. A lot of people commenting have knowledge of neither.

People have kids in all kinds of situations, biology does not wait. There was no excuse and I feel like her DH pulled a bait and switch. I wouldn't have waited, but it's done.

I would promptly divorce him OP, and have a child on your own. It will be much easier and you won't ever have to worry about divorce and a tug of war with the kid.

You always have time to find a mate, but the next 5 years is the time to plan your family. You're still young and yes find another doctor...

OP will likely be going to the pokey, as she illegally kicked DH out of HIS house.